Living out loud...

He/him. Bi/gay. Trans dude. Social justice/comedy/queer stuff.

[glass-half-full]

I vote we start asking cis people whether they'd still 'feel the need' to identify as their presumed gender at birth if society were different.

See how they like it.

[pointnclick]

If you think I'm short now you should have seen me when I was a baby. All things considered I think I've done quite well for myself

[antigonehappy]

Asians are NOT basically white.

We have been trying to tell you this for so goddamn fucking long. We are NOT basically white, we don’t get TREATED as basically white, and we are SICK of people assuming this.

If we were treated as “basically white”, we would not be fetishized the way we are. We would not be infantilized. Our cultures would not be stereotyped and demonized and ridiculed. We would not be blamed for a fucking pandemic that was not our fault in any way. We would not be blamed constantly for the actions of the Chinese government when many of us aren’t even ethnically Chinese.

We would not be SHOT because of our race. Our businesses would not be targeted because of our race.

We are often excluded from spaces designed to support POC because they think we’re “basically white”, or don’t need that support. We are excluded from mainly-white spaces because we aren’t Caucasian.

It’s a fucking SHAME that it takes a fucking MASS SHOOTING for y'all to hear what we’ve been trying to tell you this entire fucking time.

We are not your pretty little waifu anime cuties. We are not your nerds or token characters. We are not your squinty-eyed caricatures. We are not your “communist virus”.

We are not getting constantly stereotyped, put down, shoved aside, and chiseled down by white people into a box of what their “model minority” should look like, fetishized, treated as a joke, and murdered by white supremacists just for you to go and say we’re “basically white”.

Thank you for your time.

[glass-half-full]

Changes...but not really...

First post in ages.

Dunno if anyone who followed me when I was posting regularly is still even active on here, but whatever. I want to make this post anyway.

So since I last posted, I’ve (in no particular order, except, you know, the ones that obviously have to have happened in a certain order):

* had top surgery!

* had (two) revisions of said top surgery, and need one more :/

* had a hysto (luckily no revisions needed there :P)

* realised I’m a binary trans man, rather than a non-binary/genderqueer trans dude

* dated a few people

* increasingly embraced calling myself ‘gay’, even though I’m still very bi. It’s super-affirming 

* realised I want bottom surgery

* gone back to university (got a death wish)

* written/created/delivered some trans educational resources

* moved out of home

* got a preliminary ADHD diagnosis

* discovered matcha lattes

* had my tonsils out

* got a cat

Turns out life happens, even when you’re not constantly documenting it. :P

It’s wild to look back on my old posts and see how far I’ve come. I never thought I’d move out of that place of horrible gender confusion which is documented so painfully here. It’s also interesting to see how, in some ways, where I am now is inevitable. I posted about being a genderqueer trans man, but also my desperation and dysphoria (which I thought I didn’t really have) about wanting to be a boy, and feeling like I’d never get there. In a fun twist for me, the main way dysphoria manifests itself in my case is through constant self-doubt and questioning, so I’m not free of it, by any stretch, but I also feel like I am much better at coming back to knowing who I am. Never thought I’d get there. I also never thought I’d meet other people who wanted to date me after I broke up with my first partner.

Anyway, that’s a little update. It’s mainly for me, as I don’t know if anyone will actually read this, but if you have, thanks, and I hope it helps.

[inritum]

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

[ghostdog07]

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

[j-aws]

yay its back.

[moondoll]

so… I half jokingly reblogged this yesterday cos I thought it was a nice picture… and was like oh wow I only get wishes on birthdays what would I wish for?!?!?! how about gainful employment L0L … and like… I have a job now? That I never applied for? That someone just called me up and said “here, have this”? In a place I really really like? So like… h8ers gonna h8 or something

[birdiebirdieboo]

Reblogging cause fun concert

[inritum]

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

[ghostdog07]

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

[j-aws]

yay its back.

