@thesocialjusticecourier …Well, this explains a lot.
So you’re saying that no genders other than male and female, in some combination, exist? Are we… really going to go down this path?
Are you really going to force colonialist interpretations of gender on fa’afafine, hijra, kathoey, and other genders older than the rigid bifurcation of humanity you’re working from? Bearing in mind, I’m not asking whether you believe they exist. I’m asking whether you accept their interpretation of their own gender, as opposed to your contradictory interpretation of it.
Are you really going to define gender in terms of a biological dichotomy that necessarily pathologizes intersex people? The one that posits only two sexes are possible and everything outside it is an aberration?
Are you really suggesting that we accept the TERF party line that it’s useful to base social classes on what’s in your pants? I’m incredibly surprised by this one. You want to talk about people causing harm to their own, you just invited Cathy fucking Brennan into your living room. Where did you come up with this argument, The Transsexual Empire?
How many people are you willing to throw off the ship in order to become pure?
And don’t say zero, because I’ll laugh you right off this thread. So far the list includes intersex people and those you label transtrenders. That’s not up for interpretation. You just believe it’s justifiable, like some in-the-wilderness you can’t handle the truth schtick.
But let’s… try a thought experiment.
You really don’t have the ability to look into my head and interpret what I’m thinking and feeling, but let’s pretend that you do.
Being genderfluid (not one of your approved genders, I know), my state of being is in relatively constant flux. This is how much it’s in flux: during periods where I feel feminine, my sense of my own body physically changes. I interpret my own face in the mirror as being more feminine. I interpret my body shape as being more feminine. When I was thinner, I actually experienced a mild form of dysphoria over having a flat chest, though I no longer do. When I feel masculine, I interpret my own face as being more masculine. I interpret my body shape as being more masculine.
Please note that this has nothing to do with gender roles or whatever other dodge has rotated into the meta. This is my relationship to my own body. The bedrock principle on which you build the concept of dysphoria.
I also experience… let’s call them surges of gender. It’s a silly name, but it’s evocative, and that’s what I’m going for. Usually, these surges are towards the feminine. Sometimes, rarely, they’re towards the masculine. These surges may be subtle or very strong.
One day a few years ago, I was doing the dishes, and minding my own business. And my mind wandered, and something triggered a surge extremely heavily towards the feminine, so much so that whatever controls this sensation actually panicked, overcompensated, and sent me towards the masculine again.
And then something really strange happened: I was sent in a third direction.
I spent the next five minutes with a very confusing mental state in which I felt, with the same conviction of experiencing femininity or masculinity, like another gender. If I’m being honest, I felt alien, not only like my body was wrong, but that no possible human configuration of my body was correct, and yet something else would be. Dysphoria for an alien body, I suppose, is how I’d explain it. This explanation is muddy, vague, ambiguous, and probably incomprehensible, as if trying to explain my base experience wasn’t already, but this is how I experienced it, and this is how I understand myself, so, this is my honest interpretation of events.
Bear in mind, I’d felt the femininity and masculinity ‘surges’ before. I knew what they were, and I knew what they felt like, and they result in the aforementioned shifts in my sense of body. This was distinct from both of those states, and not some surge towards being agender, either, because I’ve felt that, too. This was, as far as I can explain it, a surge towards a third, distinct gender, as separate from manhood and womanhood as they are from each other.
So how do you interpret that? How do you interpret what happens to me at the level of awareness of my own body? Am I transtrending only some of the time? Is my fluid gender only valid when it happens to align with one of the binary genders? Do you think I’m lying or mistaken about an experience you have no possible way of verifying?
And for that matter, how do you interpret gender fluidity in terms of your list of acceptable genders? If I happen to feel like a girl, am I a girl for all intents and purposes? Are my other identities erased until they are brought back to the fore, like gender doublethink? Am I supposed to operate under the same logic handed down to bisexual and pansexual people when people say our sexuality is defined in terms of the gender of the person we’re in a relationship with? Like my gender is understandable as being male and female and both and neither in unpredictable combinations and that experience is not fundamentally different from being only male or only female?
Nobody calls Guernica a monochrome painting and then leaves it at that, not even when discussing the raw mechanics of the work. It’s the context of one colour next to another in specific spatial locations on the canvas that produces its meaning.
And you can debate that all you want, you can deny the forces of social construction, but take the universe and grind it down the finest powder and sieve it through the finest sieve, and then show me one atom of femininity, one molecule of masculinity.
And yet you act as if there is some ideal order in the world, as if there is some… some rightness in the universe by which it may be judged.
Now, about ‘trans fetishization’.
I… have no idea what you’re talking about.
I’m not saying that what you said isn’t understandable. The words are in a grammatically correct order and together they convey its meaning.
I’m saying your position is not in contact with any reality I am aware of.
Nobody’s forcing the poor innocent fictional character to be trans. The trans reading of a character most people read as cis doesn’t erase that other reading. The OP interprets Luke Skywalker as trans, which is a possible interpretation based on the literal text of the Star Wars movies.
Look, let me back up a bit.
I think it might be useful to sidebar about interpretation here, because I think we’re working off fundamentally different concepts about what it is.
When someone interprets a text in a certain way, they are saying, this is a possible way to read it. There’s the intended reading by the author, and then there’s what the audience reads, and this doesn’t have to be the same thing.
Death of the Author posits that these interpretations are both equally valid. I think if you wanted to argue against that, you’d have to argue against the existence of headcanons, fanfiction, and pretty much the entire concept of fandom since Don Quixote, and I don’t think you’re prepared to do that.
