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When writing a blind character, what are some things to avoid?
Ah! So this is definitely a bit of a broad question, but I can give a few basics:
Blind people don’t actually give a shit about touching faces, so please, please stear clear of that. The only exceptions may be the same way sighted lovers may caress each other’s faces and parents may hold a child’s face in an emotional moment, but it’s just like a sighted lover or parent would, nothing more.
Please avoid giving your character a cure. One of the most crushing things as a disabled reader is to finally have a disabled character, but for them to end up with a fantastic magic cure half-way through. It rarely makes for a good story, and often a much better story is that person’s journey in understanding themselves as equal and learning that they aren’t broken and useless and can do whatever they want, overcoming internalized ableism rather than “overcoming the disability.”
Few blind people actually wear sunglasses or eye coverings, so your character probably won’t either if the likelyhood says anything. Chances are they will not be part of that minority, so probably better not to do that.
Something similar can be said for characters with white or cloudy eyes. The vast majority of blind people will not have very abnormal-looking eyes, so chances are your character will not be part of that minority.
Another very similar thing should be noted about the level of vision they will have. Somewhere between 80 and 90% of blind people have some level of remaining vision, weather it be little more than light perception or enough that they were forced to use their eyes a lot growing up and weren’t taught braille or to use a cane because they could get by well enough not to die most of the time.
So these are just the first several things I can think of at the moment, but definitely feel free to ask about more things!
A few more things:
-Blind people watch TV -Blind people usually like to know what colors things are if they ask you to describe something. A lot of people either had vision at one point or even if they were never able to see, they often associate colors with concepts -Blind people don’t use Braille for everything. Audio books exist (and every blind kid could get a free tape player and audio books sent to them up until about 2010- they never moved to CDs, but now anyone can buy them online or whatever even if you aren’t blind) and now everything is scanned/digital. In fact, you only really need to know how to read signs/basic alphabet and signs nowadays. Well, unless you’re in school. -For the love of god, know what tech your blind character will be using according to the year.
Another tidbit: blind people often walk around familiar areas without using a cane or guide dog. You learn the layout of that area and don’t really need the mobility aid.
So, my uncle is blind, and I can vouch for all these. Something I would like to add from personal experience:
If they ask for help in being led places, like a busy restaurant, asking or clarifying where they'd like to be led by, or if they can hold onto you to be led.
My uncle, when we go to restaurants or when he wants to go to the movie theater, or wherever might be super crowded and he doesn't want to accidentally smack someone with his cane, always tells me that he's grabbing my shoulder, or my elbow. Other times, he has me lead him by the elbow or wrist.
If I think of more things (COVID has made visiting him difficult) I'll be sure to try to add some more!
me laughing to myself as i write an angsty chapter that i know will destroy my readers:
This is me whenever I want to make my friends, and coworkers mad at me... yeah, I'm surprised I have friends too.
if u dont acknowledge the fanfics u read, the writer won’t think anyone is actually taking the time to read their stuff, which makes our effort feel wasted and our passions feel worthless
Tell. The. Fanfic. Writers. How. You. Feel.
I will always reblog this. It’s important.
Very important.
period, sis.
If you’ve read a fic of mine and haven’t left a comment, GO TO MY MASTERLIST AND COMMENT ON EVERYTHING.
means a lot. 🥺💕
I weite a lot of fanfiction, but no one ever leaves any type of feedback. I don't even care if it's just like some tiny annoying detail like "you spelled this word wrong here." Or "well, that person is a jerk" something's anything. I use fanfiction to get out of my depressions, and I had one going for a while, then boom. No feedback and the wall was hit. The wall I don't want to go around because I don't know if people are reading it. I don't know if I'm annoying people by using a specific word too much, or if a character is coming off as extremely arrogant when I don't want them to be.
Feedback gives us hope, it gives me at least, the drive to keep writing. And anyone that knows me knows I write and I write a lot. I probably do one short story a day at least. But since I don't get any form of feedback, I can't tell if anyone is reading it. Or someone even ask me to rewrite an old story I did?
Just...feedback of any kind. It's always appreciated, not just for fanfiction but all works of literature. You can be writing anything, and feedback is important.
Sorry for the rant.
if u dont acknowledge the fanfics u read, the writer won’t think anyone is actually taking the time to read their stuff, which makes our effort feel wasted and our passions feel worthless
Tell. The. Fanfic. Writers. How. You. Feel.
I will always reblog this. It’s important.
Very important.
period, sis.
If you’ve read a fic of mine and haven’t left a comment, GO TO MY MASTERLIST AND COMMENT ON EVERYTHING.
means a lot. 🥺💕
Fully and utterly obsessed with every single aspect of this scene
#when you’re both gay and one of you is stuck at a family dinner so you plan an elaborate rescue mission
this is my all time fav video on the internet
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Enjoy.