[moondoll]

so… I half jokingly reblogged this yesterday cos I thought it was a nice picture… and was like oh wow I only get wishes on birthdays what would I wish for?!?!?! how about gainful employment L0L … and like… I have a job now? That I never applied for? That someone just called me up and said “here, have this”? In a place I really really like? So like… h8ers gonna h8 or something

[birdiebirdieboo]

Reblogging cause fun concert

[writerswritecompany]

[chasingshhadows]

There are a lot of problems facing social justice movements today, but this is the biggest one. Because it’s holding us back internally. People learn and read about social issues and oppression and abuse online and suddenly they think they know everything. And of course they’re angry - there’s a lot to be angry about. And yes, it’s a great, wonderful thing that they’re aware and are working to better themselves.

But omgosh, please just stop trying to teach it and spread it because you are doing it wrong. Lashing out and yelling out buzzwords and SJ jargon and calling people racist and sexist and writing people off with no compassion - these are literally the opposite of what we should be doing. Anyone who’s actually been trained in social justice, SJ communication, facilitation and dialogue sees that and gets embarrassed to be associated with that form of “social justice.” 

Because it’s not social justice. It’s not fighting racism and sexism and classism and homophobia. All it’s doing it’s turning people off, closing their minds further and making everyone who knows what they’re doing look bad. All it’s doing is spreading more hate, more negativity and generally making everyone feel like shit about themselves - except of course for the OP, who feels great about themselves for supposedly doing their part and helping the movement. 

But they’re not. All they’re helping is the oppressive structure holding everyone back.

I’ve been there. I’ve been pissed off and angry and lashing out at everyone and everything. And it bit me in the ass more times than I can tell you. So I stopped and I learned. I was trained in social justice education by the university that developed the most widely accepted program for social justice education. I have practical experience, both in my daily life and in dialogue, that proves that these methods are not only better, but the only ones that actually work. 

That showing compassion for agents and those who are uneducated gets you much farther than writing them off as hateful assholes and refusing to teach them in a way they can understand. That listening to where a person is coming from is far more important than listening to what they say. That we must all understand that most *people* are not maliciously racist/sexist/classist/ableist, but the society we were all raised in *is*. 

We are all trying to work within this structure set in place long before any of our great grandparents were born and we all have our own starting point on the journey. 

The other, possibly biggest and most widespread problem among the untrained crowd is the complete and total lack of understanding of teacher/learner. You do not know everything. You only know your own experiences. That’s it. In order to actually teach someone about social justice, you have to teach them about your own experiences. In order to do that, you must be willing to learn theirs, too. You must have compassion and empathy or you will get nowhere. This is literally the most important thing I ever learned and it’s the one that I see lacking the most in online SJ. 

Now this is specifically directed at fandoms (and more specifically the Teen Wolf fandom, which I call home) but this is a message for everyone. It pains me to see the field that I am so incredibly passionate about get dragged through the mud because people who consider themselves to be a part of it do such horrible things in such horrible ways. Online SJ has a bad name because it has earned it and I cannot tell you how much I hate that. Social justice is not only my work, but it is also my life. I will not stand any longer for people abusing it and using it to spread hate.

[qhuinn]

THIS.

[verbisdiablo-blog]

OPEN LETTER TO EVERY FUCKING FANDOM ON TUMBLR/TWITTER, GODDAMMIT. GET A GRIP, FUCKING HELL.

[rosemecanique-blog]

#i don’t understand why this concept is so hard for people to get #shouting abuse at someone is not going to make them listen #its not going to make them understand your point of you #it will only cause people to get defensive #and then you’ve lost the argument because no one is listening to you (x)

[tenlittlebullets]

Oh god can I just reblog this once a week so EVERYONE gets to fucking read it?

Tumblr “social justice” is a fucking travesty that values self-righteous fury as an argument sufficient unto itself and devalues careful, measured reasoning as “coddling bigots.” That praises and rewards the shutting-down of communication. That teaches smug superiority and frowns on compassion and empathy. That took “lashing out in anger is an unproductive but somewhat excusable reaction to injustice, and is not a reason to dismiss a sound argument” and dragged it into the realm of “everyone subject to systematic oppression has an absolute right to lash out in anger to whatever extent they please, and no one else has the right to criticize their behavior or be hurt by it,” and thence into an echo chamber where performative displays of anger become the goal of communication.

