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One thing about me is I’m gonna play a video game and pick the worst guy to be obsessed with

#not to be crazy feminist pilled here #but genuinely i think the reason people think youre evil for not liking dogsbis rooted in misogyny #esp cuz dogs are seen at the more “masculine” animal in media and just social perception #also so many people that think this do not train their dogs or anything bro #someone in our neighborhood had a GIANT OFFLEASH PUPPY (like a mastiff or smthn idk it aas huge af)#and it went up to my parents in our yard bro #like obv it was fine but dont offleash a giant fucking dog?????#ESPECIALLY A PUPPY #and not just for others safety but for theirs as well #people who offleash genuinely dont love their pets #like its still an animal it can still do unpredictable things #and if it runs at a person or an animal or into the road you CANT STOP IT IF YOU DONT HAVE A LEASH #pisses me tf off

dittography-direwolf

Totally normal for a legitimate for-profit company to refuse to reclaim or stop running their products even after they're no longer being paid to do so. I'm sure it's very normal to just keep running your service for free when your contract's been terminated. Spending money to continue running cameras that supposedly no one is looking at is definitely not an indicator they are just run by the federal government to spy on everyone and only a wacko conspiracy theorist would think so.

avpdvoidspace

Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.

And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.

It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.

savouryduck

when I was in high school, I overheard two older students talking about a friend of theirs.

One of them said something like, "it doesn't bother me that [Friend] was in residential mental health treatment, I just wish they wouldn't talk about it ALL the time".

The other replied, "Well, that was all of last year for them. So when they say 'when I was in treatment,' it's like when you say 'last year'."

I try to remember that any time someone says something that sounds Shocking to me. sometimes one person's scary special crisis is another person's last year.

wherethewildcatsare

If you want to be accepting of mental illness, you need to accept the fact that some people's everyday lives are going to be terrifying to you. That doesn't mean they don't get to talk about it. Stop forcing hurt, isolated people to become even MORE hurt and isolated because you can't fathom toughening up a bit.

girlboyburger

something something horsegirls

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peaceandlove26

and then i said oatmeal are you crazy

pterribledinosaurdrawings

how it feels to message a friend who's having Problems that you can't do anything to help with.

the-gay-goblin

Only day you can reblog this

roseverdict

this has been scheduled since last month

archaicfirehydrants

today

what-day-of-the-week

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sockiepuppetry

Ok

jewfrogs

the problem with autism is sometimes you want to do something (brave) but you need someone to gently walk you through each step so you know what will happen. and people don’t like doing that

bobdylanslesbianlover

i had to phone a taxi today, scary

sga-owns-my-soul

every time i see this post i think of that person who posted on reddit that they wanted to go to subway for the first time but they were scared they would say the wrong thing so someone gave them step by step instructions for the entire process and what all the choices would be and when they would ask what question and i just think

someone will

someone out there will see you and say "yes. the world is scary. but let me hold your hand and show you how to do it anyways"

everyone needs that someone, and everyone can be that someone

warriorsdebt

The subreddit r/explainlikeimscared is a surprisingly good resource for this. People are always very kind and thorough from what I've seen, and I spend a decent amount of time there giving walkthroughs and answering questions when I know the process.