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the muffled ‘Call Me Maybe’ by Carly Rae Jepsen in the background is what really sells this video for me tbh
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Source
These dudes are fucking legit. They don’t just show up one day in court, either, they actually make friends with the kids and let them know they have a support system and that there are people in the world who care about them and will always have their back. And less important, but also cool, is that the few times a couple of them have come into my cafe, they’ve been super friendly and polite and when I told one of the guys that I noticed his Bikers Against Child Abuse patch and wanted him to know how awesome I thought he was because of it, he got kind of shy and blushed and said, “The kids are the awesome ones, we just let them know they’re allowed to be brave.”
The source is long, but so, so good. These men and women are available in 36 states, 24 hours a day to stand guard at home, in court, at school, even if the child has a nightmare. Many of them are survivors of childhood abuse as well, and know what it’s like to feel scared and alone.
In court that day, the judge asked the boy, “Are you afraid?” No, the boy said.
Pipes says the judge seemed surprised, and asked, “Why not?”
The boy glanced at Pipes and the other bikers sitting in the front row, two more standing on each side of the courtroom door, and told the judge, “Because my friends are scarier than he is.”
Actual tears.. hnngh
Show me more of people like this, world. I give up on humans too easily.
where do i sign up for this,i want to be in this gang
This is fucking amazing. It may be out of character for me to say this but rock on
Bikers Against Child Abuse was founded in 1995 by a Native American child psychologist whose ride name is Chief, when he came across a young boy who had been subjected to extreme abuse and was too afraid to leave his house. He called the boy to reach out to him, but the only thing that seemed to interest the child was Chief’s bike. Soon, some 20 bikers went to the boy’s neighborhood and were able to draw him out of his house for the first time in weeks.
Chief’s thesis was that a child who has been abused by an adult can benefit psychologically from the presence of even more intimidating adults that they know are on their side. “When we tell a child they don’t have to be afraid, they believe us,” Arizona biker Pipes told azcentral.com. “When we tell them we will be there for them, they believe us.” ( Article)
More about BACA, from their site
My parents are a part of this organization and they are metal af
They go on runs to protect the child if they feel even the slightest threatened no matter where. If the child needs them to go on vacation with them, they do. Bikers come from across the nation to watch over and take shifts for these kids. And the best part is once you’re adopted into this family as a BACA kid, you’re always one. Even when you’re 40 and the perp gets released from jail, they’ll come meet with you and find your best options for avoiding the person and maintaining the life you’ve built for yourself. Once a BACA child, always a BACA child. In Florida, there’s 100% rate for identifying the perp based on the child’s testimony. Why? Because BACA stands with the child and supports the child so they feel comfortable enough to point out their attacker.
What’s better than a badass biker gang being on your side???
NATIVE AMERICAN CHILD PSYCHOLOGIST WHO IS A BIKER AND NAMED HIMSELF CHIEF HELL YES I’M HERE FOR THAT AND BIKERS BEING BAD ASS TO PROTECT KIDS. HELL YEAH.
it’s back! I will always reblog BACA
Damn good people.
I know they wouldn’t consider themselves such, but these people are freaking heroes and the world is a better place because of them.
Hey folks, it talks about this in the article but its not mentioned in this post, BACA is a 501 © (3) charity that depends in part on donations to help pay for stuff like gas for their bikes. If you want to help, consider donating.
@copperbadge You like posting about heroes, Sam. Seems like this would be up your alley.
I love these folks! I’ve reblogged them before but it’s wonderful to see the donation information has been added.
Always reblog. Keep doing what you’re doing y'all.
Guys? This post changed my life. I saw this post. Forever ago. And thought it was only in america… and wished desperately that they could help me. But then I saw it again, during a bad episode, and checked their site. They aren’t just in the USA
They’re in Canada as well and probably other countries. I met and talked with a native guy who runs the place near me. His name is Shaman. I got in, and I’m considered a BACA child now. Despite being 17, turning 18 when I talked to them. They spent time with me when my abuser was over, they gave me therapy resources. They give you something called a ‘level 1′ where they go to your house with as many bikers as they can, i shit you not a solid 20-40 bikers came from even out of province, and met me. I got to choose my biker name and I got a vest with patches on it and my name on it. They all hugged a Teddybear before giving it to me, and told me if I ever felt the BACA bear was running out of love, to give them a call and they’d refill it for me, and then I got a ride on one of their bikes. Just a day or so ago I went to an annual party with them and they we ate food one of them cooked and had a lot of laughs.
I’ve never felt as loved as I did being a part of the BACA family. They also gave me dog tags with the names, and phone numbers of my 2 workers. So I can call them whenever I feel scared.
BACA is an absolutely wonderful group that will do everything in it’s power to help any child whos been abused.