I’m not pretending to sainthood here. Getting patted on the butt for a righteous smackdown is dangerously seductive, especially when you have a short temper on certain subjects. And the danger of this particular echo chamber is that it’s easy for normal, intelligent, well-meaning people to get sucked into it. But it’s not a healthy model of communication. Healthy models of communication (a) encourage empathy and reasoned dialogue and frown on incoherent rage explosions, and (b) treat anger, rudeness and cruelty as undesireable but sometimes excusable—in proportion to the provocation and the circumstances. Tumblr “social justice” rejects any notion of proportionate response and has its priorities in communication neatly reversed.

[withasmoothroundstone]

My friend who did actual work in social justice long long before the internet gets really embarrassed and disturbed by what gets called social justice around here sometimes.

[bechnokid]

#thank #getting angry about things is COMPLETELY understandable #yelling at people does no good howeve r#it never fucking works Couldn’t have said it better, myself!

[birdiebirdieboo]

This is the best fucking thing I’ve ever seen on tumblr. I’m guilty of liking posts that lash out at men and skinny people but whenever I see similar ones about white people or straight people I just feel sad and attacked even though I totally understand. And it makes me avoid the discussion because I don’t want to feel sad and attacked which prevents me from learning more and adjusting my attitude/language

[glass-half-full]

Logged back onto this site for the first time in ages just so I could could re-blog and favourite this. Tumblr's version of 'social justice' can be so fucking toxic. Being part of a minority does not give you a right to constantly lash out at people. #socialjustice

[snickersandjackdaniels-deactiva]

[lucyinthesky451-deactivated2014]

Literally the best bromance to ever bromance

[rev0lutionbummer]

I have a lot of feels about turk and jd. Yeah they were both straight but they loved each other and it never was a “no homo” thing. It got pretty homo at times and they embraced it and it didn’t matter. The joke wasn’t that they were gay, it wasn’t even a joke. They had serious friend love for each other and showed it in healthy ways. It showed cis men that were compassionate for each other in a positive way(yeah it got goofy at times but it was a comedy)

Sorry I love scrubs.

[strawberrypatty]

I think JD and Turk are the closest television has ever gotten to a non-sexual homoromantic relationship (Shawn and Corey on Boy Meets World didn’t do too badly either). Because they NEVER pulled the “no homo”. They very honestly and deeply loved each other, it just wasn’t sexual. It’s not even just “we love each other like friends”. They were IN LOVE with each other. They just happened to be sexually attracted to women and were able to fall in love with women too who understood

[birdiebirdieboo]

glass-half-full

[glass-half-full]

Turk and JD ftw. As corny as this sounds, I think both had/have influence on how I see myself as a man.

[theblueboxonbakerstreet]

I see what they did there...

Why did Barty Crouch Jr. quit drinking?

Because it was making him Moody.

[bartyjoonyah]

[glass-half-full]

Sexuality and Transition

NB: I wrote this after I saw a post from someone asking about the sexuality of trans* dudes. 

I identify as a queer transman. I feel like I’m halfway between bi and pan. I have known my attraction to men and women since I was about 17. That said, I still struggled a lot with finding the words to describe my sexuality, until I transitioned.

Here, I’m going to talk about gender in a very binary way. This is because, for me, duality of gender was a very strong factor in my questioning and exploration of my sexuality, not because I don’t acknowledge the fluidity of gender identity and expression. I still feel the differences which could be considered male or female, masculine or feminine, of gender expression/identity as an aspect of my sexuality. It’s just far less important than it used to be.

I knew I was attracted to men, but I didn’t want to think about sleeping with them. Anything I watched involving men was gay – no women involved.

I knew I was attracted to women, and did think about sleeping with them, and how I was attracted to them intellectually and emotionally. However, the idea of being in a lesbian relationship was very uncomfortable to me.

I couldn’t understand this. Why, if I were attracted to men, did the idea of having sex with them seem so weird? Why was I so obsessed with gay men?

Why, if I could imagine having sex with women, and as well as being attracted to them in other ways, was the idea of being in a lesbian relationship so disquieting?

Although I was most definitely sexual, I felt afraid of my sexuality. I was desperate for love, intimacy, connection, sex, but was also repelled by it.

I think, now, that a lot of that was due to discomfort with my gender.

