GYARHARHAR

Neutralship because... I DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT WHO YOU SHIP OR WHAT YOU SHIP. It's like people playing with dolls. It's healthier than doing that stuff IRL. Anti-death threat. Too many blogs have 'KILL YOURSELF IF YOU'RE [------]!!!' and I just got sick of it. Aromantic. I can do platonic and physical relationships, but romance always made me feel like the third wheel in my own relationships. 💚🟢🤍🩶🖤 I am now a he/him, after much internal conflict.

[eeboshmeebo]

Pinned post!

No minors if possible.

I may say problematic stuff. TELL ME WHEN I DO BECAUSE I CAN'T TELL! I was never educated on this shit! Unless it's violence then that's just me being me.

I NEED interaction to stay attached to this place and not go back to my old ways of an internet nomad! Just don't tell me to kill myself and we're chill.

I've lived off of spite, month-old maple syrup, water, and pen ink before. rat poison anon hate will do nothing

I'll do my absolute best. I'm trying.

If I don't like you, don't worry! I won't interact! Because you're blocked. Goodbye.

Oh yeah, here's a list of my fics here. And my recipes.

Fictions:

[Fake Shameless vs Stoic Shameless]

​​​​​[P.A.T.A.]

​​​​​[🌿Honeysuckle Heartthrob🌼 (pt2 of P.A.T.A)]

​​​​​​[Perfection in Pettiness (part 1)].

[🍫Midnight Munchies🍵 ]

[🍨Sticky Sundaes on Sunday🍨]

[🌶️Spicy Sweetheart 🌶️]

[👁️I see you, and I love you.👁️ (pt.2 of Perfection in Pettiness)]

​​[🕰️I missed you!🕰️ ]

​​​​[🌠Late Night Lovin'🌌]

​​​​[​🔗I'll always forgive you. 🪢]

[Worried Sick 💊]

[💐Dandelion💐]

​​​​​[🍭Sweet Tooth🍬]​ <-WARNING! Contains pseudo-cannibalism!

​​​[🍪Char'cute'rie🫖]

[Trick or Treat 🎃🕯️ (Fall Special)]

[🤜 Malleable Mochi 🍡]

Requests:

[PRIVATE]

Recipes:

​​​​​Steamed Potato Strips

​​​​'The Thing'

Monstrous Maiden Series:

Pt.1: ​​​[I'm a monster... ] Pt.2:​​[Little Treasure.]

New Notice! I am now taking requests for Monoma x Reader.

However, I don't do excessively angsty requests, and two...

There is only a 30% to 70% chance of me actually doing those requests since it's my time being consumed. This is just a hobby. You are not entitled to my effort at all.

[sweatermuppet]

so pro-abortion i forget people try to get pregnant on purpose

[gloomydude-deactivated20150419]

[son-of-rap-bear]

It doesn’t end there:

[funimationentertainment]

another addition

[cs-inactive1-deactivated2020060]

do you ever just like. feel unbelievably proud of someone you’d never even heard of previously

[eroscestlavie]

oh my god

[turing-tested]

contrary to popular belief not everyone has an innate sense of internal gender or care to have one or seek a name for it, some people go their whole lives without questioning their occupation in one of two gender roles, but for some people, if pressed, they don’t feel that internal sense of ‘i am a woman’ or ‘i am a man’, and in that case i feel the switch over to transgender vs cisgender relies on active identification of a gender other than the one they were assigned. if someone’s like ‘idk dude I just work here’ then that’s valid

#i would describe my gender as not exactly ‘idk dude i just work here’ #more like…..when someone assumes you work somewhere that you don’t #but you know how to help them so you do it anyway #my gender is wearing a red shirt at a target

These are the best tags

[cobblepottery]

A portion of people in the notes are like ‘but that makes you trans. That’s called being agender’ and another portion of people are going ‘this is how the majority of cis ppl feel and it’s NOT agender’ and personally I feel like both of them are missing the point here. Yes a lot of people identify as agender because of this feeling. Yes a lot of people with this same feeling still identify as cis. These are not mutually exclusive experiences and it doesn’t mean the agender people are secretly cis or the cis people are secretly agender. It just means they have very similar experiences of gender that they choose to conceptualize and label differently, and neither of them are mistaken or wrong to do so.

[toastybugguy]

[tarbor]

Brown eyes are so iconic and beautiful

[britvnygg]

Green eyes are even more iconic and beautiful.

[movedtoscammer-deactivated20190]

If i met a white person irl I’d beat the shit out of them and mug them just because of this post. Because of you. Maybe even kill them. Because of you. You had to say this and now some random cracker bitch is gonna die. Are you happy? Was it worth it?

[sexedplus]

This isn’t what I usually write about, but I think it’s important.

[capacity]

You have to be willing to sit through horrible albums sometimes to look for new music and you might find it impossible but it’s what makes life worth living to me. it takes the discipline of a warrior to be a true music lover not everyone can survive it

[capacity]

That’s literally god seeping into you

[314eater]

The hardcore way to eat ramen: 1. Boil water 2. Eat block of ramen 3. Drink boiled water 4. Snort flavored powder 5. Fuck bitches

[boredbug-deactivated20130822]

you looking for this my friend?