Now, let’s talk about transness.
I’m going to go out on a limb and say that you’re aware of the fact that it’s not always possible to interpret someone’s correct gender by their dress or appearance. You posted the entire conversation we had, so I feel pretty safe to point out that you yourself mentioned that you had a full beard when you spoke to me, and it was ‘merely annoying’ — but the point is, presence or absence of a beard doesn’t make your gender any less valid. You are how you identify regardless of how you appear. I certainly wouldn’t argue any different. I’d avoid saying or doing anything to you I knew would make you feel like shit about your beard or any other part of you, and I’d defend your identity to anyone who dared to challenge it.
That goes with the territory of being a decent human being in my book. It’s not something special or earned or revokable. I don’t care if you’re an abusive, violent, murderous asshole. I don’t care if you’re mr-cappadocia, ihatecispeople, David Koch, Bernie Sanders, Khalid Sheikh Mohammed, Karl Rove, Cathy Brennan, Steven Harper, Chelsea Manning. You get to identify how you want, with all that entails. That’s a human right.
Even if I could come down on you for any number of other things, that one’s off the table. The ends of hurting someone for what they’ve done never justify the means of allowing myself, even in the most extreme circumstances, to deny someone their own identity, because there’s always a way to argue extreme circumstances, and maybe my identity’s next. Or yours.
It’s possible, depending on factors of safety and personal aesthetic, that you might, to use a problematic term, pass as male sometimes. That people interpret you as being a cis man even though this is not correct. Whether you actually do or not is immaterial for this discussion — if necessary, we can say that I pass as male sometimes, or that it is possible for trans women to pass as male sometimes.
It’s possible in the other direction, as well, when someone passes as their intended gender and they are believed to be cis men when they are trans, and cis women when they are trans. I’m not saying anything new here, I’m sure.
The intersection of all this, however, is that in the absence of the text explicitly denoting the cisgender or transgender status of a character, that character is always interpretable as trans.
In the exact same way that a trans man can pass as a cis man, it is possible to interpret that a character is doing the same. This is what the OP is doing.
Did you notice what I did, though?
I used the exact same line in the OP about trans!Luke and periods, modified for you and beards. I played the Han to your Luke, only without the implication that we’re dating, because, unless you’re one of my people and haven’t told me, we’re not.
Was it okay to say that to you, and not okay to say that about a fictional character?
Would it have been okay if the OP said this not as a headcanon about Luke Skywalker, but as a hypothetical about their own desires as a trans man for the support they’d like? ‘I wish I had a boyfriend who…’
Would it have been okay if the headcanon was made about a trans man and another man in a canon relationship?
Would it have been okay if the headcanon was made about trans!Luke and Han Solo if they weren’t boyfriends, or in the context of a romantic or sexual relationship?
What is so harmful in letting a dysphoric trans man comfort theirself with a fluffy headcanon about god damn space boyfriends that he is now on trial for crimes against transness?
I mean, look at what you’re saying about the post: “This is a major part of transtrending because it’s the precursor to ‘appropriation’”. Your literal actual argument is that this post is somehow bad because of some future hypothetical issue down a slippery slope.
Meanwhile, you’re harming an actual dysphoric trans man, right now. You’re telling him that his methods of coping with dysphoria are wrong and bad on the basis that you believe they might, down the line, cause someone to “appropriate” transness. You’re putting him under extreme scrutiny for daring to call Luke Skywalker trans, in the absence of any other wrongdoing.
Have you noticed that your arguments boil down in many cases to blaming someone for the sins of other people?
The doctors and HMOs denying care to trans people, according to you they’re using the correct arguments, because they’re your arguments. Yep. It’s perfectly valid to treat all trans people like medical tourists because of the mistaken belief of others that they require transition. The mass generalization of all trans folk who seek care into a single collective pass/fail for treatment is perfectly okay, and you’re 100% on board with that, but you have a problem: Transtrenders exist, sullying the good name of those true trans people and stopping those doctors from signing off on the paperwork. So to make the generalization real, your plan is to eradicate anyone who dares conceptualize transness in a different way, require crippling, unmistakeable dysphoria to be allowed the label of trans, and then the medical establishment is bound to generalize all trans folk in more beneficial ways, because that’s been their record with marginalized groups.
The people making up headcanons, they’re providing an environment in which other people might think it’s not a death sentence to be trans. Oh my god. Call Fringe Division. This person has somehow caused people they have never met to do something wrong. I bet Walter Bishop theorized a way to alter the gender self-concept of others through neuro-linguistic programming. DON’T LOOK AT THE FLUFFY HEADCANON. IT’S A LEVEL 3 COGNITOHAZARD.
And don’t come at me about how inflammatory I’m being, or about the tactics I’m using, or the attitude I have. You’re literally telling a trans man that he’s fetishizing himself, and then coming down on him for hypothetical future problems, and zero of those words are certain or factual. Problems, I add, that even with the call to action I have not yet seen evidence of.
Your tactics are from the fucking Inquisition, with eminently predictable results, and about as much accuracy.
I used to see people call out trans folk for faking all the time. What happened to that? I was honestly expecting a list of blogs by now, people who identify under tumblr genders and who use nounself pronouns, stuff like that. Did you all realize that you’re being, well, ridiculous, and that it’s impossible to see what’s in someone’s head and their heart, and that maybe, just maybe, you feel bad about all the people who are trans by your own definition that you put on the rack in pursuit of the impure?
Or did I just manage to lose sight of the dungeon?