I didn’t want to think about myself having sex with men, because I didn’t want to be in a female role. That’s why I was so obsessed with gay men.  It was a way to explore my attraction to men without putting myself in a female role. I did want to have sex with men, but not as a woman.

The same went for the issue of being in a lesbian relationship. I couldn’t imagine myself in a relationship with a woman, while identifying as a woman myself. The sex thing wasn’t as uncomfortable, because two women, to me, didn’t have defined roles – gender wasn’t a ‘thing’ if you had two people of the same gender. Of course, the same applies to two men, but since I didn’t have a male body, the difference still seemed to matter.

Another aspect of my sexuality before I transitioned was that my envy and admiration of men was mixed up in my attraction to them, so I couldn’t just enjoy it.

I also couldn’t let go and just enjoy my attraction to women, either. There was a part of me that felt very uncomfortable about it. I think this was my continuing rejection of the idea that I was, in any way, lesbian.  Of course, there’s nothing wrong with being a lesbian, but it wasn’t for me. I was a man attracted to women, not a woman attracted to women.

Now, I am a lot more comfortable with my sexuality. I think transitioning changed how I view myself as a sexual being.

I definitely notice my sexual attraction to men increasing. A lot more male anatomy features in my sexual thoughts than before. :P

My sexual attraction to women has changed, too. The part of my sexuality that is attracted to ‘female’ physical attributes has become more evident.

It’s hard to say if my sexuality has changed, or if being more comfortable with who I am has just meant I am more willing to accept and explore parts of me that were there before I transitioned. I think it’s kind of a chicken-and-egg situation. Of course, there’s also T, which is known to increase sex-drive. The other thing is experience, and the capacity of people to change and grow, and the amazing capacity for fluidity in our lives.

For myself, I’m just glad that I am reaching a place of greater understanding and comfort with who I am, and that includes sexuality. I hope other people who are struggling with their sexuality can do the same, if it be by transition, or any other means. 

[tianatwitty-deactivated20141228]

Please make this go viral.

It is so important I don’t even care if you delete what I write here, just help it be seen. 

[glass-half-full]

This is so true.

IT GETS BETTER. 

Seriously, if you are reading this, and having thoughts of suicide, know this. 

Countless others have been where you are now. You are not alone. Please, please hold on, because life is so worth it. There are so many good things. 

Think about looking into a baby's clear eyes.

Or the smell of freshly cut grass.

Or your favourite TV show.

Or words you've read that are so beautiful they give you goosebumps.

Think about laughter, and love. Think about the things you haven't done yet, but that you CAN do. 

Don't let the dark side win. You are strong and beautiful.

[lordtrash-deactivated20161201]

Did anyone hear that at the Sydney Writer’s Festival Tony Abbott gave a speech, congratulated the MC on not making a literary festival “too bookish,” left, and said MC came to the mic and said “It’s okay, he’s gone now,” to the biggest cheer of the night? 

[glass-half-full]

Ha. Get fucked, Abbottron. 

Peeps who aren't Australian - THIS DUDE IS IN CHARGE OF OUR COUNTRY. 

[iogdnsinteorgdjoidc]

There's no way to 'gender'...

how to gender: 1. Do you have dysphoria?  2. If yes, you are not cis. If no, you are. If it changes a lot then you are genderfluid. 3. What kind of dysphoria do you have? 4. If opposite genitalia doesn’t work for you, you are nonbinary. If it does, you’re trans(opposite sex). congrats that’s how you gender

Mod Ko

[glass-half-full]

So, I'm copy-pasting this, rather than reblogging, because I really want to make a serious point that isn't lost in other reblogs:

I get this in principle. Like it's making a distinction between people who feel like they're in the wrong body and people who live as a gender other than the one they were registered at birth, but who may not feel like their bodies are wrong.

HOWEVER, I think it's problematic to say who can and can't 'gender' themselves as trans* or non-binary. Each of those ideas has multiple definitions themselves.

I guess the reason I feel so strongly about this is that I identify as trans*, binary and non-binary. This may seem weird, but let me explain.

