The Greatest gifts from 1994

End of the "Millenials" or the beginning of "Gen-Z", either way we are adults trying to get ahead.

[booasaur]

Abbott Elementary - 1x05

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[onlinecounsellingcollege]

7 Tips for Overcoming Feelings of Inadequacy

1. Remind yourself that you are not who other people think or say you are.

2. Remind yourself that everybody makes mistakes at times, has areas of weakness, and things they want to change.

3. Remind yourself of ways in which you’ve grown and changed with time. You’re not who you once were - so celebrate how far you’ve come.

4. Also, the ending isn’t written and the future isn’t fixed. You’re free to change your image, and an old identity.

5. Identify the lies you have believed about yourself – and work on changing them so they’re accurate and true. Also, don’t reinforce the lies by acting like you think they’re true.

6. Remember that your feelings are not the same as facts. Don’t live based on your feelings as that will keep you trapped.

7. Hang out with those who see, and who appreciate, your worth. And take their words to heart, and let them help to build you up.

[giftsof1994]

Graduated medical school!!!

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[notyouraveragenympho]

[atasteoflee]

Oh naaahhh, can’t even risk it

[cooolasssluusshhh]

Paid too much money for my teeth lmao

[lonniiii-deactivated20170829]

One of the biggest keys to surviving your 20’s is Learning how to move on. Move on from old friends, lovers & bad situations.

[curseworm]

the inherent shame of beginning… dont look at me while i learn

[garden-graveyard]

“the inherent shame of beginning”

i admit, “don’t look at me while i learn” hits hard… but why is that so? when i was 7 years old i sang along to songs i had yet to fully learn by bumbling through sounds that half-resembled what i thought i heard, at full volume.

at 6, i would practice ballet moves–in which i had no instruction–outside the theater after a professional performance, in full view of the public.

at 5, i asked my teacher so many questions that she affectionately called me Bug–because i was always bugging her with my endless inquiry. i loved the nickname.

at 14, i was afraid to practice a song in my own room with no one home because, “what if my voice cracks? what if i can’t hit that note?”

at 15 i was afraid to dance in the garage with no one around because–i mean how embarrassing would it be to get the move wrong?

at 16, i forgo asking questions in class because god forbid i not understand.

what is this? “the shame of beginning”, we say. but not inherent, never was it inherent. the child loves to begin! they love making the silly mistake. the world tells us the mistake is fatal, or worse, shameful. what a tragedy. the world strangles our joy of beginning and when we’re old enough we add our own hands to the neck.

but the truth is we begin everyday and we are wrong and we’re dumb and we make silly mistakes and at the end of it all we are still the brilliant learners we’ve always been. there is no shame. it’s alright. i don’t know how to properly express that i wish upon everyone who’s reblogged this post to realize the shame is in our hands wrapped around the neck. we can let go. allow the self-kindess of your heart to soothe the bruises.

learning is no secret burden. we do it together :)

[staszki]

all i wanna do is travel and look hot

[nomediocre]

Move and live at your own pace. Just as important, live for YOU!

[giftsof1994]

Dear residency programs,

I would love love love an interview.

Thanks!!!

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[cesaray]

[recordplayersandsoul]

Mood

[giftsof1994]

I would love to hear a few positives that happened to people during 2020. Cause overall it has sucked, but some individuals appear to be having a banner year.

Ex. My super expensive exam was canceled due to Covid, so I got my money back and won't be required to take it this year.

Anyone else???

[whitepeopletwitter]

[whatsdifferentincanada]

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[giftsof1994]

I want to hold a bunny and have a meal with my first love.