oh, AI, are you okay?

regal/juno | 23 | genderqueer butch dyke | icon by @barbsart

[deadhorse77]

hii I'm saint or juno, no pronouns, it/he if you must

tag me in posts about robots & rats!!

mutuals please trigger tag for incest & hand harm (even just mentions), thank you!

my wife and I are perpetually broke, so if you want to help out my cshapp & vnmo are both deadhorse77 and you can dm for ppal, or commission my wife here!

proshippers do not interact I don't give a fuck about your reasoning just leave me alone

zionists dni

transmisogynists + people who unironically use the term transandrophobia dni

active fans of dream (+ his group of people), south park, harry potter, attack on titan, + hetalia dni

[kaylmao]

what the fuck do you mean "mombasa, africa" say what fucking country its in right now.

[kaylmao]

ive seen this a couple times and only ever with african cities. this was from an official publication too not just some asshat online. the level of disrespect is absolutely staggering

[kaylmao]

africa is the only continent that is so wholly disregarded like this. even in other racist generalizations you still get country names. but the whole of africa is denied that and presented as a monolith not worth paying any attention to.

[kiwimintlime]

not aromantic but I believe in their beliefs.

"there's no platonic explanation for this" try harder bucko

[kiwimintlime]

love is a beautiful wonderful multifaceted nebulous thing that shouldn't be reduced to the strict bounds of Tier One: Romance and Tier Two: Friends. get weird with it. love your friends deeply, wildly, passionately and platonically. cowards

[chroniclyst]

"i am just a kitty of a kitty of a kitty" -nine inch claws

[pirogieses]

starting june 1st all my commission prices on vgen will be 40% off for pride month!!!

whats up!! my name is Gabe, im a 25 year old trans man in argentina and i am slowly inching towards my lifelong dream of medically and legally transitioning.

this process is costly and i am unemployable (no highschool diploma (yet, im working on it)), so if youd like some art for pride month or the upcoming artfight, please consider getting some and supporting me in the process!! 🤗

[cutecipher]

🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 Help A Family of Trans Disabled Women for Pride Month ️‍🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

Hi as many of you know we're pretty constantly behind on bills. It would be nice to have a month where we're not panicking, especially with medical bills given I'm still healing from an illness that sent me to the hospital. If it helps to know we're also the moms of @rickybabyboy

$0/$300 raised

Venmo: AGIEF

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[cutecipher]

We need to raise at least $30 by tomorrow so we can buy more food for our cat

[xenasaur]

you. put breasts on that androgynous character right fucking now. DO IT!!!

[xenasaur]

and make them fucking fat by the way. enough of "androgynous" meaning masculine and skinny

[xenasaur]

and add some melanin for gods sake

[renthony]

I've been seeing a lot of posts lately that tell dropouts "you can always go back!"

And that's not bad! It's true for a lot of people! You CAN go back later! You can apply to university, you can get your GED, you can pursue whatever level of education you want. It's not bad to share that message. If you dropped out and want to go back eventually, there is zero timeline. You can go back at any age, with any life experience. You do not have to graduate by a specific age.

But as someone who dropped out of college over a decade ago, sometimes "you can always go back!" starts to feel a little like an empty platitude. Sometimes it starts to feel grating instead of hopeful. Even when it might technically be true, sometimes it still feels like a hollow sentiment.

I just want to say, to anyone else out there who feels that way, who dropped out and CAN'T go back, potentially EVER, whether it's due to poverty or disability or any other reason:

It's okay to drop out and never go back. It might feel shitty, and you may even feel grief over it. That's real, and painful, and allowed. But you are not lesser. Even if you never go back, you are not a failure or a loser. Academics do not define your worth. You are not stupid. And it is almost certain that the system actually failed YOU.

With love,

A fellow burnout

[renthony]

A couple people have reblogged this with the comment that it's also okay to be totally confident in the decision to drop out, and to not grieve about it at all. And you know what? Yeah! They're right!

I personally still deal with a lot of grief about how my university career ended, but that's just one experience. I know other people with zero regrets, who talk openly about the ways that dropping out literally saved their lives. Life throws nasty curveballs sometimes.

So, to everyone who dropped out, for whatever reason, and however you feel about it: the educational system is a fucking minefield, but academics don't define your worth, and sometimes dropping out is the only option. Rock on.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I have noticed in recent years that men say “no homo” way less often than they used to when I was in high school at least. Like I’ve witnessed in media and online and in person adult men just willing to say “I love you” or “you look great” to their guy friends without tacking a no homo onto the end of it.

And if you think that’s not progress you weren’t there in the trenches.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I’ve seen middle aged comedians on national tv sincerely say “I love you” to their friends with no jokes attached. Nature is so slow to heal but it is possible, I tell you. We have planted trees and seen them survive.

[fivepointpalettes]

Blush Blend

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[fivepointpalettes]

Chapter Two: The Return Of The Deppressive Slump

#8f91a7 | #006693 | #2c0a58 | #605576 | #86c4eb

[transgenders]

managed to catch up on some bills with previous help received (tysm)! so i want to focus on paying this older cshapp borrow off, as it was for rent to the small cult im stuck in. it was $860 originally, $805.48 left to fully pay it off. honestly must pay asap, considering early june im going to have to pay other urgent monthly bills like normal. id rather not be late on that like last time, especially since i still need to get litter liners & food too. anything helps & i appreciate it.

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june is both pride & my birth month, id rly love to not be as stressed/behind on bills if possible. im continuously trying to get work as well.

[transgenders]

please god help me.

[justanapparatus]

why is it that when someone is struggling mentally we always ask if they've tried therapy and never give them $5000

[justanapparatus]

therapy:

another responsibility for the stressed person

requires time and money they probably don't have

takes a lot of luck and hard work and time to be effective

$5000

$5000

[cutecipher]

Hi I really need help with food and medicine. Please help a trans disabled woman.

$85/$120 raised

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[rabbitkinglune777]

trans women make this place better

[rabbitkinglune777]

not just the website but da world!

[2well2water]

no one cares that you shave your legs because of sensory issues shut the fuck up forever

[2well2water]

really galling amount of people misinterpreting this post so i'd like to clarify. i'm saying that when discussions about patriarchal beauty standards and the way women are heavily shamed and coerced into eschewing their own natural state of being (hairy) are occurring, it is unhelpful (AT BEST) to interrupt and say that the reason YOU remove the hair from your body is because of sensory issues. that's not what we're talking about. stop asking for validation for doing something that society at large wants you to do. stop derailing the conversation because you feel uncomfortable about being made aware that you, for whatever reason it is, adhere to harmful, unfair and ridiculous beauty standards. you're stepping into the middle of an important conversation that needs to be had and making it all about you. shut the fuck up forever.

[2well2water]

also quite frankly i think a lot less people would experience sensory issues if they let their hair grow out so that it isn't bristly and rough and irritating. and i cannot help but wonder why these sensory issues aren't as predominant in men. maybe you're uncomfortable with the hair on your body because you've been taught to be uncomfortable with it. just a thought.

[cutecipher]

when you see some food that's only a little poisoned