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About us

We are:

Disabled

Queer

Mixed

Very goofy & silly

We use they/it and some neos.

We want zero non-traumagenic systems to interact with us, as well as supporters of non-traumagenic systems. General DNI criteria also applies like TRASH people (Transphobic, Racist, Ableist, Sexist, Homophobic), people who glorify paraphilias (MAP, zoosexuals, etc.), and generally uncomfortable people.

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#introducing myself #traumagenic system #endos dni #actually autistic #autism #adhd #person of color #lgbtq #get to know me #introductory post

this-is-transandrophobia

Being hypersexualised by both men and women,theand knowing when you're sexually harassed by women you can't talk about it because "you're a man, I'm just a girl" rhetoric is so pervasive. Being expected to be constantly horny and down for sex on demand (especially if you're on T) and having those boundaries ignored, told "I thought you wanted to be a man?" when you say no

This is transandrophobia.

wiki-but-made-them-up

astercrash

sawed-on-shotgun

i like when i see an account w the name and pfp of a fictional character and i cant tell if its a DID situation or a roleplay blog or just a trans person whos really committed to their favorite thingbeast

pleasantpostpeanut

Reminder this pride month

h3xt0r

We need more ships where it's romantic for one half and platonic for the other and both parties are aware and ok with this

histrionic-culture-is

Questioning HPD culture is not feeling like you do the behaviors associated with HPD enough to have it... so you immediately think of posting about it to see if people pay attention and validate you 😭

(Questioning) HPD culture is..

neobotomy

fizzlewizard404

Raggedy Roan

jaydendr4ws

TADC x liminal spaces 🪑🌱

foxzydrawsz

Not quite spoilers, but,, i need this ending for my own sanity

gardengnosticator

getting teary eyed thinking about gerda gottlieb's paintings of her wife after she transitioned

gardengnosticator

narcissus-thee-squeekual

thing is, for a lot of these paintings it wasn’t “after” lily elbe’s transition. there was no after to it. the one op posted was painted in 1928. this was 2 years before lily legally changed her name and began undergoing revolutionary gender affirming procedures. unfortunately she died due to complications of an experimental uterine transplant in 1931.

up until that point, during the day lily continued to dress in masculine clothing and even attended galleries showing gottlieb’s paintings of her. which was kind of iconic. she got to stand in a room full of people who were marveling her beauty, not knowing she was right next to them. it must have been such a cute little secret for them as a couple.

here’s gerda and lilly together

not to mention that for most people there is no real “after” to a transition. especially for these trans historical figures who had to balance identity and safety at all times.

i think having a wife paint these portraits must have felt really amazing for lily. to be able to see herself through the eyes of someone who loved her. i’m very much seconding op on the getting teary eyed.

here are some of my favorite gottleib lily paintings