[reincarnatedvaleriesolanas]

I fucking ADORE it when women PEAAAAAKKKKK and speak their truth. The fact that i saw this on tiktak restored my faith in humanity

[randomstringofletterandnumber]

Hot take: cheating men are sexual predators

No I won't elaborate further.

[fairymischief-deactivated202502]

They are predators because getting a woman to be with you/stay with you sexually and romantically under the false impression that you're being faithful to her is manipulation, and manipulation is predatory.

[icanse3y0u-deactivated20250105]

why do women always have to be the bigger person? why don’t men just stop “joking” abt raping us?

[dhakcjshkvjbd]

males actively oppressing and raping and killing women isn’t enough of an excuse for us to joke about hating them, but our jokes are enough to excuse them raping and killing and oppressing us. ok lol.

this just reads as proof that we really do need to kill all males because there is clearly something deeply, horrifyingly wrong with them.

[kotbliny]

[cocksmasher69]

kids, dont be as stupid as @kotbliny please

[b4tf3m-deactivated20250316]

i agree with cocksmasher69

[wifehaver103947]

[fairypage-deactivated20190421]

this is a straight couple. it’s straight. you’re in a heterosexual relationship. there is nothing remotely “queer” about this in the slightest whatsoever. jesus h christ

[bad-vedma]

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

[sirona-ryan]

Addressing Common TRA Arguments! (Possible thread)

“A woman is anyone who identifies as a woman!”

A) You can’t define a word using that same word.

B)What does it mean to “identify as a woman?” What makes up the woman identity? You can’t answer this without being sexist.

“You’re reducing women to their genitals!”

A) The term “adult human female” has nothing to do with genitals. Sex is based on gametes, not genitals. For example: if a man loses his penis in some accident, he’s still male.

B) It’s not “reducing” to say that women are female. If we say that humans have two arms and legs, we aren’t “reducing humans to their limbs.” You know what is reducing women to their genitals, though? Terms like “people with vaginas” and “menstruators.”

“What about intersex people?”

Intersex people, now known as people with DSDs, are still male or female. There is no third sex because there is no third gamete.

“You’re reducing women down to baby making machines!”

The dictionary definition of female is: “of or denoting the sex that can bear offspring or produce eggs, distinguished biologically by the production of gametes (ova) that can be fertilized by male gametes.” The word CAN is important here. While not every female person is able to become pregnant, they are part of the only sex that CAN. So, not all females can get pregnant, but absolutely no males can.

“You’re just like the Nazis and the far right!”

A) Radical feminists support abortion, female separatism, abolishing gender roles, intersectionality, gay rights, and (sometimes) antinatalism. The far right and Nazis do not support these things- and if they did, it would be for different reasons than radfems do.

B) You might be thinking of the people doing Nazi salutes at Posie Parker’s rally. While Parker is gender critical, she is not a radical feminist (or a feminist at all) and therefore not a TERF. So this argument doesn’t apply to us.

“Feminism should be intersectional and include trans women!”

You’re right that feminism should be intersectional. It’s important to acknowledge that, while women are all oppressed on the basis of sex, there are other ways that women face oppression and have privilege. The term Intersectionality was coined by a Black woman (Kimberle Crenshaw) to discuss how WOC have different experiences than White women, and the term has now expanded to include gay women, disabled women, and poor women. Trans women, however, are not included here because they are not female. Feminism is for female people.

“Not accepting people will make them kill themselves!”

Threatening suicide if someone doesn’t agree with you or do something for you is a common emotional manipulation tactic. This sentence is abusive. I am not responsible for someone else’s mental health. Also, someone who attempts suicide because someone didn’t affirm them online should not be on social media at all.

“TERFs are causing violence and killing trans people!”

Trans women are overwhelmingly killed by men, often homophobic men. You should be focusing your energy on these predatory, violent males, not young women quoting Dworkin on Tumblr.

“There is a trans genocide!”

A) No.

B) Many people from groups who have faced genocide in the past have come out and stated how offensive this “trans genocide” rhetoric is.

C) The dictionary definition of genocide is: the deliberate killing of a large number of people from a particular nation or ethnic group with the aim of destroying that nation or group.” As of right now, there is not a mass murder of trans people going on. States banning “gender affirming care” is not genocide.

