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I HAVE MADE A MISTAKE
The “Angry Dark Skin Friend”
There’s a common pattern in many forms of black media where there are 2 black female characters who are friends or sisters, one being lighter in skintone, while the other is darker. Even though darkskin and lightskin women form friendships all the time, the way they’re commonly depicted in Black Media is what stands out and perpetuates certain stereotypes:
1. in the film/show/etc, the main character/focus of the 2 is typical the lighter skin woman
2. this makes the darker skin woman the “sidekick”
3. the lighter skin woman is portrayed as prettier, nicer, “classier”, more reserved, and/or overall more likeable and desirable
4. the darker skin woman is portrayed as shady, mean, loud, desperate, abrasive, aggressive, and/or overall less attractive (many would say “ghetto”)
These photos show just a few examples that came to mind…
Coming to America (1988) - The darker skin sister was more desperate for a man, chasing after Prince Akeem, Simi, and even her sister’s ex-fiancé. In the frame of society’s norms, this would be seen as “fast”, “tacky” or lacking in morals, which would therefore, make her less fitting to be a wife.
House Party (1990) - The darker skin friend (AJ Johnson) was the louder, more outgoing friend who was ready to date both Kid & Play, whereas Tisha Campbell’s character was more timid, and ended up being Kid’s “better suited” love interest.
Martin (1992-1997) - Once again, Tisha Campbell is playing the main female character, Gina Waters, and love interest to the main character, Martin Payne. While Gina is depicted as a kinder, classier, professional, “wifey” type, her best friend/assistant Pamela James, played by Tichina Arnold, is depicted as a loud, angry, man-less, berating black woman with “buckshots” and “beedeebees” in her “horse” hair, who was constantly butting heads with Martin.
Proud Family (2001-2005) - Penny, the lighter skin girl, was the main character with Dijonay, the darker skin girl, as the friend/sidekick. Dijonay had a less “traditional” name, as did her many siblings, was portrayed as louder, having more attitude, and was constantly chasing after Sticky, a boy who not only didn’t want her, but preferred the lighter skin friend, Penny.
Rick Ross’ Music Video for “Aston Martin Music” (2010) - In the early portion of the video, we see a young Ricky out on the block with other neighborhood kids, dreaming about owning a luxury car one day. Among the kids there’s 2 young girls, one darker skin and the other lighter skin. While the darker skin girl is quick to berate him and tear down his dreams of ever being that successful, raising her voice and waving her finger in his face, the lighter skin girl is quick to reassure him and support his dream. Once again, this display reaffirms the stereotype of darker skin women being mean, bitter, and angry, while lighter skin women are kinder, sweeter, and happier.
*ahem* 3LW
yikes
I’m leaving this on my blog for y'all to think about. Because I’m the dark skinned friend and I don’t appreciate being stereotyped as the sidekick nor “shady, mean, loud, desperate, abrasive, aggressive, and/or overall less attractive (many would say “ghetto”)” .
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I always hated this. Especially in Martin. Nothing wrong with Gina, but niggas thought Pam was ugly.
Pam was thee FINEST mf on that show. No contest. 👊🏿
Even as men, being the "dark skinned friend" comes with a lot of unnecessary bullshit.
#MyHairIsNotATrend
My hair is not a trend is open for ALL African American women with ALL textures of hair.
-Corn rows -Dreadlocks -Faux locs -Box braids -bantu knots -Twist out -Weave -Marley/Havana twist
You’re all welcome to post hair pictures with the hashtag on APRIL 23RD so that we can celebrate our versatile protective hairstyles. OUR hair is NOT a trend, we’ve been doing it. Celebrate our differences in the world that tries to reclaim our culture.
✊🏾👏🏾 Respect Queens
funny thing is , the people appropriating these styles, cant tell the DIFFERENCE between these styles.
What y'all think about the line-ups, though? I’m seeing more and more yt (and other) dudes trying out waves w/ the du rags, the line-ups, the braids…I’m still thinking this through…like is it as demeaning and oppressive for men as it is for women..
yeah! Let’s include for guys. The Durgs the waves … Everything . Yeah let’s push it for May 7th !
Tag it all over Instagram and Twitter and @ the kardashians and Jenners.
Remember to include trans//non-binary//genderqueer//fat black folks etc. on this day plz!!
A Dragon's Heart
Your wish has been granted While once again I get taken for granted I'm no one's dragon So go make your own seven Cause your contract with this genie has ended.
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69: Libra, Gemini, Scorpio, Leo
420: Pisces, Sagittarius, Virgo, Cancer
666: Aries, Aquarius, Taurus, Capricorn
420 all day
I don't take pleasure in having to cut people off
But I take even less pleasure in being undermined, overlooked, taken for granted, lied to, and putting in unrequited effort.
Hell yeah!
sometimes you say or do bad things while you’re in an awful mental place. sometimes you say things that are rude or uncalled for or manipulative. and i’m not going to hold that against you. mental illness is hard, and no one is perfect. but once you’re through that episode, you need to take steps to make amends. you need to apologize.
“i couldn’t help it, i was having a bad episode” is a justification, not an apology.
“i’m so fucking sorry, i fucked up, i don’t deserve to live, i should stop talking to anyone ever, i should die” is a second breakdown and a guilt trip. it is not an apology.
when you apologize, the focus should be on the person you hurt. “i’m sorry. i did something that was hurtful to you. even if i was having a rough time, you didn’t deserve to hear that,” is a better apology. if it was a small thing, you can leave it at that.
if you caused significant distress to the other person, this is a good time to talk about how you can minimize damage in the future. and again, even if it is tempting to say you should self-isolate and/or die, that is not a helpful suggestion. it will result in the person you’re talking to trying to talk you out of doing that, which makes your guilt the focus of the conversation instead of their hurt.
you deserve friendship, and you deserve support. but a supportive friend is not an emotional punching bag, and mental illness does not absolve you of responsibility for your actions. what you say during a mental breakdown doesn’t define you. how you deal with the aftermath though, says a lot.
This is the most carefully-nuanced discussion of this I think I have ever seen. Thank you for writing this.
meow meows
tonight before you go to bed I want you to think about one reason of why you’re excited to get up tomorrow, when you reblog this post say your reason
I'm gonna get to make music with my best friend.
Manifested Dreams
I don't wanna jinx it by putting it on blast, but... You ever actually spend time with someone and each day spent slowly opens your eyes? Opens your eyes to the fact that who you needed came in someone totally unexpected. I think the 1st of my many dreams are coming true. I just gotta keep enduring life until the end.
Artsy Love
I was created to create. I am the artist and the masterpiece. My soul is the paintbrush. Your mind is my canvas. The world is our gallery. Your heart, my salary.