DreamChik

Extravert | Easy-going | Warm

[shitpostinguniverse]

[shitpostinguniverse]

[gemini--goddess]

[dreamchik-blog1]

When will this happen?

[teenagecrush]

[conscious-love]

You deserve a relationship that enables you to sleep peacefully at night.

R. H. Sin

[dreamchik-blog1]

I want this too.

[remanence-of-love]

[dreamchik-blog1]

I want to experience this too!

[shmwrites]

“Sometimes you can’t go back. Sometimes you try anyway. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn’t. Sometimes you try to go back with someone and they show you why you shouldn’t. They show you that you can’t. They show you that you’ve changed but they haven’t. They make you realise going back would be the worst possible thing you could ever do and even if you don’t realise it, you can’t go back anyway. Sometimes you go back with someone and it’s different. It’s not a good different and it’s not a bad different but it’s still painful. It’s a “this is what we are now” different. It’s having to hear about their life once a week through a phone call when you used to see them every day and hearing them tell you stories you wish you were in. Sometimes you have to accept that people can come back after they’ve left but it won’t be in the same way. Sometimes you want to go back, so badly, but you can’t. Sometimes it’s not your choice. Sometimes the other person doesn’t want to. That’s probably the worst realisation. You can hope and pray that they’ll go back and you’ll be happy with them again but they won’t change their mind. Sometimes you just can’t make them, no matter how hard you try. Sometimes you’re not allowed to go back and you’re forced to move forward. And sometimes, that isn’t always a bad thing.”

— something I am still trying to be okay with.

[wishing-for-deathx]

“It’s so fucking painful, the thought of them together. I have never been a possessive person but the idea of him being with her just makes me feel a kind of pain I haven’t felt before.”

— why her and not me

[4am-reflections]

you should have loved her when you had the chance, it’s as simple as that. she is like the sunrise, something pure and good with only the best intentions, the promise of a new beginning. people like that don’t come around often and yet you had the audacity to use her for your own gain. to you she was a good time, a person you’d go to when there was nothing else to do, a convenience nothing more. so don’t you walk around spilling words of how terrible she was to leave you, when you’re the only one to blame.

4am

[catarinehancock]

one day.

IG: catarinehancock

[dreamchik-blog1]

Hoping.

[wishing-for-deathx]

“I am tired of being told I am loved and cared about but never made to feel that way.”

— your actions and words never match

[dreamchik-blog1]

Accurate. I have been feeling this since I don't know when. It's hard when your go to person has a different persona when he's w you and when he's with someone else.

[dreamchik-blog1]

Courage is what we need.

[funnypicsdept]

[soulreserve]

space-time

I wonder if we thought of each other at the same time, at one time would we feel it?

like an electric pulse an impulse coursing through the cosmos

a ripple in the fabric of the universe

could we tear through all this distance - arms outstretched eyes ablaze, and touch?

© SoulReserve 2020

[dreamchik-blog1]

Why would people make someone feel they love them and then when that person turn their back; they're gonna cheat on them? Really?

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

a few gentle reminders for dark times ♡

you won’t always feel like this. this is only temporary. one day this will be over.

it’s hard to find, but trying to look for the silver linings. look for the tiny sparks that make you feel warm inside. distance yourself from things that drain you.

you may feel weak, but the last time you felt you couldn’t do it anymore, you still kept going. you’re strong enough to make it through this. 

be gentle with yourself. treat yourself kindly, like a little plant that needs to cared for. stay hydrated, surround yourself with sunlight (comforting things and people), allow yourself time, kindness and patience to grow.

be loving towards yourself. whenever you think of a bad thought, defend yourself with a kind one. the negative thoughts are just your insecurities and fears. no matter what you think, you’re loved, you belong somewhere, you make someone happy, and you have many beautiful qualities about you.

do one small thing that makes you feel a sense of accomplishment. it doesn’t matter what it is, but sometimes, going to bed after feeling accomplished is one of the best feelings.

remember to stop being so hard on yourself. don’t expect so much of yourself. you’re not a robot. you deserve rest and making your mental health a priority. it’s ok to make mistakes - it means you’re trying.

you will heal from this. there are people you haven’t met who will love you, and the world still has many beautiful things in it for you to see. stay strong and keep going ✨

[plannedparenthood]

Getting and giving consent doesn’t just happen when things are starting to get sexy — it’s got to happen the whole time, every time. That means checking in with your partner to make sure everything that’s happening is still okay. And if they pause or don’t say yes, it’s time to stop and check in with your partner.