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[mayadile]

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Please for this weekend I need something to stay in a hotel so I can finally rest in a bed and relax while recovering from my asthma, taking my medicine treatment. I don't want to sleep outside right now for my health! It'll help so I can breathe better.

That and it'll be the weekend so I won't be able to receive any of the money from gofundme until monday! So still keep supporting me!!

Here --> PAYPAL

Just so I have something for the weekend so I don't have to be stuck outside!!! Sleeping in the dark at night is dangerous and terrifying.

[mayadile]

Everyone please! I need something to eat tonight and drink, I need to buy some drinks to help my dry and sore throat. I'm still outside this night and I have to sleep out here again when I really don't want to. I've been coughing and having asthma attacks from car smoke and pollen, it was scary.

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[mayadile]

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I still need help!!!!

[dadbot]

Just in case

[sappire-charizard]

I’m actually going to reblog a thing just because this is really important.

As someone who has epilepsy and used to have several grand mal seizures a day, I’d also like to add that “offer help” can range anywhere from keeping the person calm to explaining to them where they are and what they were doing to even just telling them they should sit and rest for a while longer (lack or coordination is common, and it can be hard to walk straight or see clearly).

It’s okay for them to take up to a half hour to fully regain their bearings and sort out what they were doing prior to the seizure. Just answer any questions calmly and be there for support.

If they come around and you start to panic or shake them or ask them what the heck is wrong with them they are going to freak out and panic too.

I cannot stress it enough that this is bad.

If someone has a seizure and they come out of it, please. please stay calm. They are likely disoriented and confused, even if it’s only for a minute or two, and you don’t want them panicking on top of that because they can have another seizure as a result.

[felicityredbarrow-blog]

IMPORTANT

[happylittleblogger]

IMPORTANT because last year a kid in my class had a seizure, none of us even knew he was at risk for them either so just cause you don’t think you know anyone doesn’t mean you don’t 

stay safe

[kyuofcosmic]

I have to stress how important it is to time a seizure. If it lasts more than a few minutes, call an ambulance.

DO NOT CALL THE POLICE. I’m dead fucking serious. I had a grand mal in public once and the POLICE were called and imagine coming out of the seizure, feeling like you got smacked in the head with a sack full of bricks, confused, dazed, in desperate need of some sugar to boost low blood pressure and some DIPSHIT has called the police and I was being threatened with being ‘drunk and disorderly’. It took a phone call to my doctors office to get them to back off. The police cannot properly deal with sick people. 

Offer help can be:

assuring person where they are/what time it is

getting them something to drink if they can; seizure burns so much energy and does cause a blood pressure drop

getting them safely to transport or a carer

getting them some dignity like a blanket/towel [loosing control of your bladder and bowels is fucking horrifying]

ensuring they have a way to get home. Someone who has just had a seizure should NEVER DRIVE straight after

calling emergency services if you notice any of these symptoms because they may have stroked out.

Why you shouldn’t put anything in someone’s mouth: they will choke. Yes, they may bite their tongue but I can assure you it’s less traumatic than cracking your jaw on someone’s greasy wallet or choking on a spoon.

DO NOT HOLD ANYONE DOWN. Example: someone pinned my right shoulder mid-seizure a few years back and how I have a permanently displaced and clicking shoulder. Let the person flail around, those muscles are out of control and restraining them does cause more damage to the patient and you.

[thatchronicfeeling]

[Image Description: First Aid for Seizures (Convulsions, generalised tonic-clonic, grand mal). Underneath there are 9 cartoons illustrating the following instructions: cushion head and remove glasses, loosen tight clothing, turn on side, time the seizure with a watch, don’t put anything in mouth, look for ID, don’t hold down, as seizure ends…, …offer help’ End ID.]

[moon-cricket-chirps]

I’m a diabetic and lemme tell you, DONT TIME A DIABETIC SEIZURE! look for that medical alert bracelet/necklace/whatever ASAP. Some seizures will end and the person will wake up.

HOWEVER!!! most times a diabetic has a seizure they won’t be waking up without medical attention. Timing the seizure also won’t do anything for a diabetic seizure aside from causing more harm to the diabetic.

If it’s a diabetic having a seizure, call 911 (ambulance not police) stay with them, monitor them but call 911 and get help as soon as you can.

[mayadile]

Hey guys things got really serious here and I'm freaking out because we had to get rid of some of our belongings since we couldn't drag them around, plus we don't have a Lyft. It's hot and my asthma is acting up.

Donate to Help Us Find Safety and a Fresh Start, organized by Benji Y

I never imagined I’d be in this position, but I’m reaching out because my mom, our three… Benji Y needs your support for Help Us Find Safety

I had to make another gofundme, nothing we are doing is helping and relatives won't help us and let us stay stranded outside. It's hot and there are no hotels that are cheap this weekend. Again we don't have any open shelters. The rest is in the link.