In general, as far as I can tell, the 'gender binary', usually refers to the two 'defined' categories of male and female. However, there are people who don't identify as binary, but who still identify as trans*. The person that springs to mind for me when I think of this kind of trans* person is Micah. His blog link is below:

http://neutrois.me/

I identify as trans*, because I am transitioning from the gender I was 'born as' to another - for me, that's female to male, so it's a transition from one 'binary' to another. But there are other people, like Micah, who are transitioning from female to neutrois (or male to neutrois). There are still trans* because they're still 'transitioning' from one gender to another, although they may not be transitioning to a binary gender.

I am binary in the sense that my presentation is very much binary. That is, it is stereotypically masculine, and it aligns with a binary idea of 'male'. I have absolutely no desire to present as anything other than masculine. I move through the world as a masculine man because that is how I am most comfortable. 

However, how I identify is less clear. I am 'masculine of centre' in my identity. So, I don't actually identify as 'male' if that makes sense. I am transmasculine. I guess the 'non-binary' part of my identity comes from this. I also have no desire for male genitals. I am happy with my 'downstairs' area, as it is. Does this make me not trans* though? I still bind every day. I still take hormones. I still live as a 'binary' male. 

I think tying 'trans-ness' to things like dysphoria, desire for the genitalia of the 'opposite' sex, and binary vs. non-binary is problematic because it implies that there is a set list of things you 'must be' to be a trans* person. And I think that can really have a negative effect on people trying to figure themselves out. It did for me. I remember feeling desperately unhappy because I thought that I had to desire a completely male body if I were truly trans*. 

I think a better distinction that could be made is one between trans* and transsexual. From what I know, 'transsexual' is a term for someone who wants to make themselves as close as possible to a cis man/woman, whereas trans* is a broader term and can include transgender people, transsexuals, non-binary people, etc.

At the end of the day, though, if someone feels more comfortable identifying as trans*, that is the most important thing.

[princessgorgon-deactivated20160]

Take your medication ♥

Yo here’s a reminder u can reblog so all your followers can be on time with whatever they need

[brinconvenient]

Always reblog meds reminders

[glass-half-full]

This actually did remind me that I need to take my meds. Haha. Tumblr might be of some practical use after all. :P

When I first started meds, I didn't want other people to know I was taking them. But I obviously didn't want to forget to take them, either.

So, every day, for the first few months I was on meds, I wrote 'Placebo' on my hand. 'Placebo' is a band, as well as the name of the control in medication trials.

One of their songs is called 'Meds', and the chorus goes:

'Baby, did you forget to take your meds?'

It really helped.

Here's the song, if anyone's interested:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WO9ewCO7TYI

[forgottenawesome]

Do You Love Someone With Depression?

If you have a partner or are close to someone who struggles with depression, you may not always know how to show them you love them. One day they may seem fine, and the next they are sad, distant and may push you away. It is important that you know that as a person who is close to them and trusted by them, you can help your friend or partner have shorter, less severe bouts of depression. Mental illness is as real as physical illness (it is physical actually, read more about that here) and your partner needs you as much as they would need to be cared for if they had the flu.

Your relationship may seem one-sided during these times, but by helping your partner through a very difficult and painful affliction, you are strengthening your relationship and their mental health in the long term.

1. Help them keep clutter at bay.

When a person begins spiraling into depression, they may feel like they are slowing down while the world around them speeds up. The mail may end up in stacks, dishes can pile up in the sink, laundry may go undone as the depressed person begins to feel more and more overwhelmed by their daily routine and unable to keep up. By giving your partner some extra help sorting mail, washing dishes or using paper plates and keeping chaos in check in general, you’ll be giving them (and yourself) the gift of a calm  environment. (I’m a fan of the minimalist movement because of this, you can read more about that here.)

2. Fix them a healthy meal.

Your partner may do one of two things when they are in a depressed state. They may eat very little, or they may overeat. In either case, they may find that driving through a fast food restaurant or ordering a pizza online is just easier than fixing a meal. Eating like this, or neglecting to eat will only degrade your partner’s health, causing them to go deeper into their depression. Help your loved one keep their body healthy, and their mind will follow. This is a great article that talks about the “Brain Diet” which can help the symptoms of depression, and this article talks about how our modern diet could contribute to the recent rise in depression. Here is a recipe for a trail mix that is quick to make and has mood-boosting properties.

