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  Totes is an Alien, 25, |♒|, Artist🎨, !!MOSTLY MI AND ART VENT BLOG PROCEED AT YOUR OWN CAUTION!!CA and CSA survivor, Official MI Dx: Schizoaffective, C-ptsd, D.I.D.   System name is "The Aether". Feel free to send me asks for more infor or if your just curious. I also take commisions, just message me.

[cg--archive-deactivated20220308]

No one, ESPECIALLY some random person on the internet, has the right to call you fake. Random people don’t know fucking jackshit about you, your life, and your DID/OSDD. It is your disorder, not theirs. Fake-claiming on tumblr is disgusting. 

[ra-ra-rum-ma-ma]

I completely agree with @catsglade on this. And please remember that even if you are a qualified professional that has dealt with this kind of disorder before, you are not qualified to make this kind of decision for anyone based on what they have posted on the internet.

This site is fucking toxic and it’s making people suffer more than they need to.

Also to those who have the disorder and do this on purpose:

HAVING THE DISORDER DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY MAKE YOU AN EXPERT IN IT AND YOU CANNOT APPROVE OR DISPROVE OF OTHER PEOPLE’S EXPERIENCES BASED ON HOW THE SYMPTOMS HAVE MANIFESTED FOR YOU.

[double-blind-broken-mind]

THIS^^^^^^^^^

[minus-the-negative]

The only excuse is no excuse.

minusthenegative.com

[parentless-suggestions]

For most of my life I’ve suffered from inability to sleep properly. Because I’m always tired, I can’t learn, I can’t form stable relationships, I can’t have any hobbies. Only now do I realize I can never sleep in peace because I wait in fear of what hell you would have prepared for me when I wake up.

[dimespin]

“Why do you beat yourself up so much over little mistakes?”

[chronicdisaster-deactivated2017]

This is such a good illustration of emotional abuse

[artist-rayne]

Just a reblog to spread the most UN noticed abuse, be aware

[monochrome-flight-feathers]

and reminder for everyone to be patient with your loved ones who apologize constantly, or have a really emotional reaction to something that seems insignificant to you.

[aperturescience]

I was talking about my DID and accidentally said D&D instead so now I keep imagining it. The host is the DM and if anyone wants to front they have to roll for it.

[fukuro-fatigue-deactivated20191]

[unwelcome-ozian]

[xekstrin]

Just throwing it out there

If you’re the kind of person with “unfollowing anxiety” I want you to know it’s okay to unfollow me

 I don’t care if we’re mutuals, friends in real life, family, whatever

You aren’t obligated to follow me, I don’t keep track of followers/unfollowers, I don’t “do inventory” and see if my mutuals are still following me, and I definitely don’t ever “call out” someone for unfollowing me

[double-blind-broken-mind]

You gotta do for you, what you have to do. That being said if you do ever have a problem with something I post feel free to message me. I am pretty open minded to discussion about things. Thanks!

[itsjustme-natalia-deactivated20]

Yeah, me too. 💊💊💊💊

[theunitysystem]

Positivity For DID/OSDD Systems

Shoutout to the people with DID/OSDD that are still hurting

To the people that live with their abusers

To the people who can’t afford therapy

To the people who can afford therapy but are struggling to find the right therapist because being with the wrong one can do more harm than good

To the people who don’t live with their abuser(s) but still see them daily

To the people who are trying to get away but can’t or don’t know how to

To the people who’s abusers still harass them even after they got away

And to anyone else with DID/OSDD out there that is still hurting, you deserve support, we believe in you!

[the-nordic-system]

What to do if you know someone with DID and they switch in front of you

- Don’t make a big deal out of it

- say hello to whoever’s out

- check if they’re okay. Sometimes switches can be caused by trauma triggers

- Ask if they know where they are, what they’re doing, etc. If they don’t, tell them

- If the new alter fronting doesn’t like you, ask if they want you to stay or leave

[double-blind-broken-mind]

Wanna help a mental health cause?

I was sent this in my inbox, feel free to check it out and help out if you’d like.

“The NAN Project is a school-based initiative that promotes mental health awareness and suicide prevention in middle and high schools across Massachusetts. Would it be possible for you to share our anonymous survey on your page? The link to the survey is here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfjwWWJfPyFR98wZn5twlss2KezalVsFn2dm-Uy53nj4DX6wg/viewform This 15-20 minute survey is designed to assess knowledge, attitudes, and behaviors associated with mental health.  The survey results will be used to inform and guide The NAN Project's work with young people and enhance efforts to increase knowledge about mental illness and understanding about available interventions. Please help us advance our efforts to strengthen the conversation about mental illness and suicide by answering the following questions openly and honestly. “ -sender 

Please feel free to share and reblog!

[cloaked-in-midnight-water]

INTIMATE ASKS

(Reminder if you reblog, you answer only the ask you are comfortable with. No one can force you to answer a question. If someone spam, block without mercy. ANSWERING IS ALWAYS OPTIONAL.)

Cheese Cake - How old are you?

Chocolate Muffin - How old were you when you had your first kiss?

French Toast - Have you ever looked at the star with someone you love?

Strawberry Jello - When was the last time you stared at the clouds?

Cotton Candy - Are there any of your friends you would date if they revealed they have a crush on you?

Lemon Cake - If your s/o or crush went through sex change, how would you feel?

Eclair au Chocolat - Do you fear you missed your soulmate along the way?

Vanilla Pancakes - Is there someone you never spoke to you would have sex with?

Bubble Gum - Is there a location you always wanted to go to, to have sex?

Sugar Pie - Have you ever had sex in another country?

Red Velvet Muffin - What are your body measurement?

Caramel Square - What is the prettiest part of the human body in your opinion?

Pink Popcorn - What is your favorite part of your own body?

Pudding - Would you have surgery if you could and it was seemless?

Orange Ice Cream - How many partners have you ever had?

Raspberry Granola - Have you ever regretted having sex with someone?

Oatmeal - Did you go through the awkward moment of sex ed from your parents?

Mango Smoothie - Which star would you marry instantly if you could?

Blueberry Pie - If you could marry the person you want, where would you want to live with them?

Banana Bread - Are you LGBT?

Milkshake - Would you date a trans person?

Cherry Popsicle - Do you know where your very first crush is?

Caramel Apple - Are you single and if you are, are you actively looking for someone to date?

Chocolate Chip Cookies - Would you date someone if your current crush doesn’t come true?

Watermelon Sour Candy - What would you wear if you could go to the Emmy Awards and which star would you go with?

ASK AWAY!

[bpd-chimere]

Go ahead, still not feeling great

[double-blind-broken-mind]

I’m up for it.

[arb111n0]

吸血

[archived-zombbean]

Sometimes that one reblog makes the difference.

Based on a true story from my time as an artist.

[sambloom]

Thank you for making this!! 😆

[gothixmoth]

Honestly..this..

I relate to this on a personal level..reblogs kept me from quitting..I still do art I’ve been studying lots and when I see people still reblog my old art..it lightens my day

[pyrowaffle]

This stuff keeps me going, the comments motivate me so hard y’all don’t even know

[traumasurvivors]

We need to talk more about hypersexuality in response to trauma.

Many survivors feel ashamed when they’re hypersexual. Society assumes trauma survivors are automatically sex repulsed.

That’s not always the case. Many survivors are hypersexual or may even fluctuate between the two.

It is okay if you are sex repulsed. It’s okay if you’re hypersexual. It’s okay if you’re both.

There’s nothing wrong with you.

[jisatsu-tan-blog]

[double-blind-broken-mind]

Rebloging for love of anime girls with eyebags.