I'm sorry again but I'm in need of a lot of help and this time it's dire. Mostly for my mental health. I've spiraled so hard this morning I want it to stop.

So please help me, I've been crying for hours.

[tasty-tiktoks]

[stupidjewishwhiteboy]

We were robbed that this didn’t happen in reality

[depsidase]

[wintersoldierfell]

you've heard of death of the author, now get ready for death of the audience: where instead of basing your reaction on a thousand uninformed opinions online, you actually read the text and engage with it

[wintersoldierfell]

girl help there's people on this post who can't actually read my text

[nonbinary-wrath-month]

The reason why so many of y'all's feminism sucks is because you still believe deep down in your hearts that there are only two kinds of people in the world: precious, ethereal, fragile dollthings called "women", and violent, lustful, rage-fueled apes called "men". Until you throw that idea away, 3rd-grade-tier "girls rule boys drool, girls are princesses and boys are stinky :(" is as feminist as we'll ever get-- and I hope it's obvious that that's lightyears away from the bare minimum of where we need to be.

[nonbinary-wrath-month]

I don't know how I'm supposed to explain to ostensibly trans-friendly feminists that "women are beautiful soft things made of glass, men are obsessed with violence and sex" is exactly what the patriarchy wants you to believe. Patriarchy wants you to believe that being a woman and/or having a vagina (patriarchy generally believes those two things are synonymous) makes one shatter on impact with reality. It makes you easier to control if you are scared shitless of the other half of the population, and it makes you more compliant with your lot in life if you believe it is in the nature of the other half of the population to rape and kill rather than realise those were choices those individual rapists and murderers made. There is no way to make gender essentialism progressive and feminist, because it is one of patriarchy's tools of subjugation. Stop trying to make it progressive.

And I can scream all of that from the rooftops over and over again, and what I hear in reply is "Trans men really are men because no woman would ever decide to become an inherently evil repugnant rapist ape", and "You're so right. Trans women are women because they too are pretty delicate little objects I can fuck", and "You're non-binary? So are you fucktoy non-binary or sexpest non-binary?", and my patience runs ever thinner.

[sea-salted-wolverine]

Hey. Heyhey. Do me a favor real quick.

If you don't already know you have issues doing so, squat down real quick. Bend your knees all the way and touch the floor. Just make sure you can do it. Okay? For me? And then stand up all the way and make sure you can balance on one foot.

Like. You don't need to blow it into some huge thing. Just. Make sure all your bits and peices still work the way you think they do.

[sea-salted-wolverine]

Can you turn your head to look behind you without twisting your shoulders? What about standing on your toes? If you sit down on the floor can you get back up without using your hands?

If there was ever a tumblr post worth sending to your mom, it's this one.

Just saying, bodies are a use it or lose it kinda thing.

[sea-salted-wolverine]

okay so every time I see this post crop back up in queues and notifications I end up thinking about it. Because I made the post and even I'm still doing the thing where I read the post about maintaining range of motion in my delicate meatsuit and I nod and hmm and think yeah that's a good idea and then dont move from where I'm curled up shrimp style staring at the nightmare rectangle.

So like. Thinking real hard about moving doesn't count as moving. Major bummer. Anyways. Joints.

[storyweavingspider]

@fucking-relax helps a lot with this tbh

[mayadile]

URGENT!!!PLEASE BOOST!!

I do need something for today!!! I would like to have enough to stay in for the week until May 28 hits so I can get my testosterone! Please I need something for today so I won't be outside in the heat!! And the goal I'm going for is to get $700-800! It would help me plenty this week to get things done! Paypal

So help boost so I can stay out of the heat!!

(Note: It is very disheartening that I have people saying they're unfollowing or are skeptical of my situation, I am really in need of help, I have been going through this for awhile now and I don't need to dox myself to show that I am going through alot. I have close friends to back me up and know of my situation. I have been to the hospital, I have been calling people, I have been calling shelters. I need all the help I can get, so please keep helping me so I can get to my goal.)

[mayadile]

GOOD NEWS!!!

So we got news that the truck my mom's boyfriend got will be here in 4 days!! We just need to last in a hotel until it gets here 😭 this is very good news and I'm happy so if we get this truck I'll finally be okay!! So help me this last time!!! Please!!! PayPal

I have nothing for tomorrow so if we can make it until Sunday it would be a blessing!!! To my goal ($700-800) or whatever, if we make it to this truck I'll be good 😭😭😭 I'm so happy I can finally live normally!! Dang I'll even take a picture to show when it gets here!!!!

[mayadile]

Please I need something for this morning at 11am or I'll be outside!!! Please!!!! I'm almost there!!!