[semememes-blog]

why is there a gif for this

[teaboot]

Supernatural really has everything

[runcibility]

ellingson.tv on instagram

[littleguysdaily]

[calvinandhobbescomic]

[under-the-arch]

No, Calvin was right

[distributing-direwolves]

Calvin was 100% right.

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

not my tweet but I thought it would be a good psa for artists here too

[the-haiku-bot]

not my tweet but I

thought it would be a good psa

for artists here too

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[muzzlesbian]

really wish medical terminology would just drop "male" and "female" entirely -_-

[muzzlesbian]

it's clunkier, but probably 85% of the things labeled "male" and "female" can just be described with the anatomical name of the relevant part. we don't need to say "female genitals" (or worse, "afab genitals") when we can simply specify "natal vagina" or "uterus" or "neovagina" or "vulva" or anything else that's relevant. i'm tired.

[the-composite-doll]

This thing. Checklist of what's there or not.

[gwenloses]

Everybody has a prostate, we just don't always call the same organ (Skene's Gland) the same thing because we might realize that the same structures exist and that could be damaging to patriarchal assumptions.

[thememedaddy]

[ravenlynclemens]

calvin and hobbes

[rocktopussy]

[pomme-poire-peche]

"You misspelled Weltanschauung" is one of the funniest punchlines I've ever encountered.

[blessedbycoyotes]

[werothegreat]

one of my faves

[dittoexodus]

[black-sasuke]

Protect black women. Fuck the state of Georgia.

[gerbildine]

Same Georgia that, last year, kept Adriana Smith’s brain dead body corpse alive because she was 9 weeks pregnant, against her families pleas by the way. They even forced the babies birth date earlier because she was decomposing! As of 2 weeks ago he was finally taken out of NICU but is still to this day, entirely reliant on oxygen, because he can’t breath on his own. And who pays for this? The government and hospital used a dead black womans body for an experiment after all, so of course they’d at LEAST foot the bill right? Just kidding it’s the family that wanted to put their daughter and grandson to rest of course! It’s only $600,000+ USD!

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​And to those of you who think you’re safe because you’re ready and wanting to start a family so obviously youre not getting an abortion anyway! So what?? Think again!! Because you can now be charged as a “would be killer” for using pain killers during pregnancy because the same ingredient just HAPPENS to also be found in abortion pills!

They literally used these women as experimental test runs for what they can get away with and they’re getting away with it!!

Justice For Alexia Moore and Adriana Smith

[livingfictionsystem]

A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.

Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.

What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.

Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.

What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.

Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.

What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.

Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.

It is not: Your rubbish ex that cheated on you.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

-Xanthe

[squishyyuri]

Oh... That's what trauma bonding is. Oh.

[magi-creator]

I *also* didn't know that trauma bonding and love-bombing were... that. added to lexicon and course correcting...

[je-blauge]

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/trauma-bonding

[earhartsease]

it's another kind of grooming, age regardless - you put yourself in a position of power over someone and then exploit their need for intimacy or protection or affirmation

[teaboot]

The problem with giving advice to angry and suffering people is that rather frequently the thing they need to know to improve their position is the last thing they want to hear and not something they have the capacity to internalize or accept

[teaboot]

Unfortunate truths you can tell people that would help if they could hear what it means and not just what it sounds like

You were the victim, and it wasn’t fair, but it’s over now. Nobody came to save you, and I’m sorry, but it’s too late for anyone to go back and do it different.

You’re suffering over something that cannot be resolved. You’re allowed to feel angry, or outraged, or betrayed, but there will eventually come a time that you don’t feel that so violently anymore, and you’re going to want to have something good left to go back to.

You can’t make anyone love you the way you need to be loved. That’s how a lot of good things end. Not with a clear sign, something blocking the road that says “do not proceed”, just a splitting of the path that’s still moving somewhat in the same direction.

You can’t fix them. Nothing you can do will fix them. And if they fix themselves, they can’t do it for you- they have to do it for themselves as well, because otherwise a day may come when they’re alone, and as long as they live, they are their only true constant. So you can support, and you can encourage, but the hardest part is up to them. And sometimes they can’t do it even with your help.

Sometimes letting go of someone feels like mourning at their funeral before they’ve died, and every time you see them after it’s like talking to a ghost that doesn’t know it’s dead. Sometimes that happens. You’ll both still wake up tomorrow anyways.

I understand that you’re afraid, and that you’re afraid for good reasons. And I understand that being brave isn’t as easy as just turning that fear off, and you would if you could in a heartbeat. But the thing is, as long as that fear is able to dictate your choices, it will have power over you. If you don’t believe you can try to fight it, if you accept that it will always be in charge, you let the frightening thing stay present in your life. It will exist as long as you stay paralyzed. And that sounds cruel, but it isn’t something anyone can fix for you.

The person you may let yourself become after experiencing the terrible thing may very well grow into a much bigger, much more terrible thing, and someday it will swallow the first terrible thing whole. And all that will be left is something far worse for someone else. And you will not be able to shrink it down by explaining where it came from, because terrible things that are dead and gone are never as terrible as terrible things that are alive right now in front of you.

No matter how much or how little I love you, I still do not have the ability to help you the way you need to be helped. I might be the helper you want, but I am not a helper you can get. If you are to be helped at all, you will need to accept that it will come from someone else.