Deep-spacito

it's an inside joke || they/them || gemini || basically a side blog for all things enby and stoof || likes/replies/follows are from my main blog || credit for pfp to @exbestfriends

[positivepatton]

Dear feminine-presenting afab enbies and masculine presenting amab enbies: you’re super valid, your gender, label, and pronouns are valid, you’re an important and incredible part of the nonbinary community, and I hope you have a great day!

[bapzap]

trans women………………………… pretty.

[bapzap]

“non-passing” trans women……………….. also pretty.

[bapzap]

trans women that prefer handsome…….. handsome.

[intersexfairy]

Because there arent many posts like this for transfems here are your reminders to...

Take your estrogen/progesterone! Refill your prescription if you ran out/will run out soon!

Stop tucking if you're experiencing pain, numbness, etc., or have been tucking too long!

Hydrate! Even if you aren't thirsty, if it's been more than a few hours since you drank something, please do!

Be kind to yourself! No matter where you are on your trans journey, know that you are valid and loved. ♡

[errant-arcenciel]

haven't posted a selfie in a while so here's me feeling good after class

I also got a super cute bee necklace!! I love it cause I'm currently going by Bee, and it's short for enby (or at least I like to think it is :)

[spitblaze]

dysphoria is a very common hallmark of transness, sure, but gender euphoria is an almost completely universal and therefore much more reliable signifier and frankly i think we should say ‘if the idea of being a different gender than the one you were born assigned as makes you feel happy/better about yourself you’re trans’ instead of telling people ‘the way you know you’re trans is if your body feels like a prison and your genitals make you hate yourself’

[errant-arcenciel]

I just really like my new haircut (ft. some moss and a sunset)

[lgbt-vibes]

Ace, trans, and NB shrimp!

[its-nonbinary-culture]

You’re allowed to use and explore labels and pronouns to see what fits!

So what if you might not identify as something 10, 5, or 3 years later? So what if it turns out the label isn’t for you after all? So what? Some things don’t change, but some things do! Identity is personal, so you should be doing what’s best for you.

Trying labels and pronouns and terms isn’t stopping someone else from trying those things out too, y’know. There isn’t a finite amount of they/them pronouns or people that can call themselves gay or asexual or transgender…that’s just silly!

Explore, keep an open mind, have fun, and most importantly, find something that makes you feel like you.

[birds-and-the-enbys]

✨It can hard sometimes to see a future for yourself as non binary 

This is your reminder that there are people like us in their 20s, 40s 80s etc.✨

✨There are enbys with families, careers, who have or are achieving their goals

There are enbys who are out and proud and still enby as adults, no matter what the stereotypes say ✨

✨There are enbys who have only recently found the label; there are those that have always called themselves nonbinary 

There is a future for you, you will get there ✨

[soft-sapphic-love]

bi lesbians deserve kindness. ply lesbians deserve peace. pan lesbians deserve happiness. omni lesbians deserve love. all m-spec lesbians deserve to have their identity respected.

[birds-and-the-enbys]

Your relationship with your gender doesn’t have to be static! You can change how you dress, your presentation, your pronouns, your language about yourself anytime you want

it doesn’t make your gender any less valid, and it doesn’t mean you’re confused!

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

┏┓ ┃┃╱╲ In this ┃╱╱╲╲  house ╱╱╭╮╲╲  we ▔▏┗┛▕▔     ╱▔▔▔▔▔▔▔▔▔▔╲       love & support mspec lesbians and recognize them as part of the LGBTQ+ community! ╱╱┏┳┓╭╮┏┳┓ ╲╲ ▔▏┗┻┛┃┃┗┻┛▕▔

[somethingmissingthiswaycomes]

General lesbian positivity post.

Here we go~

Lesbians of color, you deserve the world. <3

Disabled lesbians, you deserve respect, admiration, and frankly more rights. <3

Fat/overweight lesbians, you are beautiful and vibrant. <3

Lesbians with genital preferences, your needs don’t make you transphobic. <3

Lesbians without genital preferences, you’re not “just bi.” <3

Trans lesbians, you’re all shining stars, no matter how you transition or how well you “pass.” <3

Nonbinary lesbians, you inspire me. <3

Butch trans lesbians, you are powerful women. <3

Bi/pan lesbians, you don’t have to explain yourselves. <3

Ace and acespec lesbians, you don’t have to have sex to be “real” lesbians. <3

Aro and arospec lesbians, you’re not cold-hearted, and your love is a powerful force. <3

Lesbians who’ve been with men while questioning, this does not make you less of who you are. <3

I hope this finds you well.

Happy pride.

Stay safe.

Love and support each other.

[dalish-gloves]

I wish a radical, loving, and indulgent International Nonbinary People’s Day to all of us, including those of us who aren’t here anymore.

I know days like this come around and are usually just a twitter badge or whatever, but I think it’s worth celebrating, and I mean properly celebrating, like a proper holiday. I don’t know where you’re reading this, but where I happen to be, there are so many holidays dedicated to people that left behind a legacy of destruction and oppression.

So I don’t think it’s silly to properly celebrate it. I hope you do a kind thing for yourself today. If you’re reading this, you’re still here. I’m celebrating you too.

[birds-and-the-enbys]

🍂There’s no look to being nonbinary. Nobody can tell you ‘oh, but you look like a [x]’ / ‘you don’t look very nonbinary’ / ‘you look too feminine/masculine to be nonbinary’

if you’re nonbinary you look nonbinary, and you look amazing! 🍂

[galvanized-art]

Black Power and Gay Pride aren’t mutually exclusive. the first pride was a riot led by trans black women.

feel free to use!

[bering-strait-deactivated202005]

the world is a better place with trans women in it. trans women are valuable and important members of our communities. trans women deserve safety and protection and love.