The very useless gay

23 | She/her | Hi, I exist, but at least I exist in a very gay way on the same earth as cats and plants:O | In this household we drink respect trans people juice every morning thank u! | I don't use que I spam like a cool person | If your feminism doesn't include trans women your feminism is shit | AI art blogs and blank blogs will be blocked on sight | header by bugbuoyx |

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the concept of a site that doesn't even allow porn requiring age verification for mature content. you gotta give us your legal id or else we'll hide random posts that were incorrectly flagged from you

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Overlock Stitch by @clothes_reetzy

[thatisuseful]

Damn, that's useful

[fluidstatick]

Finally a hand sewing tutorial on a hemline that isn't just the ladder stitch! the ladder stitch disappears when you tighten it, but it's not meant for hemlines because it breaks really easily! The overlock stitch is more stable, so it holds much longer, and it won't pucker or warp the fabric!

[watsdaughter]

tags by @gallusrostromegalus

[teaboot]

OH HELL THE FUCK YES

[roadhogsbigbelly]

i honestly don't really understand why "some people prefer watching gameplay online rather than playing games themselves" is treated as such a taboo when being a spectator is considered a pretty mundane way to engage with most sports, game shows, reality tv or even just like. chess.

[roadhogsbigbelly]

i honestly don't really understand why "some people prefer watching gameplay online rather than playing games themselves" is treated as such a taboo when being a spectator is considered a pretty mundane way to engage with most sports, game shows, reality tv or even just like. chess.

[pussyhoundspock]

joining the war on kids reading any book they want on the side of kids reading any book they want. simply you will be fine. it's even good to be confronted with things you don't understand and even find upsetting, uncomfortable and difficult. it's a surprise tool that will help you later.

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literally ok so not a funny story but kind of funny? when I was nine I encountered rape in a book and I was like hey mom what’s this mean and she explained it and I was like oh. gross. and then like two weeks later a girl on the bus abruptly disclosed her csa and we were all like ????? what ???? but I was like wait hang on there’s a word for that ☝️🤓 and explained what it meant and that it was illegal and that you could talk to a teacher or my mom if it had happened to you and everyone was like ohhhhh I see I see and very somberly comforted the girl (she was safe she was removed from her home and living with my neighbor at the time so it wasn’t Urgent)

[zarohk]

And this is a perfect illustration of why it is important for kids to read or variety of things, and why abusers don’t want them to.

[unsettling-mantis]

Hiding knowledge from kids will not benefit them but only render them helpless when faced with the unknown

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[solaceon]

carrying all the groceries up so my wife doesnt have to

[solaceon]

i bought that for my wife

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[dead-finch-420]

biker laezel comm for devotan on bsky ! thank you for commissioning! (and blessing the world with this concept HELLOOO) tried out a new shading style and I think it came out well!

[ayviedoesthings]

Hey, question. I'm moderating for a discord and we recently added the pluralkit bot to help people who are plural. To understand the bot better, I use some of the commands and find out that a user's system has over 200+ members. All unique members, not like a misspelling names and not knowing how to remove. The user even attested to be proficient with it, so it doesn't seem like a user error. My understanding as someone who doesn't know a lot about plurality and such is that this is nearly impossible and the user is probably faking it but I figured to reach out and get some assistance so to make informed decisions.

"They're probably faking it" is so common but so hurtful, and will always state these simple facts about you:

You shouldn't be a moderator for anything as long as this is your mindset.

You have a cop mentality, and aren't safe for anyone with any kind of disability

Stop asking yourself this question, it doesn't help or benefit anyone and actively pushes people out of safe spaces.

"I don't know much about this area, therefore I feel confident in judging people" Do you read what you write?

[ayviedoesthings]

It's simple, no amount of "pretending" will be nearly as harmful as the ableist society we live in, where disabled people are not believed and supported.

Society treats us as lesser, and it's been like this for centuries, it certainly didn't start because "quirky tiktok kids started inventing autism symptoms" and whatnot. Have people focus on the right issues. Ask them what so-called material harm this pretending is really doing. Where are the receipts.

[lesspopped]

please wear sunscreen!!! I've seen "fuck the beauty industrial complex" posts about complicated skincare regimens and am 100% with them except sometimes they mention sunscreen and no. no. absolutely not. sunscreen is a wonderful supportive friend who wants to keep you safe, and you should let her do it. throw out all your other cosmetics and skincare products if you want, but keep your sunscreen. and if you're not wearing sunscreen, start wearing it!!!! this is not about terror of aging, this is not about every tiny imperfection our fucked-up culture has made you feel insecure about, this is about protecting yourself from skin cancer. wear the damn sunscreen.

[transmercutio]

This isn’t just for people who burn. Folks with dark skin may be less likely to get skin cancer, but the mortality rate is higher when they do.

[parakeet]

PlayStation putting out a legal notice saying they’re removing 500+ movies from user accounts days before announcing they’re getting rid of physical discs for games is an interesting choice

[badgersandbees]

Every single non trans woman who proclaims to be an ally absolutely needs to be posting about how goddamn transmisogynist staff is.

Because when trans women dare to speak up for themselves, Tumblr nukes their blogs.

We need to be fucking loud about this, daily, because Tumblr staff is specifically targeting and deleting trans women who are not breaking ToS and who often have fundraisers up FOR THEIR SURVIVAL.

By deleting these blogs repeatedly, Tumblr staff is saying loud and clear what they hope happens to these girls.

Are y'all okay with that? Because if not we need to be posting about it more because we have seen by now it's incredibly fucking unlikely this sites moderation will delete our blogs for it because we are not trans women

Tumblr staff and CEO Matt Mullenweg want trans women in need to not be able to post their fundraisers, meaning they are okay with these women dying.

[oars-deactivated20250629]

girl are you sure???????????????

[nyantara]

i find anglophone plagiarism discourse extremely funny because most bollywood movies when i was growing up would be straight up ripping plots and cinematography from cinema abroad and the music in them would be interpolating and sometimes just remaking it with hindi lyrics. copyright is fake asf the world is so much bigger without it <3

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