Allie🏹

[dreamsinmycoffees]

Hey, I'm Allie!!

This is going to be a place where I am fully anonymous and just myself🏹🤎.

I am 17 and female. I study hard, educate myself, and try to make sure I have reasons for my opinions. I love dystopian media, I care a lot about rights, I believe food is fuel and staying healthy is a form of respect to yourself. I don't believe in God, but I once did and am not uneducated about it. I think education is important, but the education system is often damaging, so I think people should know how to educate themselves. I don't think there are ethical billionaires, but I appreciate forms of media (books, music and movies etc) a lot, so I try to separate the people from the content. I think "doomscrolling" and short form content is damaging our lives, and is a very real addiction, so I am trying to learn how to get around it. The most important thing you can be is kind. I don't think there are bad people, but I think there are bad actions. I don't agree with being mean to someone unless it is about the thing that hurt you, for example, hating on someone for being gay isn't okay, but if that same person was rude to you, hate on them for being rude. People can do what they want, including all forms of LQBTQ, unless it is genuinely imposing on others (I don't care at all what you get up to, but nothing gives you an excuse to be rude or mean). I'm fully open to discussions, different opinions and views, questions etc, and I'm always ready to be wrong or change my mind about something!!

-- Allie🫨🫨

[dreamsinmycoffees]

The irony in loving dystopian movies when we are living in one is so difficult to get my head around

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One of the coolest things I discovered about life is that looking for a partner that fits all the traits you want in someone is exhausting. However, becoming all the traits you want in someone is soo exciting. I've always dreamed of having a witty, media obsessed artistic nerd, so guess what I'm turning into☺️☺️☺️

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Make life more fun

I'm making a list of all the fun and interesting things I can think of, but actually doing them before I post!!

Making a halloween costume idea powerpoint presentation for you and friends, and then decide with them which costumes to go for☺️

My friend text me with a couple ideas of halloween costumes and I came up with the idea of making a presentation. I came up with 9 ideas and then ranked my favs at the end. I used the weird slideshow change things, picks of the characters, picks of the outfits to wear, and reasons why for each. She's going to facetime me later to decide which we will do!

I rate this activity an 8.5/10, it was genuinely so fun to make and I'm so excited to call her later!

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When I tell someone I love dead poet's society and they tell me it's boring😞. But they don't see how both Charlie and Neil answered the question "it is better to speak or to die?"🥲

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When their first heartbreak was a relationship but mine will forever be Rue's death

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My face when a girl acts like less than she is in order to get a boy's attention

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Women putting themselves down is such a horrible thing to witness.

"I'm just a girl" when a mistake is made is an insult on the entire gender. Just say you got something wrong, but please do not act like it is due to you being a female, you're making us sound stupid.

"Doing ____ while my boyfriend/husband is at his big boy job" if you stay at home, then that is your choice, but you have every right to go and do something important too!!

"Girl dinner" going from being a mix of fun random things when you don't know what to have, to a phrase for women to show off how little they are eating. Being sick is not something to be proud of.

And same goes for women getting called girls and men getting called men. If you are a minor, you are a girl or a boy. If you are an adult, you are a women/ lady or a man. Mixing a minor with an adult (girl and man) is on the line of encouraging pedophilia😞😞

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Interacting with adult men as a minor makes you a victim of grooming. Liking people older than you is a preference, but if you are a minor and they are an adult then it is illegal. Please don't sugarcoat it or act like it is normal. If you just want to be loved you need to work on loving yourself, friends, family and people your age. But if an adult is looking your way like that, you are not "mature", they are just a bad person