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🏳️‍⚧️20yr Aro-spec🥬💚🤍🩶🖤 🔞occasional h0rn posting Always forget we have a tumblr :p DNI: maps/pedos & related discourse

[gazazabad]

ミ★ 𝘊𝘶𝘱𝘪𝘰𝘳𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘊.𝘈 𝘊𝘶𝘱𝘪𝘥 ★彡

꧁꧅ ɪɴᴛʀᴏ ᴘᴏꜱᴛ ꧅꧂

  Heyyy It's Cupid's Aro. ⋆˚✿˖°⪼------➢

This page is a somewhat joint collab of 2 colleagues: Zaz (main) & 🌹 | Our joint nickname is 'Aer'. | We are both Adult, Arospec, Bisexual, Black, kinky, Transsexual, & ND.

BYF: This blog is very sex positive w posts containing/mentioning sexual content at times. This blog is as pro platonic, pro partnering and love favourable as it is adverse due to our differing experiences of identity. All Aspecs are welcome here, but respect your own limits and scroll responsibly!

About Zaz:

| Doll/dolls/dollself or any prns! |

Cupioromantic

Sapphic

Aro-bi

Romance favourable

Sex averse irl

Pangender androgynous (or just Genderqueer)

EAH & Monster high enthusiast !!

Pole dancer

Future snake & spider owner

Artist

Trauma survivor

➻❥➻❥₊˚⊹˖᯽ ݁˖₊˚⊹˖᯽ ݁˖ ➻❥➻❥

ㅤ♡Chronically yearning♡. MAIN MOD most active. 

In love with love<33, but not the institution of Amatonormativity. My flavour of personality means I thrive with companionship, which doesn't always equate to partnership but sometimes it can.  ~My friendships are magic~ I've been VERY queer since elementary age but recently celebrating my aro-ness lol 

Kinky slut in theory and especially for the bit but like im actually quite sex averse (idfk if im allosexual. I relate myself to some ace-spec microlabels) in a way that can’t be separated from my CPTSD.   

⚧ ᴄᴜʀʀᴇɴᴛ ɢᴇɴᴅᴇʀ ᴍᴏᴏᴅ: post femboy twink death aspiring to stem dyke ascension in the most genderfuck way possible 

My core autistic interests include Ever after high, Monster high and Tourettes syndrome. 

Feel free to send asks, especially if recommending animated shows! 

◁ 𓊕 ▷ ↻ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ- 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘻𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘎𝘶𝘮𝘣𝘢𝘭𝘭⇄ ◁ 𓊕▷↻

🌹:

(𝐬𝐡𝐞) 🚺 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐞𝐫 𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧

༒︎𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝕙𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕥𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕤 𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕝𝕠𝕥༒︎

Actually loveless. Love disgusts me and is irrelevant to me. 

NOT ace. 

Anti-platonic. I will fucking die on this hill. I’m not anyone's buddy. 

Sultry switch & slut in practice 💋

Literally don’t care about any type of committed relationship or attraction besides sexual.

Explicitly no strings attached hookup girl. You can clutch your pearls and fuck right off if you're immature about that..

Socials aren't really my thing, I prefer to be horny in real life, not just on the internet unlike some people, but it’s fun sharing dumb gay bullshit whenever. 

Gorgeous facecard just to walk the streets after dark with nowhere to go.

The urge to makeout & bleed to death. 

Eternally over it, thanks. 

𝐌𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐜: x

{cw: cover art gore}

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some visual details from Coming to Power Writings and Graphics on Lesbian S/M 3rd Edition

[elfdyke]

[enjoyer-of-fetishes]

gender isn't a social construct, it's a sex toy

[universillyquiet]

do I want a romantic relationship or do I want someone to promise to stay by my side and then not only take that promise seriously but also keep it

[lovingcryingscreaming]

Crawling into bed beside someone aroace style, because the firework is kinda scaring me now that I’m in bed trying to sleep ngl

[gazazabad]

📞Aromanticism? Pick me up, im scared

[aceship-sconesterprise]

Look at the ace-flag blanket my mum crocheted for me🧶

🖤🩶🤍💜

[monstersovka]

interlacing ✷

[randomfriendlyloser]

not liking something because its too sexual and makes you uncomfortable should be a valid excuse tbh

[melovibes57]

The face i made when somebody said this 😒 (this is my tiktok btw). Guess they don’t know the definition of queer.

[melovibes57]

😔😞

[princeofthebookshelf]

I feel like we need more non romantic stories in fiction- not even aroace characters, just stories that don’t revolve around or have a plot that involves romance.

I know that when i was a young (unaware) aroace, I was raised on the stories where the main characters fell in love and lived happily ever after, so that shaped my ideas of what romance and love what meant to look like. Those stories also influenced how I performed my ‘romance’ and ‘crushes’ based on how I knew a person.

I accidentally ruined a few of my friendships because of this, as the only criteria i had for getting a crush on someone was the typical kids books ‘friends to dating’ trope, which I assumed was just how it worked. I’m afraid to say that I was one of the many victims of the bi to aroace pipeline lol

A young me could have really benefited from knowing that not getting a crush on someone was ok and normal and that aroace people existed. The amount of times i ‘picked’ someone to have a crush on purely because it was a fiction romance trope is unbelievable- there was the ‘friends to dating’, the ‘nerdy boy’, the ‘new girl’ the list goes on, and i only chose them because they were tropes I “knew” had a 100% success rate of getting together and lasting forever from the fantasy stories I loved and trusted.

[foxycats1]

"Allys" after saying that the A in LGBTQIA is for ally

(Found on pinterest, also can someone tell me what the second last one is? The kinda watermelon lookin one)

[moldfucker]

"im lovesick" "im lovesick" uhmm you didnt get the love vaccine?? cmon :/

[moongh-sts]

so im doing my thesis on amatonormativity in books right, and rn im reading through research on ace and aro identities as part of it. and i am so genuinely tired of aromanticism being always mentioned next to asexuality but almost never (at least in what i've managed to find so far) as you know. its own thing. i get the connections and all that, but can every researcher please stop assuming that every aro person is also ace. and can aromanticism be its own topic for like 5 minutes. im here to write a few pages on this so i can show that i know what im talking about but it's personal to me and i keep having to cut off my ranting. i am not writing this shit to argue with those people. i would like to, but sadly i have a lot of other more interesting things to talk about and if i start going on about aro/aroallo erasure we're not gonna get to those things in a long while, and if i start bringing up the discourse online we're gonna be here even longer

it's personal and upsetting because being aromantic is an important aspect of me and my sexuality is also an important aspect of me and genuinely i feel like i dont get to keep both at the same time in a lot of spaces. im a writer, both fanfic and original stuff, and i am always anxious about how the relationships in my works will be interpreted. i tried to write aro characters and/or platonic relationships with sex involoved and often they have been interpreted as romantic in some aspects anyway. i get that people enjoy romance - i enjoy romance ao3 history be my witness - but id also like for them to not make it the main focus where it is not.

this post is being sponsored by my frustration at lack of academic resources on aromanticism available to me that aren't actually about asexuality + my frustration writing platonic relationships. i am however aware that theres a wonderful community that does in fact get me and writes amazing fic (hello once again ao3 history) and thinks a similar way. it just gets so tiring when trying to engage in academic discourse, especially since english isnt my native language and trying to research this stuff in my first language is like heres two articles about it and both are treating being aro as an afterthought

[gazazabad]

*Looks in a mirror after consequences of my own actions*

“Okay so SOMEONES clearly out to get me. I dont know who but.”