3.Get them outside.

 The benefits of getting outside for a depressed person are huge. And it is possibly the last thing on earth your partner will want to do. Take them to be somewhere in nature. Pack a picnic and lie in the sun, take a leisurely hike or plant a garden. Being barefoot in the dirt, or “earthing” helps ground the body and reverse the effects of living in a world of emf’s, and digging in soil can actually act as an antidepressant, as a strain of bacterium in soil, Mycobacterium vaccae, triggers the release of seratonin, which in turn elevates mood and decreases anxiety. Sunshine increases Vitamin D production which can help alleviate depression. My friend Elizabeth wrote an excellent post about Vitamin D and its link to depression here.  For more information about other sources of Vitamin D, this is a great post as well as this.

4. Ask them to help you understand what they’re feeling.

If your partner is able to articulate what they are going through, it will help them and you better understand what you are dealing with, and may give insight into a plan of action for helping your partner. Also, feeling alone is common for a depressed person and anything that combats that feeling will help alleviate the severity and length of the depression.

5. Encourage them to focus on self-care.

Depressed people often stop taking care of themselves. Showering, getting haircuts, going to the doctor or dentist, it’s all just too hard, and they don’t deserve to be well taken care of anyway in their minds. This can snowball quickly into greater feelings of worthlessness since “Now I’m such a mess, no one could ever love me”. Help your loved one by being proactive. Tell them “I’m going to do the dishes, why don’t you go enjoy a bubble bath?” can give them the permission they won’t give themselves to do something normal, healthy and self-loving.

6. Hug them.

Studies show that a sincere hug that lasts longer than 20 seconds can release feel-good chemicals in the brain and elevate the mood of the giver and receiver. Depressed people often don’t want to be touched, but a sincere hug with no expectation of anything further can give your partner a lift.

7. Laugh with them.

Telling a silly joke, watching a comedy or seeing a stand up comedian will encourage your partner to laugh in spite of themselves. Laughing releases endorphins and studies show can actually counteract symptoms of depression and anxiety.

8. Reassure them that you can handle their feelings.

Your partner may be feeling worthless, angry and even guilty while they are depressed. They may be afraid that they will end up alone because no one will put up with their episodes forever. Reassure them that you are in the relationship for the long haul and they won’t scare you away because they have an illness.

9. Challenge their destructive thoughts.

A depressed person’s mind can be a never-ending loop of painful, destructive thoughts. “I’m unlovable, I’m a failure, I’m ugly, I’m stupid”. Challenge these untruths with the truth. “You’re not unlovable, I love you. You aren’t a failure, here are all the things you’ve accomplished.”

10.Remind them why you love them.

Look at pictures of happy times you’ve had together. Tell them your favorite things about them. Reminisce about your relationship and all the positive things that have happened, and remind your partner that you love them and they will get through this.

(via The Darling Bakers)

[unrecognizedpotential]

More people need to know this.

[spicymayonegg]

This is so incredibly important. I’ve seen people with depression ostracized so many times, and I cannot stress how much it means to each and every person I’ve tried to reach out to after whatever “falling-outs” they’ve had due to depression. Remember to always be compassionate and kind to all friends like this, because you never know what they’re going through.

[birdiebirdieboo]

As someone who has struggled with bouts of depression and anxiety I cannot thank whoever wrote this enough. As well as having experienced it, I have seen others experience it and even when you’ve been through what they’re going through it’s still hard to know how to act, especially if you don’t have a particularly open/emotional relationship with them. Tl;dr everyone should read this

[glass-half-full]

My boyfriend is wonderful, he does everything on this list.

[inritum]

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

[ghostdog07]

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

[j-aws]

yay its back.

[moondoll]

so… I half jokingly reblogged this yesterday cos I thought it was a nice picture… and was like oh wow I only get wishes on birthdays what would I wish for?!?!?! how about gainful employment L0L … and like… I have a job now? That I never applied for? That someone just called me up and said “here, have this”? In a place I really really like? So like… h8ers gonna h8 or something

[birdiebirdieboo]

Reblogging cause fun concert