Living in a BDSM au in my mind

21+ kinkster who's not handling the real world well. Welcome to my wacky brain.

[dsauwishfulfillment]

About The Blog Owner

This is my "secret" NSFW side blog. If you figure out my main or my other sides, please keep it to yourself. I will of course be extending the same courtesy.

I'm 25, nonbinary (he/they, she during sex ONLY), and I like to escape reality by daydreaming about living in a world where BDSM is mainstream and normalized. Also I escape reality by getting high sometimes, and honestly the majority of my original posts are made while I'm high. If that bothers you, please DNI.

I'm totally open to friendships! Feel free to shoot me an ask or a message. I hope to find my people on here :)

Sex (especially kinky stuffs) is my main hyperfixation and my other big hyperfixation is fanfiction, so sometimes my posts are about fictional characters. I'll usually say so in the tags if that's the case.

Topics you might find on this blog (if you don't like, please back away. I will not be offended):

CNC of various kinds, bondage, pet play, age regression, pillow princessing, d/s dynamics, nonsexual kink, personal shit, polyamory, yearning, weed usage, and maybe more, who knows? We're all always learning and growing.

Alrighty, I think that's it. Enjoy scrolling through my mind!

[biterisker]

anyone else get sick and fucking tired of making decisions. sometimes i just want to go pliant and pouty and be arranged and petted at. "puppy in a bad mood?" yes actually. "puppy want me to handle it?" yes, actually!

[dsauwishfulfillment]

Friend: yeah this girl I've been hooking up with has been sending me a lot of sex stuff so now my entire Instagram recommendations is just huge tits and asses

Me: that's crazy, if I want to see huge tits and ass I just look in a mirror.

[dsauwishfulfillment]

Maybe I don't have commitment issues. Maybe I'm just already committed. To the bit.

[stupidlottie]

Sex is meant to be scary and humiliating and painful and difficult to endure… right? 🥺

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

they're called "bootlickers" because when there's a boot stomping on their neck they lean forward to kiss it

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

as soon as i clicked post i realized damn that's such an evocatively erotic description, i should be using this sort of language about noble kinksters, not wasting it on class traitors

[galaxylemonroll]

How could you leave this in the tags!!!

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

that's the beta testing stage

[innumerable-voices]

The other version of this going around is a twerf and a radfem and anti kink so here's one you can reblog ethically because this is still an important PSA

[myescape-mydesires]

CNC because choices overwhelm me. 💞

[boysaremytoys]

someone brought up a concept i’d like to share: threesome where the guys are friends with sexual tension and they’re like, showing off to each other, like with intense eye contact as they kiss and touch you

[manincaffeine]

Being hyper-sexual on tumblr 🤝 not having sex irl

[halfdeaddyke]

when it’s get high and touch myself time

[femmeidiot]

I’m literally very adorable and should have nasty things done to me.

[buffyfknlo]

Communication is key

[nekomimithoughts]

You do not understand how much I need to be firmly held down and fucked the way you would administer sedation to an erratic animal

[chaoticneutralwife]

i think we should get really high + touch each other a lot

[queeranarchism]

Let me settle the 'is it fetishism and is it bad?' debate once and for all:

Being attracted to any kind of body is normal. Fat bodies. Trans bodies. Disabled bodies. All normal. Being extra attracted to a specific kind of body is normal too. Totally normal to have a type.

Not unlearning the societal stigma attached to those kinds of bodies, the people who inhabit those bodies, and the people who fuck them, to the point where you do any of the following:

Only want to date/fuck the person in secret.

Reduce the person to the feature that you desire and ignore the rest of who they are as a person.

Expect the person to be a walking porn fantasy instead of a real person with their own sexual preferences and boundaries.

Would no longer love the person if the stigmatized aspect of their body changed.

Consider yourself superior to the person, think the person should be 'grateful' that you love their body, etc.

See the person as a temporary adventure while planning to eventually settle down with someone whose body isn't stigmatized.

Is bad and harmful and you shouldn't be dating anyone until you've worked on your shit, because this makes you a very terrible partner. This doesn't mean you are a bad person with bad-fetishist-desires who can only desire people badly, it means you need to unlearn societal stigma so you can be a better partner to the people you desire.

Thank you for coming to me ted talk.

[saltwatersubmissive]

I've never been able to get a "no kink at pride" advocate to define the word "kink" in a way that included all the activities they thought should be banned and didn't exclude things like a gay person existing and I think that's probably why people are rarely willing to actually discuss their stance on kink at pride.

The closest I have personally seen them come is "having sex in public" and it's like. They're not doing that. And if they were, it's already illegal so maybe we don't need that to be a rule? And if you insist on there being a special rule for that shouldn't it be "no public sex at pride" instead?