“Kids aren’t getting surgery and hormones! This doesn’t happen!”

Okay, so if it doesn’t happen, why is it a problem if it’s not allowed?

Please feel free to add on to this list, especially if you want to formally debunk a claim (preferably the “brain sex” myth)!

[happyhelios]

when men point out that men are more likely to be the victims of f homicides and violence... it really doesn't do to me what they think it will because ok?? men kill each other a lot?? men hit each other a lot??? how tf is that women's problem or fault? men have tried to shut women out of society while also forcing them to carry it... and now i'm supposed to pause my energy and care for women because men don't like the violent environment they have created??? AND do men who bring this point up think that other men who are violent will suddenly listen to women asking them to stop being violent??? it really is a talking point that's meant to gaslight you into downplaying the danger men impose on women and at the same time he can get some of that sweet sympathy and empathy of brainwashed women going "omg really? why does no one talk about it! we need to care about men as well, feminism is for everybody!!"

[chainsawworld]

how in the actual fuck do people figure out their gender

[she-volution-deactivated2022052]

gender isn’t a feeling, it’s just a collection of oppressive roles and behaviors, don’t identify with gender 💞

[illalwaysbehere]

How to figure out your gender:

Are you male or female?

If you’re male, you were socialized to be masculine.

If you’re female, you were socialized to be feminine.

You’re forced into a pretty narrow box based on your sex, not just by your parents, but by society at large. You can’t escape it. None of us can. It’s in books, television, movies, magazines, radio, and theater. It’s enforced at school and work, in medicine and science, in psychology, and just about every field you can think of. You see it your neighborhood, in the city, the suburbs, and out in the country. It’s everywhere, engrained into our culture, laws, attitudes, forming the very foundations of our society.

It’s a social construct because it was socially constructed, enforced, and refined over time by society and everyone in it. It can differ by culture, country, and time period, but the end result is always the same, without fail.

Now that you have some basic awareness of gender, you get to choose what you do next.

Do you:

A) Acknowledge that gender is fake and harmful, an oppressive construct created by men for men to benefit men and oppress women. Embrace that being a man or woman means nothing but the state of being male or female, and that gender roles/stereotypes are artificial. They’re not found in nature. Society is wrong. Gender isn’t real. It’s enforced. Women are not weaker, nor inferior to men. We are not innately feminine. We are not born with a preference for high heels, makeup, or a desire to be dominated by men. That’s a man-made lie. Men are not superior. They are not born hallow shells unable to express emotions with a preference for cars and the color blue. That’s another man-made lie. Sex and gender are not the same. They only seem connected because we as a society keep pretending they are. Remove humans from society, and you’ll see the only differences between men and women are biological, and that’s only for reproductive purposes, which we as human beings don’t even have to do any more if we don’t want to. Realize all this, and work together and talk with other members of your sex to overcome the oppressive concept of gender, share your experiences, realize you’re not alone, normalize gender non-conformity, start the long process of changing society for the better, and help everyone heal. That’s revolutionary. That’s “fucking the gender binary”.

Or

B) Acknowledge that gender is fake and harmful, but delude yourself into thinking you can get out of it by creating your own gender and identifying as something you’re not, all in a futile attempt to save your own skin while throwing everyone else under the bus and keeping them firmly in these harmful boxes so you can feel better and superior for a while. Uphold gender roles by pretending you’re some special exception to the rule. That you aren’t a man or woman because you don’t like blue or pink, you like green. Do nothing but try on genders you found on the internet like trendy accessories. Force everyone to cater to your new niche identity on the threat of punishment. Refuse to speak to other members of your sex. Silence them when they talk about socialization and male privilege/female oppression. Doxx them when they don’t agree with you. Post long rants on Twitter about how disgusting and fetishy gay people are. Start calling anyone you don’t like a “terf” so you can justify threatening them with violence. Don’t change a damn thing. Exist in your bubble pretending society is evolving while it remains the way it always has. Put yourself and only yourself first. Treat family, friends, and strangers alike as validation machines, making it their job to prop up this gender identity you’ve created. The world must change everything for you, or else. Keep the gender binary firmly in place. Uphold traditional valued.

Your choice.

