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Girl whose most frequent mistake is inaction voice: wow I keep making mistakes I better not do anything
what’s the rush?
The time will pass anyway
i wish there was a way to say "you're right, but this is really ineffective and even counterproductive messaging to anyone who doesn't already agree with you" without sounding like an asshole
the thing about phone in bed is that it's so awesome. almost makes you feel like betraying & destroying yourself for nothing isn't all so bad
its probably a normal sign for the economy that all of my adulthood fantasies are like "imagine having your own kitchen living room and bathroom to decorate" "what if i could get on a train" "maybe one day i could purchase a sturdy pair of shoes" "i should save and invest in a single bicycle"
top 3 hobbies for young adults:
1. borrowing misery from future
2. carrying grief of the past
3. agonizing over the present
please god let chatgpt die out like nfts did. With a fast and graceless fall into irrelevancy
Like to charge, reblog to cast.
This spell has a very low hit ratio, so we need a lot of us to do it.
big life tips dont be neurodivergent dont be poor dont get in any sort of situation and dont let yourself need or crave
not getting good reports back on your progress with this guys
sorry i never replied. everyday is blending together and i'm losing sense of time
"whats your 5 year plan?" buddy I nearly go insane thinking about what I should have for dinner
top 5 horror movies
-having a job
-not having a job
-applying for jobs
-the job market
-the concept of working my whole life
the days leading up to your period will make you think you're under some sort of curse that's draining the life from your body and then well that does kind of turn out to be the case
you've met me at a very "yeah i'm trying to work on that" time in my life
severely deficient in whatever vitamin makes u a person
and while we’re at it, fuck this idea that ONE ACCOUNT has to belong uniquely to ONE PERSON. This is the same thing these silicon valley fucks want; their vision of the future where everyone has a unique biometric ID code implanted in their body is the ultimate extension of Netflix’s “no password sharing” policy. You want to use your friend’s car? Sorry, you can’t, you need to be an authorized user. Your mother wants to let you look something up on her OED account? Too bad! That’s only for her! The concept of perfect market efficiency gives them greedy little money bag eyes.
If I pay money to have a newspaper sent to my house, they don’t charge me extra when I show it to my dad. This password sharing thing isn’t just a Netflix problem; don’t be surprised if it shows up elsewhere in other forms. Stamp this idea out now or we’ll be stuck with it.
This is by far the most popular post I have and I have to say: good, I’m right. Password sharing and ID verification are going to kill the internet. not oooh in 50 years. in like 5 more.
Aaaaand the uk is making incest porn not just illegal but an imprisonable offence (2 years for possession, 5 years for creation distribution)
Fuck this authoritarian anti-sex bullshit
"Pretending your consenting adult sexual partner is related to you is literally exactly the same as raping a child" - The UK government
The UK government has confirmed a ban on 'incest simulation' in porn as the crackdown on unsafe online videos continues.
I am hung from the gallows at the Tower of London after making a "What are you doing step-bro?" joke.
Legitimately though, this shit surely isn't even gonna be properly enforceable, it's such a common fucking trope. Literally who gives a shit? What's next? They gonna ban fucking "Sodomy" again? Are the fucking bobbies gonna break into your room while you have sex to ask if you all have the proper licences to be engaging in such improper behaviour? I could probably develop a much stronger point, but my real position on all this Anti-Sex shit is just "fuck off", that's it, my stance on the issue is just "fuck off".
They do specify that step incest scenes don't count but that they are also looking into further changing the laws to ban it too
Honestly the idea that apparently porn is responsible for all these social ills is one that pisses me off to no end. Pornography is just a genre, it's just media. It does not cause any of these harms, it merely reflects social issues that already exist.
If porn is misogynistic it's because society is misogynistic, and the misogyny porn depicts isn't any different from that depicted by other media. Incest porn is a thing because of the power dynamics embedded in the structures of the nuclear family, if you actually want to stop child sexual abuse you need better sex-ed and to give children more freedom and power to escape abusive situations. Incest porn doesn't create the problem they're pretending to be angry about, that problem is the result of power structures.
Apparently they've also banned choking, which is recognised as a legitimately dangerous sex act, but if you actually wanna do something about that one you need better sex-ed, and to go in with a harm reduction mindset. If people are "learning" things from porn, that isn't porn's fault, it is a result of the faliure of sexual education programs.
Porn is a scapegoat, it's a way for people to look like they're doing something about an issue without having to adress the actual causes of the issue. Banning "icky" content that makes people uncomfortable only works to maintain the comfort of those people, it doesn't actually help anyone. Like how banning sex work (even if it is just the criminalisation of being the customer) hurts sex workers. It isn't about sex workers, it's about the middle class people who are made uncomfortable by the existence of sex work. Banning trans women from women's spaces does not "protect women and girls", it protects the comfort of transphobic cisgender women who do not want to share spaces with those they view as "degenerates" and "perverts". All of this shit isn't about saftey, it's about the comfort of the dominant group. It is a weaponisation of the acceptable victim status of middle class cishet white women against those they deny womanhood and personhood by portraying them as shadowy threats.
