why is there such a stigma against wearing pads? like why is it that people who wear tampons are seen asĀ āstrongā andĀ ācoolā? yāall know that someone people canāt wear them bc it hurts them or that they just donāt like them? stop making it seem like people who wear pads are childish and weak compared to those who wear tamponsĀ
Ok kids buckle up because I know the answer to this question because I am a bitter, vindictive person.
So my first semester of PhD work in a musicology program involved this horrible class with a professor that wanted to suck the life out of all of his students by constantly belittling them. We had to write a short paper each week and present them conference-style and then he would tear us to shreds and do it all over again next week. The purpose of the class was supposedly to have us write papers about materials that hadnāt really been looked at by musicologists yet, and my class had music in advertisements. I was also the only woman in the class and the prof was lowkey sexist so I kept trying to do feminist topics without losing my entire will to live.
So we get to the end of the semester and I am just completely out of fucks, I have one paper left to write and I say fuck it, letās write about pads and tampons, there must be something there, right? It turns out there IS something to be said there (and this gets back to OPās question). Early pad and tampon commercials were very similar to each other; basically hereās a product to help you stay clean during your period. But around 1980, suddenly thereās public outcry and panic over tampons due to TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome). At that point no one really understood how TSS worked but they knew it had to do with tampons. So women freaked out and started switching to pads instead. Now the worst offender, Rely, was taken off the market and other tampon commercials got slapped with little warning signs likeĀ āThis product could cause TSSā so women bought even fewer tampons. This is when the advertising strategies for the two products changed.
Pad advertisements were now aboutĀ ācleanlinessā andĀ āpurityā - they knew you couldnāt get TSS from pads and they were going to emphasize that fact. Youāve got women in white dresses with long hair slowly walking through fields of flowers with pastoral-y flutes in the background. And to fight back, tampon companies take it the complete opposite direction - they ignore TSS entirely and start showing businesswomen running to catch the subway, sporty women riding bikes, basically any sort either high-powered position or active woman showed up in these commercials with contemporary pop-song type music over the top. The clear intention wasĀ āyeah we know that these could cause TSS but theyāre much better for your mobility, both physically and career-wise.ā
I got done giving this paper and I look up to see my four male classmates and one male professor in varying shades of pale-ness and they just all sort of looked at me for a couple minutes without knowing how to respond. Itās one of the proudest moments of my PhD career so far.
Anyway the two products have been advertised basically the same ways ever since then. Now pads are much more comfortable and discreet, and we understand how TSS works and how to avoid it, but the commercial strategies are cemented. If you want to be a strong, on-the-go woman of COURSE youāll wear a tampon because you donāt want to be one of those sissy ladies in the pastoral field of flowers over in pad-land, do you?
