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- woman - bi - sideblog - here to learn and love women <3 my posts tagged #goose speaks

[mindoraan]

being a woman means NOTHING except that you are a female 💞💞💞💞 theres no restrictions, no limits. a woman can be anything and do anything and look any way she wants. there are infinite ways to be a woman 💜 all you gotta do is BE BORN FEMALE 💖

[selasayer-deactivated20240608]

female describes a human body, not a personality

[hairless-biped]

this mindset has been so healing for me. a big part of my journey to self-acceptance has been unlearning the ways in which my culture told me that my female body dictated how I should behave. now I just focus on existing, just like any other mammal.

[aspiringxxspinster]

[gaydiationpoisoning-deactivated]

The biggest, most obvious hole in the “cis” concept, for me, is that it demands everyone have a gender. It assumes that everyone who is not-trans is comfy in their bodies, which can be untrue for a number of reasons, but it also assumes that everyone who is not-trans actually, strongly identifies with the gender forced upon them at birth. I know no one like this, even among able-bodied men, who benefit from their gender assignment.

Gender is restriction at best and violence at worst. Let’s not pretend it’s good for anyone by telling other people that expanding it will liberate us.

[neeea]

#plus #if there is no male or female body what makes a person cis? #if biological sex isn’t real how could the concepts of cis or trans exist ?? #that’s what i dont get

That’s exactly what I’ve been wondering as well.

[lorynna]

[yassifiedgollum]

Radfems are so annoying but they're also just really sad. Just now one of them tagged my post with "walk home alone says the wolf to the sheep" and it's like. Why do you imagine all women are prey animals incapable of protecting themselves and all men are carnivores compelled to hurt them?! That's not how the world is. Why don't you conceptualize yourself as an intelligent, autonomous being with agency and maybe you'll calm down

[anxiouslyliquidcurse]

youre taking an allegory literally and then congratulating yourself for it. saying "walk home alone says the wolf to the sheep" isnt claiming women are helpless animals or men are biologically evil.

its pointing to a social reality where male violence is predictable and women bear the cost. women do defend themselves and then they get arrested, jailed, disbelieved for it. thats the system failing them, not a lack of agency. pretending that recognizing patterns of violence means you dont see women as autonomous is just a way to avoid talking about the real problem.

"maybe you'll calm down" is such a male thing to say, treating womens rightful worries as hysteria. you insist women are these intelligent beings but also talk to them like an upset child who just needs to stop imagining things and relax.

half of trans people on tumblr claim to be puppies, transwomen compare themselves to female hyenas but one radfem allegory is what gets you?

[femsolid]

But, have you tried conceptualizing yourselves out of oppression ladies???

[anjomecanico]

Choice feminism was the master's gambit of capitalism-patriarchy

[miggylol]

Spin the wheel.

You have been offered a full-ride scholarship to get a four-year degree in this field, specifically. Upon graduation, you will be guaranteed a job in this field at the 75th percentile of average salary for the field, with the possibility of further advancement as the years go on.

However, you will never be able to get a job in any other field.

Do you take the offer?

100% yes!

Probably yes

I'm honestly torn, this is a hard choice

Probably not

Absolutely fucking not

Random other option for people who want to ramble in the tags

Voting ended onJan 26

[moondahluna]

Being and Being Bought by Kajsa Ekis Ekman

[uncertainwaters]

women really love petting your head when you have a buzzcut

[utenamity]

It's interesting how open people are to debate transgender ideology when a man brings it up, I've not found a single hate comment. Yet everytime I come across a tiktok that mentions radical feminism, the majority of the comments are "but you're not a terf, right????"

[logophilestudies]

[dogpuppy]

[femsolid]

Girls are naturally submissive. If you're not comfortable with that, you were born in the wrong body. Get a brain scan to see if you have a boy brain or a girl brain. Or don't, just ask a therapist for hormones so that you can align your chakras with sexism I mean gender. Figure out what your soul's gender is. And buy new clothes accordingly. To be perceived. People's perception and opinion are vital. Make sure your tshirt is valid. Check the mirror. What is your soul telling you today? You're not there yet. You need to buy more clothes and fix your hair. It's science. Look in the mirror. What will they see? A person or a girl?

[rabidwolf9000-deactivated202508]

What gets me about footage from the trial is that sure, Amber Heard was suffering on an excruciating, personal level. But she had also already written, at length, about the realities of misogyny and this woman-hating world. So the footage of her distress and her agitation speak beyond what she knew was being done to her. She knew what this meant for women in general.

From Porter magazine in 2018 (prior to the WAPO essay):

[hellsite-yano]

this is literally what it's like

[charl0ttan]

honestly for all we know it probably feels good as fuck to have sex