Feminist First, A Lot Of Things Second

24 🪽minors do not interact

[whisqrs]

why does my boyfriend have to turn everything into a game of saw

[divorcedwife]

look at the republican calendar and see which animal/plant/item is associated with your birthday ok. if you're born january 14 you get the day of the cat

[divorcedwife]

solidarity for everyone who was born on the day of the cistern or the watering can or something like that

[l0stvegas]

Some time ago (I think in 2021) I had to go see a neurologist over really scary symptoms that resembled seizures. I was a nervous wreck about what I was feeling and had barely slept all week, which seemed to be apparent to the doc’s assistant when I sat down in the exam room for questioning or whatever. Dude was pretty young and soft spoken, around my age. He was laser focused doing something on one of those tablet-laptop Surface things as I spoke, presumably writing down my symptoms.

Midway through talking about my symptoms my voice audibly started shaking as I was describing them, clearly upset.

In the middle of my monologue he turns the tablet to face me, closes whatever program he has open and the wallpaper is this fucking collage of pictures of lord farquaad from shrek, lovingly decorated. Dude just sat there placidly smiling at me until I noticed and stopped dead in the middle of a sentence. We sat there in silence like this for like a solid minute before I started wheezing laughing. Before I could even say anything else or process it he picked up the tablet and wordlessly left the room, and I just sat there dumbfounded until the doctor showed up. 10/10 doctor experience tbh

I didn’t own a cell phone at the time to get a photo so this rendition from memory is all I can provide you

[snow-nose]

ID: a digital drawing of a man in scrubs sitting on a wheeled stool, serenely smiling with his elbow on a rolling cart, where a tablet is flipped open to show an approximation of the Lord Farquaad screensaver. end ID

[enigma-absolute]

[l0stvegas]

Reblogging this bc it’s making rounds again

[stargazers-satellite]

btw guys managing your symptoms also means apologizing for things you didn't mean to do. sometimes you do things because of your disorders that you genuinely didn't mean to do, but if it hurt someone you still have to take accountability and make up for the hurt you caused

[misscrazyfangirl321]

Being an adult will have you unironically craving a vegetable

[misscrazyfangirl321]

Being an adult will have you unironically sad about a parasite outbreak in fresh vegetables.

[fuckyeahreligionpigeon]

[rubysapphrald]

i didn’t know perez hilton was a stage name that he purposefully modelled after paris hilton’s real name i thought she just organically had an evil gay wario or something

[nepnepnepnepnepnepnepnepnepnep]

[bunnedoesart]

The genderfluid cycle is just this but back and forth forever

[halos2deac-deactivated20260223]

yep

[less-ismore]

Joel Sternfeld, Women at their daily gathering beside an ancient Roman wall, Parco dei Gordiani, Rome.

From Campagna Romana: The Countryside of Ancient Rome, 1992.

[mevil]

[unalivejournal]

NO!!!! Characters accepting their sexuality will kill the patient.... She needs deep repression narratives to live

[voidcreations]

Look at my birthday cake...

[what-even-is-thiss]

When I suggest people go to the doctor for something a lot of them seem to assume I don’t know what it’s like to have doctors that don’t listen to you. Yeah I do actually. I still think you should go to the doctor.

[what-even-is-thiss]

Yeah you shouldn’t have to be incredibly assertive and possibly try multiple doctors to get what you need. But we live in the real world and unfortunately talking about what should be won’t fix your diseases.

You deserve to be treated for what ails you. Act like it. I know it’s difficult. I know from firsthand experience. You still deserve help.

[what-even-is-thiss]

It took me a while but I found a primary care doctor who doesn’t assume that all of my health problems are due to my weight and he’s been so helpful in advocating for me to specialists who won’t listen. Doctors that will listen to you are out there.

[fckyeahsaltandpeppercurls]

if we lived in a perfect world, that would be great, but we don’t and learning to advocate for yourself is a vital skill. Doctors are far from perfect but they have the training and the knowledge to help and they are much more capable than google’s ai function. Sometimes it helps to phrase your concerns as a question. “When this occurs, this other thing also occurs and that worries me.” You know your body best, so you know when something isn’t normal. And unless you’re a 35 year old white male (the top tier of health, according to the last 100 years of medical science) you will probably Have to advocate for yourself and keep trying doctors until you find one that’s helpful. That sucks. So do a lot of other things, like treatable illnesses.

[nostalgiaville]

"EverythingGirl.com Archive" is a personal project of mine that attempts to reconstruct the whole website, and fix/replace any broken/missing assets. I'm excited to finally show this to the public! But keep in mind the website's still a work in progress, so a lot of clickable links lead to nothing:

https://everything-girl.neocities.org/

[cowsites]

NEED you guys to see this

[alienscumbag]

[bippus]

Loveing the fuckpig

[bippus]