[sapphos-catpanions]

“how in the actual fuck do people figure out their gender” in 3 easy steps:

1. realize that there’s nothing to “figure out”

2. feel a little ashamed at the time you wasted

3. move on to other things

[sirona-ryan]

“What is a woman?” Typical definition vs. TRA definition

“Adult human female:” clear, concise, makes sense, has been used for centuries, gives a precise definition, doesn’t reduce women to stereotypes, includes half the global population.

“Anyone who identifies as one:” makes no sense, unclear, no actual definition, no clue on who is included, reduces women to sexist stereotypes.

I still don’t get how people think the first one is wrong.🧐

[butch-reidentified]

how do you identify as female while being “gender abolitionist” lol sounds like your brain is fuckin rotten. kys

I don't "identify" as female, it is the literal unavoidable, unchangeable material reality of my sex. I don't have a gender identity, just a female body and sex dysphoria. Same way I don't "identify" as brunette or 5'5" or green-eyed lmao. Gender and sex aren't the same. Aren't you guys always saying that? 🙄

Anyway, here's another example of TRAs telling women to kill themselves or threatening us despite the fact that I've literally never initiated a single engagement with them nor sent them any messages or asks at all, let alone violent ones. But WE are the bad guys lmaoo

[desisapphic]

holy shit these people act like they haven't actually existed as person or been outside for even one day of their life, they're so goddamn insufferable

[radgirl-spray]

I'd also like to point out how MtF transgenderism is inherenty classist by the way, because it hold girlhood/womanhood to capitalistic standards of what is to be a girl/woman based not only in insulting stereotypes of character, but also of consumerism.

When i see TiM's performing "femininity" is always from a product stand point. Dylan Mulvaney, for example, talks about girlhood from his pink apartment, in his expensive clothing, with what he thinks girls get during their childhood because that's what media told them girlhood/womanhood is. And this applies for almost every single famous TiM out there right now.

But what about the other girlhood? What about the poor woman's womanhood?

What about the girlhood of the girl who never had a doll because her parents cannot afford it? what about the woman who doesn't wear make up or nice clothes because she's mother of five and she has no time nor money for it? What about the girls who are busy cooking for their younger siblings, cleaning the house, because they have only one parent and that parent is working their ass off? What about the girl who wear whatever her slightly older male brother/cousin passes down, because the clothing in her family is inherited. What about the girl who never had a pink room because she slept in an orphanage with another 20 children?

What about the women who don't perform femininity because they can't afford it? By these people's standards that's not womanhood apparently. TiFs in general will point out how they are not women because they don't perform the pink cutie stuff nor feel "identified" with the femenine stereotype, without realizing poor women never did it in the first place; because they where busy trying not to starve, too busy trying to be strong to care about not being women just because they wore clothes from the male aisle. More so when even despite not performing the pink cutie stuff, the world will never ever allow them to forget they are not only poor but poor women in the first place.

[midnightssea]

I do think there is a difference between how men and women are socialized to express emotions but I cannot STAND when men twist that to imply that little girls are never told to “stop crying” or women just have a peachy easy time expressing emotion while men are forced to suffer in silence. Like literally women and girls are CONstantly told that we’re hysterical and overdramatic and irrational for expressing emotion and we explicitly get taken less seriously than men do when we express emotion. Be for real.

[cyberthot666]

when someone critiques porn as an industry and y’all start seeing it as an attack on sex in general...... that is what people are warning of. the conflation of porn as sex itself. if I can not critique the industry that is so exploitive without people assuming I just hate sex, how sad is that? that’s the very problem.

[sobbing-space-trash]

I think the problem is that a lot times, the ones who attack porn ALSO attack sex and masturbation and are usually heavily misogynistic and religious. Attacks on porn have oftentimes been a dog whistle for christian fundamentalists who don't approve of women having the liberty to express their sexuality, or have autonomy over their own bodies and lives.

Although the porn industry is heavily flawed and needs to be corrected, I think people by and large have become cautious of people who attack porn because of the association it's gotten with fundamentalists who attack not just porn, but sex and masturbation and kink and anything they deem to be morally wrong which almost always includes the lgbt+ community as well

Not saying that OP condemns these things too, just that typically lately when one sees an attack on porn, it usually ends up being tied to the rest as well, and I think people have just developed this knee-jerk reaction to attack people they see attacking porn

[autisticexpression]

There is a whole online community of "nofap" weirdos repeating Victorian pseudoscience about how masturbation and "giving your strength to women" weakens men by sapping their "life force energy." That’s the context a lot of online criticisms of porn are nested in, so it’s a good idea to be very wary of them.

