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[fadell-aldany]

when did you join tumblr? (don't vote without reblogging)

After 2020

2013-2016

2010-2013

Before 2010

Voting ended onAug 8

While you are here, I am suffering excruciating pain due to severe anemia and the shrapnel still embedded in my body from the bombing of our house while we were inside. I am in constant pain and suffer frequent fainting spells. I wanted to remind you of my situation, and that your d0nation would provide invaluable h@lp and supp0rt, which I desperately need. I see death before my eyes every moment. Please d0nate and h@lp me survive. Please.

[fadell-aldany]

I will not frgiive anyone who sees this post and ignores me, or hears about my plight and doesn't d0nate. Please h@lp us and d0nate. Your d0nations are our only hope in life. My family and I are suffering greatly, and your d0nations are our only lifeline. Please stand by me.

[fadell-aldany]

Please stand and h@lp us. My family and I are suffering constantly because of my condition, and we don't want to see any of our loved ones die before our eyes. The situation here in Gaza is extremely difficult; the bombing never stops, and people are killed every day. I implore you to d0nate any amount you can. I desperately need your h@lp to buy my medication and have my surgery as soon as possible. Please stand by me.

[fadell-aldany]

My health is very poor, and I can barely write this reblog to tell you that I despperately need your h@lp right now. Please h@lp me so I can buuy my medication as soon as possible and raiise the funnds for my travel and surgery, Please.

[naderalanqar2007]

OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD...

The doctors told me that if nothing changes in the next twelve hours, my father will die. His blood has become very thin, and every minute that passes is heavier than the last.

[naderalanqar2007]

They explained that he was still on life support, and I was told they couldn't continue his treatment indefinitely because I could no longer afford the exorbitant medical costs. I stood there speechless, feeling as if the ground had vanished beneath me.

[naderalanqar2007]

I'm begging you, I'm in Gaza, watching my father bleed before my eyes, unable to stop it. Donate now and help me save his life before it's too late. Donate now on GoFundMe

[theinternetarchive]

Please donate! I can’t imagine hearing such horrible news in his scenario. Bravery & strength have a limit. He needs help urgently, please donate.

[theinternetarchive]

If anyone could match my donation, I put $20 in today. A fraction of that, a reblog, anything helps. Just please, help my friend out if you can.

[naderalanqar2007]

Thank you so much, my friend. This donation of yours helps us a lot. Please match this donation or donate whatever you can.

[closet-keys]

please help my friend Nader to afford his father's medical bills!

[ahmed-motaz]

If I die, please remember me and pray for me. I'm begging you for a small d0nati0n or to share this post. I will not forgive anyone who sees this post and doesn't support me with a single word or a small d0nati0n, ignoring me.

[ahmed-motaz]

I'm writing this with tears in my eyes because of the severe illness I'm suffering. I've been severely ill and have had multiple fainting spells this past week due to my inability to afford all the medic@tions, which have become so expensive. All I wish for is to never faint again, so I'm asking for your h@lp in purchasing my medic@tions quickly. Please d0nate.

[ahmed-motaz]

To make matters worse, my family and I are living in a completely torn tent. It offers no protection from the sun, our belongings, or the shrapnel. Every day, shrapnel rains down on us. I'm afraid it will harm me or someone else because of my illness. I desperately n£ed h@lp. as soon as possible

[ahmed-motaz]

I need your h@lp to stop my pain and save myself as quickly as possible. Please, I don't want to die. Please h@lp me raise the money for my medication and surgery as soon as possible. Please stand by me. Please don@te.

[ahmed-motaz]

My friends, I desperately need your h@lp. I'm experiencing severe pain throughout my body and have a terrible headache that hasn't let me sleep since yesterday. Please h@lp me by d0nating so I can buy my medication before my condition worsens. Please d0nate and don't leave me to suffer.

[nidiosniamo]

[determinate-negation]

as you may know, i had been managing a gofundme for @save-mohamed-family and sending him the donations for a while. gofundme shut down that campaign recently despite me sending them all the necessary documentation because ive had to send money to his friend for him to pick up due to an issue with his bank account, and gofundme isnt willing to take time to work with customers whose infrastructure has been destroyed because theyre in a genocide and war zone.

this is another campaign for mohammed and his family, so please donate if you can. there was around $2000 in donations to be transferred before they shut down my gofundme, and it really sucks that it hasnt reached him. if you donated to mohammeds old gofundme earlier you might have gotten your donations returned.

Donate to Help Mohammed and his children to a new life, organized by Katharine Sobotka

My name is Katharine, from Maryland in the United States, and I am rais… Katharine Sobotka needs your support for Help Mohammed and his chil

[queer-adhd]

Revolting little machine I hope someone guy fawkeses you too.

(Context: was trying to find the text of a version of the Guy Fawkes poem which ends 'are we glad that they stopped him or not?' Was not expecting this thing to run defence for the UK parliament 400 years ago)

[queer-adhd]

Btw, if you ever wanted an indicator of the ideological censorship that now exists, and how pervasive it has become? The poem I was looking for, with its implication that maybe it might not have been a bad thing to blow up parliament way back when, was published in a children's book two decades ago. Without incident. Now I can't even SEARCH for that poem without receiving a telling off for its contents.