And it doesn’t end when you’re 18 either. As long as you get in contact/get your level 1 before you’re 18? you’re ALWAYS a BACA kid. I’m 18 now and they still invite me to parties, ask me if I’m okay, and are there for me. They’re still trying to find me resources for therapy.
BACA has changed my fucking life.
I hope you all can read this, and reblog it knowing from someone who fucking been with them, that they are absolutely amazing.
If I ever don’t reblog this, it’s because I am physically being restrained against my will.
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What a great day to remember that abuse can be shown in many forms, including but not limited to:
Depriving the person of basic needs, such as food, water, shelter, etc. (Neglect)
A parent or caretaker depriving their child a healthy place to feel and share their emotions (Emotional neglect)
A parent or caretaker depriving their child the right to be who they are, as opposed to seeing the child for who they want to be. A lack of attention of care for the parts that need that (Emotional neglect)
A caretaker refusing to accommodate or help someone's disability- ex. Refusing to adjust their tone of voice for an autistic person, refusing to move furniture for someone in a wheelchair (Neglect)
A parent or caretaker failing to take care on themself, thus forcing the child to care for both of them (Self-neglect)
Calling the person slurs, mean names, or commenting on the personality/appearance, especially after being asked to stop (Mental abuse)
Forcing a person to go on diets or unhealthy exercise plans so as to lose weight (Mental/physical abuse)
Depriving the person of the things they use to cope or as a source of joy. Ex. Not letting them see their friends, taking aware drawing supplies, etc. (Mental abuse)
Guilt tripping or manipulation. Ex. "Well I guess you just don't care that I'm trying", "Clearly you don't care about us", etc. (Mental abuse)
Gaslighting (Mental abuse)
A parent or caretaker forcing a child to be the "adult" in most or every situation- This includes the child ending every argument, being the one to run errands, etc. (Mental abuse, overlapping with physical abuse)
Destroying the room and/or personal belongings in a fit of anger, often forcing them to replace and/or clean up your mess (Mental abuse overlapping with physical abuse)
Yelling at a person over mistakes they make, as opposed to helping them (Verbal abuse)
Creating and continuing arguments often of every day, refusing to own up to it or compremise when confronted (Verbal abuse)
Degradation, especially in arguments or when a mistake happens (Verbal abuse)
A parent of caretaker exposing a child to certain things- often sexual- prior to an age in which they can handle it (Sexual abuse, often referred to as NC-CSA)
Forcing a child to undress and/or clcommit sexual acts on themself or another person- usually a child- for you (Sexual abuse, often referred to as NC-CSA or NC-COCSA)
Grooming (Sexual abuse, often referred to as NC-CSA)
Using sex as a weapon in any sense (Sexual abuse)
Refusing to let someone- often a partner- manage their own finances, despite being mentally able to (Financial abuse)
Refusing to let someone keep the money they make (Financial abuse)
Hitting, punching, choking, kicking, or physically restraining a partner or child- This does include spanking (physical abuse)
Driving recklessly with someone else in the car, or other acts of putting someone's life in danger (Physical abuse)
Invading someone's safe or personal space without prior consent (Physical abuse)
A parent or caretaker refusing to let an adopted child practice their culture (Cultural/identity abuse)
A parent or caretaker refusing to let a (usually adopted) child practice their religion (or lack thereof) for any reason other than safety- This include not allowing them to wear a veil such as a hijab, etc. (Cultural/identity abuse)
Refusing to care for or support a child due to their religion (or lack thereof), sexuality, gender, etc. (Cultural/identity abuse)
Threatening to out someone as LGBTQ+ (Cultural/identity abuse overlapping with mental or verbal abuse)
This is okay to reblog and add on, btw
I have a cat who's 14 now. She's had zero health problems, but suddenly started losing a lot, and I mean a LOT of weight. She's got a vet appointment in a week. My cat has been there for me, through literally everything. She is my everything.
I don't have the artistic skill to do something as wonderful as what you've done for your cat. I wish I did, but I know I've got a cremation tattoo planned so that my cat, through her ashes being put in my skin, will always be with me.
I apologize that this was a bit long winded, and maybe not helping you feel better after losing everything you have. But, the story has touched me personally.
So thank you, for sharing it.
me, going to bed at 1am: okay so we can fit the plot twist into chapter fourteen and introduce the love interest a couple chapters before that, and their first line is also going to be the last line of the book but in different context as mirroring, and we’re going to switch perspectives halfway through
me, opening my laptop in the morning: what is a Word
shipping incest or pedophilia is not an “unpopular opinion” it is fucking disgusting and fundamentally wrong and anyone who disagrees with this post can just unfollow me right now
i’ve lost four followers already since posting this so in the spirit of weeding out the trash i’m going to reblog this again
Because sometimes friendships are more important.
my favorite part of this whole comic is Cole