[passionpeachy]

The way adult fandom people hold indie online creators and cartoons to a much higher standard than their actual local politicians. You could be putting that energy into terrorizing and protesting conservatives at your town hall and actually make a good material impact on the world but instead you're background checking everything the trans woman who made the amazing digital circus has ever said

[passionpeachy]

The point isn't "stop criticizing indie artists" or "defend your favorite show under this post". I don't even watch Digital Circus and no one is above criticism. Literally every indie show is getting torn to shreds on twitter right now and I'm not saying this to defend anyone I don't know. The point is "someone who actually has the power to kill us all and get away with it deserves way more ire and accountability than a cartoonist and I expect grown adults to understand this"

[cyanide-sippy-cup]

For anybody not caught up: Tennessee just passed a new map that pretty much makes it so black neighborhoods have no power in local votes. Two things about this. While protestors were chanting "No Jim Crow", white Tennessee lawmakers were caught laughing on video. On top of this, Representative Justin Pearson and his brother KeShaun Pearson were arrested for trying to give their takes on the matter (which is not only their legal right but literally his job). If you give a shit about black people, help fight this. We can't allow a return to Jim Crow.

[sickbitterandcoveredinglitter]

Like a month ago I messaged a craft group about accessibility for wheelchairs and the answer I got was “there’s a lot of stairs but we have cute boys who can carry you”. And it’s…not good. As a wheelchair bound person I largely depend on people when I want to go out and do *anything* so I’m used to it, I laugh it off, make an annoyed post about it and off I go. But I wanna just say a thing real quick.

Even if I wasn’t gay, wasn’t a survivor scared of men, getting help as a disabled person is just…Not a pleasant thing to us! Imagine for a sec how you’d feel being carried up a flight of stairs. You’re a grown person. You’re being touched in an awkward way. You’d rather do it yourself. You’re So Uncomfortable. It’s not where I look for the beginning of a romantic relationship. So like…could abled people stop doing this thing where they think helping us in a condescending and infantilizing way is cute? Cause I’m real tired. Just get me a ramp or lift and I’m cool. I don’t need a dating service when I’m just trying to go about my day

[sickbitterandcoveredinglitter]

If you’re abled please reblog it cause like…the more ppl knows the better

[handweavers]

the idea that the british empire accepted their decline with grace and peacefully and willingly withdrew from all their colonial territories and took their loss quietly is commonly expressed as fact but it's very much untrue, it's a successful propaganda campaign for them to claim that this is what happened but they were busy committing war crimes throughout their colonial territories long after supposed "independence" & they continued/continue to maintain economic control over these regions and actively killed local movements that wanted economic sovereignty, land reform, nationalization of natural resources much like the united states did within their sphere of influence. i say this not to minimize the atrocities the us has committed but to make a point that the uk is also guilty of these crimes up to the present as much as they'd like to pretend this was an era that ended a century ago. british colonial violence isn't something that ended after ww2 it continued throughout the 20th century and still to this day if you look at the actions undertaken by the british military and their mercenaries throughout the former empire

[helpimsotired]

Justin McElroy talking about accessibility in live theatre (June 9, 2019)

[formichi]

[quasi-normalcy]

“Art is happening everywhere all of the time” but an awful lot of it seems to only ever happen in New York and London, doesn’t it?

[puppygirllaika]

a frustrating number of people believe that “New York and London” constitutes “everywhere”

[drneverland]

Not to mention some of these shows are literally impossible to do on a small scale because purchasing the rights to perform them would bankrupt most small theaters.

[mayadile]

UPDATE!! PLEASE READ!!

Good news! I now have an appointment with my provider on May 13th! So hopefully I'll still be in a hotel to do the appointment so I'll be able to get prescribed my medication in time! So if I make it there I'll be fine! Do if you could help me get there it'll be such a big favor that I can go back to therapy and get my medication and testosterone!!! Paypal

I just need enough for 10 days!!! Each day is 54$ and a whole week is 230$

Thank you for all the help you all did for me so far!! I'm slowly progressing!!!

[mayadile]

HEY HEY!!! URGENT!! In the morning I would have to leave the hotel since the two days are over, I hate how fast days go and I was actually finally relaxing too 😭 by 11 am in the morning I would have to pack up and go back outside and I really don't want to since the weather is bizarre this week with sudden rain and blazing heat. And I don't feel like dragging all my luggage back out to find a place to sit again, I was actually slowly healing again ;;; please please help me have more days, I REALLY want to rest! I am begging right now!! Paypal!!

im serious I do t want to wake up to pack everything up again and go back sleeping outside, I'm going to get I'll again, I want to heal!!!!

[angeltiddies]

reverse gaslighting where i pretend to know exactly what you are talking about

[oneheadtoanother]

[the-text-doctor]

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[the-arcade-doctor]

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[13thsinnr]

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[blairpuffs]

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[surdus-magus]

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[gayvampyr]

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[gracebeth3604]

this has probably already been done but:

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[dogin8]

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[pippins-place]

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[raccoon-hybrid]

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[brain-empty-deactivated20241210]

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[summerblademoontime]

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