[cheeseanonioncrisps]

[fadell-aldany]

As usual, the occupation forces destroyed medical warehouses where medicines and vital supplies were stored, causing a complete lack of healthcare and an exorbitant rise in the prices of the remaining medicines, if any could be found.

- So I wiIl not f0rgive anyone who ign0res my suffering and what we are going through, because I am one of the victiims of this aggression, left to struggle with pain that debilitates my body daily And I can't afford this .

[fadell-aldany]

I suffered a severe injury when our house was b0mbed while we were inside, resulting in me being hit by iron shrapnel that is still stuck inside my body and causing me constant pain. So I need a high c0st to be able to perform my surgery and remove these pieces of IRON.

[fadell-aldany]

I suffer from severe anemia, which requires immediate treatment and special supplements to prevent my condition from worsening. The c0st of medication is extremely high, so I hope you can h@lp me raiise the funnds to purchase my medication urgently. I desperatly ne-ed your supp0rt to prevent my condition from deteriorating further and to alleviate my pain and find some relief. Please stand by me.

[kaijuno]

PLEASE HELP

I really need some help. I haven’t eaten in about two days. I have no food and no money and I’m really starting to panic because my blood sugar is really low. I’m shaky and weak, I feel like I’m about to pass out. It’s hard for me to walk because my muscles don’t wanna work. I don’t have health insurance so I can’t afford to go to the hospital. Please please please help me get some food if you can, please.

Kofi | Cashapp | Venmo | PayPal

[kaijuno]

I’m so sick of everything. I’m so sick of living meal to meal and when I miss one because I can’t afford food, it puts me in the danger zone because my blood sugar will drop and I have nowhere to go or no way to get there if I do need help and I’m so fucking sick of it. My landlords are parasites that are nickel and diming me to death and I can’t afford a lawyer for all the ADA violations they’ve got going on and I’m just so sick of it. I hope if they find my dead body in this apartment it triggers SOME sort of investigation because I can’t fucking take this anymore and I can’t take them getting away with everything and laughing about it because I’m too poor for legal action

[qcharlie]

i wish we were able to talk about women's rights without someone mentioning how much they do or don't want to have sex with them. i don't care if you're a lesbian Stop finding worth in women purely from their perceived attractiveness

[qcharlie]

"I think women should not be expected to shave for societal respect / to avoid discrimination" "yeah🤤 i love bush" ok well that's not what we're talking about is it.

[qcharlie]

i hate how many posts about trans women deserving respect always devolve into "I love girldick" or "trans rights but I don't want to date a trans person" because that's entirely unrelated to the topic at hand. you should not respond to feminism with "YESSS I loveeee you because I see you as nothing but a sex object" you people sound like other men I get stuck talking with that end up saying "free the nipple so I can see boobies in public" and thinking they're feminists. why can't we just respect women regardless of your attraction to them or not. why does it need to be brought up in every conversation regarding their rights

[kaijuno]

PLEASE HELP

I really need some help. I haven’t eaten in about two days. I have no food and no money and I’m really starting to panic because my blood sugar is really low. I’m shaky and weak, I feel like I’m about to pass out. It’s hard for me to walk because my muscles don’t wanna work. I don’t have health insurance so I can’t afford to go to the hospital. Please please please help me get some food if you can, please.

Kofi | Cashapp | Venmo | PayPal

[kaijuno]

I’m so sick of everything. I’m so sick of living meal to meal and when I miss one because I can’t afford food, it puts me in the danger zone because my blood sugar will drop and I have nowhere to go or no way to get there if I do need help and I’m so fucking sick of it. My landlords are parasites that are nickel and diming me to death and I can’t afford a lawyer for all the ADA violations they’ve got going on and I’m just so sick of it. I hope if they find my dead body in this apartment it triggers SOME sort of investigation because I can’t fucking take this anymore and I can’t take them getting away with everything and laughing about it because I’m too poor for legal action

[qcharlie]

i wish we were able to talk about women's rights without someone mentioning how much they do or don't want to have sex with them. i don't care if you're a lesbian Stop finding worth in women purely from their perceived attractiveness

[qcharlie]

"I think women should not be expected to shave for societal respect / to avoid discrimination" "yeah🤤 i love bush" ok well that's not what we're talking about is it.

[qcharlie]

i hate how many posts about trans women deserving respect always devolve into "I love girldick" or "trans rights but I don't want to date a trans person" because that's entirely unrelated to the topic at hand. you should not respond to feminism with "YESSS I loveeee you because I see you as nothing but a sex object" you people sound like other men I get stuck talking with that end up saying "free the nipple so I can see boobies in public" and thinking they're feminists. why can't we just respect women regardless of your attraction to them or not. why does it need to be brought up in every conversation regarding their rights

[kuttithevangu]

Being a calm, gentle, non-reactive person is really hard work, which is probably why many people are none of these things. Personally I think it’s worth it but sometimes one does want to just roll around on the floor wailing at the top of one’s lungs

[kuttithevangu]

People in my notes who think I’m repressed or dissociating: you will feel better when you learn emotions are not a binary of Not Feeling It vs Being Overwhelmed By It

[blorbospinninhouseplant]

Ok but How Do I Do That

[kuttithevangu]

Self-regulation for adults: Strategies for getting a handle on emotions and behavior - Harvard Health

Learn strategies for enhancing self-regulation skills, and discover the benefits of mastering this essential life skill to help emotional dy

There are many techniques (also, there are drugs)

[blorbospinninhouseplant]

Thank you, but do you have any advice for teens?