Generally, anyone who trying to end pornograohy in all forms is a crank. There will always be pornography of some kind, whether it's couples posting videos of each other fucking on reddit or weird furry art on tumblr. The entire industry could crumble tomorrow, and people would still be posting hole. It's the nature of humanity to be horny, barring exceptions.

Criticisms of specific problems within the industry are much more legitimate, but the thing is, most anti-porn advocates aren't listening to them because many of the most informed criticisms come from the porn stars themselves. Ginger Banks was very instrumental in pushing pornhub to tighten their policies around stolen and otherwise nonconsensual content, while condemning the efforts of religious anti-porn organizationslike Exodus Cry. Stoya exposed James Dean (not the actor) as a predator. Even Mia Khalifa who became a bit of a darling for anti-porn activists for a hot minute is pro-porn as long as it's consensual, and continues to post lewds on onlyfans.

The idustry is absolutely worth criticizing but always be wary of where those criticisms come from and what the motivations are before you reblog. I actually strongly recommend following Ginger Banks on Instagram even if you have no interest in watching her porn, or any porn at all, because she gives an excellent balanced perspective on this complex issue.

[autisticexpression]

Turns out OP is a terf which is incidentally another reason why people are wary of this discourse.

[hyenagurl]

of course op is a terf, who else is gonna talk earnestly about why the sex industry is harmful to women specifically anymore? fucking complacent semen fingered morons like you who go “ouughhggh silly feminazi porn is never gonna go away thats why you should look at THIS porn its so much better than that bad porn! so please stop talking about the online porn industry posting CIA level torture vids of women because you might be posting problematic wrongthink and it makes me uncomfy!” ? shut the fuck up and leave the discussions to the grown women, dork

[haggishlyhagging]

Nature works in coordinated cycles, and when a harmonious cycle is destroyed, a cycle of destruction will take its place. Because patriarchal men have refused to cooperate with nature, following religions and secular ideologies based on defiance and contempt for the earth, they have now almost destroyed our chances of survival on earth. It took 1,500 million years for the first living organisms to change the atmosphere so that animal life could begin to be possible. But patriarchy has destroyed so much in relatively no time at all: roughly in two thousand years. At increasing speeds today, forests are cut down, water is poisoned, the air polluted, the soil ruined. The point is that such devastation could happen only by way of male-dominated religions and cultural ideologies based on hostility toward the earth's cyclic processes. For at least 500,000 years human beings survived as pagans, not because they were savage and stupid, as the missionaries of all patriarchal religions would have us believe, but because "pagan" means "of the land"—it is a spiritual orientation that linked people, body, mind, and soul, with the intelligence of the earth. In contrast, patriarchy assumes that the earth is stupid, and proceeds to "replace" her ways with manmade ways. With what result?

-Monica Sjöö and Barbara Mor. The Great Cosmic Mother: Rediscovering The Religion of the Earth.

[femaleisnotafeeling]

What do you think of Joyofsatan.org? They claim to follow the Sumerian God Enki-Satan, they’re pro-choice, they follow gay Pagan Gods and they’re the largest Satanist group in the world.

Hmm as long as what they believe doesn't harm anyone, seems fine to me. Personally any belief or worship in mythical beings seems a bit out there to me.

[sprinkledsalt]

People fundamentally don’t want women to seek justice against men who abused them because if we held every violent man accountable for his behavior, the patriarchy and how society in general functions would collapse. It’s easier for people to twist themselves into knots to justify why they think every woman in a high profile case is lying than to justify what they really think, that men should be allowed to beat and rape and shoot women with impunity.

When a woman doesn’t seek justice or settles a case because she doesn’t want to be abused all over again by the legal system, misogynists rejoice, because she’s been frightened back into submission and the man gets away with it—exactly how they want the world to work.

[sprinkledsalt]

--from "Who's Afraid of Amber Heard?", one of the best pieces written about the case by far

[mini-wrants]

Bestie you are so right.

[moonapartment-blog]