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@gloop898
Anyways, this pride remember the Egg Prime Directive is bad and more than a little transmisogynist!
I’mma keep it real, a number of people seem to equate “suggesting to someone they might be a trans woman” with “removing their agency on the matter” and I think these people need to take a long look at themselves and ask why that’s their assumption.
Anyways, this pride remember the Egg Prime Directive is bad and more than a little transmisogynist!
I’mma keep it real, a number of people seem to equate “suggesting to someone they might be a trans woman” with “removing their agency on the matter” and I think these people need to take a long look at themselves and ask why that’s their assumption.
(Xユーザーのはるゆきさん: 「https://t.co/qYJhZO6XQ6」 / Xから)
Umm... A little help?
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they're still terming random transfems as i type this i see which does make quite a statement doing this today specifically
watched three girls who reblogged its new blog mutual aidpost (made literally 15 minutes ago) already disappear from its notifs. transfems are not included in their pride :/
QUITE the statement to be nuking transfems at the current accelerated pace right at the start of pride month like this, isn't it
I'm really trying hard to be a "It's everyone's first time learning something everyday" kind of guy but also if you don't know shit and you know you're, for whatever reason, a person who doesn't have context about something, why fucking talk. Like why are you talking. If you know you don't know what's being discussed why are you opining about it and getting confused when everyone is like, shut your empty headed mouth for the love of god? Are you ALSO learning for the first time that this is insufferable?? As though half the time these people aren't also insufferable pedants who'd blow a gasket if someone started talking about their loser hobbies wrong
"Here are my thoughts on this topic"
"You are completely off, you have gotten multiple basic facts wrong, you also lack x and y context"
"Well I didn't know that because I don't really involve myself in this topic" THEN SHUT UPPPPPPP OH MY GODDDDDDD
It’s important to occasionally be a horny pervert on main so your mutuals know it’s okay to be a horny pervert with you
You are perma tf'd into the first pokemon you generate on this website, how happy are you wit your new form
hell yea..
Happy Pride Month everyone! Remember 4 months ago when the CEO of this platform harassed and chased a trans woman off this website just for posting her transition timeline, then chased her to other social media platforms to continue harassing her, and threatened to call the FBI if she continued disputing the multiple dubious terminations of her blogs that did not violate tumblr's terms of service in any way? And despite tumblr staff insisting that the CEO was acting against their interests, the broad transmisogyny evident in the site's culture and moderation policy has still not been adequately addressed?
Remember that staff is continuing to nuke the blogs of trans women even after all of this. Remember this post when they call this site the queerest place on the internet again this month
It's 2 years later. It's gotten worse. Happy pride month.
Cute little rainbow heart for pride month tumblr but how about you stop disproportionally banning trans women and marking sfw queer posts as mature
happy pride
awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?
i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users
you reblogging the "this is what every forcemasc post" got me thinkin.
So "forcemasc" is the mirror of "forcefem" as seen by the tumblr trans community. The type of acceptance shown by trans women to other trans women and giving you what you always secretly wanted. Now, we trans women came up with this as an inversion of what forcefem is in larger society, the humiliation of a man being made lesser than himself. So I was thinking whats the inversion of "forcemasc" into actual society? And the only thing I can think of is violence and "male socialization." Violence is how male supremacy is upheld and enforced. If someone hears your a tranny they will beat it out of you, saywyour just a faggot, and if you say your gay they'll try and beat the fag out of you. Maybe there is space to try and reclaim this as a forcemasc kink, but what we just get instead is forcefem but in blue flavor. I think it maybe has something to do with that would have to have them confronting "wanting" to some degree "male socialization," but they cant square that ideological circle so we get water down painted over forcefem instead
I have two main thoughts as to why forcemasc just fundamentally doesn't work the same was as forcefem.
"Being a man" is the default good thing to be in society.
One of the biggest tools involved in male socialization/male bonding/being "one of the guys" is misogyny.
One of the easiest ways to signal to a group of men that you're "one of them" is picking a woman (any woman, really) and going "damn, she's a crazy bitch. amirite?" It's both a bonding ritual and a reinforcement of the status quo.
Everything in a cishetero patriarchal society is forcemasc. If you aren't a "real man" you're punished, no matter what. Cis women and all trans people are punished (but punished differently) for not having the good sense to be born "real men". But aspiring to be a man is still something that can be seen as admirable. Behaving misogynistically has real material benefits, regardless of your gendered positionality.
But being a trans woman, i.e. being born into the class of "real men" and radically rejecting that by desiring to be and taking action to shape yourself into something perceived as "lesser" is an ultimate transgression.
You're correct in identifying the roots of forcefem as a kink in degradation and humiliation. Because to society writ large being feminine is something to be scorned and derided. Radically reclaiming forcefem as something beautiful and desirable is always going to fly in the face of what society tells trans women about themselves.
There is not and cannot be a forcemasc equivalent to the radical reclamation of forcefem, because masculinity isn't punished and derided on a societal level in the same way.
Transmasculine people can be and are punished for not confining themselves to the role society assigned them at birth. Everyone is punished to a degree for deviation from the roles we're supposed to play. I'm not arguing against that.
But it fundamentally is not the same, and therefore can't be mirrored. Any attempt to invert the radical reclamation of forced feminization will always come across as transfeminism painted blue.
If we lived in a purely cis-centric non-patriarchal society (that is to say, a society that valued and treated cisgender cissexual men and women equally, but punished transgender and transsexual people for their perceived deviation), there could be a forcemasc equivalent to forcefem. But we don't. We live in a society that subjugates and punishes every person that isn't a cisgender cissexual man.
In a society that values and honors masculinity above all else, and treats everything and everyone else in relation to how it can serve masculinity, forcemasc is incomprehensible.
only trans women have feelings and experiences