[kuttithevangu]

So my FIRST piece of information if you’re still a teen is that genuinely as you get older it will get easier to regulate your emotions. During adolescence our brains are undergoing a lot of growth and change that genuinely does make it harder to do this, on a scientific level. However, practicing emotional regulation skills can still help a lot and if you can find something that works it will make life easier going forward

This page has more information and recommendations for some basic exercises:

Emotional Regulation for Teens: Strategies to Manage Intense Feelings

Discover effective strategies for teens to manage intense emotions, develop emotional awareness, and improve overall well-being. Expert tips

[fairycosmos]

a small thing i learned from my sister dying is that i really would rather the people i love be a burden than be whatever the hell else they'd be if they weren't. yes even if it's messy and not always fair and hard completely inconvenient for everyone involved. even if it's weird. even if i'm rolling my eyes a bit inside sometimes. i just want you to bother me. please always bother me

[fairycosmos]

like "it's rotten work" "not to me not if it's you" actually sometimes it's still rotten work. even if it's you. and i'd still do it a million times over

[closet-keys]

these were tags about a specific disability (insomnia) but it really strikes me how this experience is so applicable to not only virtually any disability but also any societal hierarchy that has been individualized.

reminds me immediately of that passage from Vladimir Pozner's notebook in 1936

“Here, the unemployed person is ashamed of his condition. In the country of ‘boundless opportunities’ a jobless person must be inept, or, at best, a man with rotten luck. He sees only his personal case. […] To accept a cash unemployment benefit is to admit that one is inept. This mind set is starting to disappear, at least among the unemployed. But what years of misery it’s taken for people to comprehend that twelve million cases of bad luck and ineptitude is due to something other than sheer coincidence.”

I think it's a good reminder that if you have spent years of your life earnestly trying to solve a problem on your own, it is not your own failure or random bad luck that you have not yet solved it. there are almost certainly some resources or information that you are being denied access to, and you need to start reaching out to other people who are struggling with the same thing to figure out how to get them.

[kaijuno]

I really need some help. I haven’t eaten in about two days. I have no food and no money and I’m really starting to panic because my blood sugar is really low and I don’t have health insurance. I’m really shaky and weak, I feel like I’m about to pass out. Please please please help me get some food if you can, please. Anything helps.

Kofi | Cashapp | Venmo | PayPal

[kaijuno]

PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN

[closet-keys]

The people of Gaza have been living under a fuel crisis for years now, reducing access of electricity, transportation, cooking, heat, and healthcare. Since the nominal "ceasefire" began, Israel has blocked over 6,860 fuel trucks from entering, and since Israel's war on Iran began, aid reduced by 80%. Hospitals have feared shut downs and reduced capacity due to fuel shortages and generator failures.

[closet-keys]

My friend Ahmed (@ahmedaldani333) is not yet an adult. He lives with his family in Gaza, who have been continuously displaced and traumatized by the occupation.

He has not been able to afford adequate nutrition and medication, and he is now severely anemic. It is hard to do most things. and he needs medical care. Israel's crossing closures directly cause the prices of food, medicine, and healthcare to surge. Please donate what you can so that he can afford the healthcare and nutrition he needs to recover.

(Ahmed is #198 on the @gazavetters list.)

[closet-keys]

Ahmed's family has been hiding from the occupation and had limited access to the internet. There was gunfire and shelling near his family multiple times yesterday and they are very afraid. I am so thankful that @ahmedaldani333 and his family are alive.

Please help them make it through another week. All donations help.

[ahmedaldani333]

Please, everyone, help me. I feel like I'm living my last days because of the pain and suffering I'm going through due to hunger and anemia. I can't move and I feel nauseous, dizzy, and extremely cold because of the anemia that's destroying my body. Please help me by donating so I can buy medicine and healthy food to ease my pain before I pass away. Please help me by sharing and donating, and don't ignore me.

[closet-keys]

Please offer what you can so he can recover from these impacts of anemia and malnutrition. You have the power to offer him relief from pain, dizziness, nausea, and cold.

[kaijuno]

PLEASE HELP

I have absolutely no money. I have absolutely no food. My blood sugar is low. I don’t have health insurance. I’m freaking the fuck out. Idk what to do I’m just fuckin sitting outside having a fuckin panic attack because life is just a fucking cycle of paying increasingly expensive bills until you fucking can’t afford them anymore and you fucking die. PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN. ANYTHING HELPS. PLEASE. PLEASE.

Kofi | Cashapp | Venmo | PayPal

[kaijuno]

PLEASE HELP