It is the decay of White Liberal Feminism as it builds associations with the Alt-right. The comfort of the Middle Class Cishet White Woman comes above all else, they use their acceptable performance of victimhood to activate the judicial power of the state and the violence of white cishet men against those they view as lesser, those who threaten the position of Middle Class Cishet White Womanhood. This same attitude can be seen in things like Islamophobia (white women happily become the "voice" that Muslim women aren't allowed to have, and portray Muslim men as violent rapists, justifying racism and genocide) and the phenomenon of white tears as it continues today (white women calling the cops on black teenagers, etc).
The white woman is a woman, but she is also white, and she will happily uphold the structures of white supremacy, transphobia, and middle class respectability as it serves her.
I genuinely belive we are living through the second coming of the "Feminist Porn Wars", and the reactionary white feminists have wasted no time in allying themselves with the right wing, just as they did the first time. We have to resist this, and the last time this happened we did and we survived, the sex positive and sexual liberationists and the sex radicals fought hard and well enough for us to pull through. We did it one, we can do it again.
Discomfort is a part of life, go make those evil ass white women uncomfortable. Their comfort comes at the expense of the lives of racialised people, queer people, and sex workers. We must stand on the side of those who cause discomfort, not those who would do harm to maintain their own comfort.
It's hard to say this without sounding like a right wing dickhead, but the thing about progressive spaces is that they may naturally attract people who are always on the lookout for excuses to start a fight. Like you can find yourself faced with someone whose political outrage is totally justified, and whose humanitarian ideals are right on the money, but simultaneously they are carrying a ton of psychological baggage about being wronged and getting revenge, and they will exploit literally any opportunity to live out this psychodrama with anyone in their line of vision. I have thought of several related anecdotes since I started typing this post, but I'll limit myself to the thing that inspired it, which is that I just visited this ultra-lefty cafe/bike shop/community gathering space where I've heard that the proprietor is constantly in a fight with everyone around her. When I paid for my stuff I noticed that there was no tip option, but I thought I had heard something about this, so I snuck away to look at the website and it made me really glad I didn't ask! I think there should have been a really enticing and exciting way for her to say "I've decided to be the change I want to see in the world, so I'm paying my baristas a full living wage, I'm making sure EVERYONE feels welcome and comfortable here, and I'm selling products I believe in!" -- but instead all the web copy sounded more like "You're either with me or against me, you're a fucking piece of shit asshole if you can't handle the inclusive atmosphere here, and by the way tipping is for fascist cavemen and if you ever try to tip someone you are refusing to relate to them authentically and you are enforcing a dangerous and evil power dynamic that should be purged from human society (so therefore I pay my staff well)." Like everything she stood for was totally agreeable, but why did she have to put it like it was directed at her worst enemy, rather than at the kinds of people she wants to attract? If the word on the street is to be believed, the reason for this posturing is that she spends quite a lot of energy making as many enemies as possible, and she probably likes it that way. I guess I'm just reminding myself, and perhaps others, that while one might think of "politics" as being broadly social and theoretical, no individual can fully separate the political from the intimately personal. Even somebody who seems to want to uplift and protect their fellow humans may be getting some perverse inner satisfaction out of that valiant crusade, and you may never realize it until you find yourself in a confusing fight with them.
I ran a LARP for a few years explicitly aimed at being queer friendly and accessible, and eventually cut it short mainly for this exact reason. You wouldn’t believe the amount of abuse my staff and I took for reasons that felt genuinely insane. I got called ableist for telling someone they couldn’t be invincible in my game of make believe, more than once. Defended myself, multiple Jewish players, and a conversion student from accusations of antisemitism based on alleged lore we’d never written / suggested / that simply and plainly did not exist in game. Had a staffer try to talk to someone about how a joke she made was uncomfortable only for this person to retaliate in epic proportions full white woman crocodile tears style, trying to get this staffer removed and eventually escalating into a full public hate campaign when she didn’t get her way. All that’s still just the tip of the iceberg.
Progressive spaces are naturally populated by traumatized people, and unfortunately trauma makes people more difficult. (I’m not excluded in that. No one is.) Running a progressive space is doubly difficult because a lot of left-facing trauma was inflicted by authority, so you’re setting yourself up to be the windmill that someone tilts their displaced rage at. I don’t really know what the solution is, but I do know that this is one of the huge reasons it’s so hard to find community: the people with a bone to pick can’t reach the ones who actually hurt them, but they’ll sure find you along the way, and the safer they feel around you the safer they’ll feel coming after you.