A Witch's Brew

INFJ w/ BPD

[gminervous]

"You have goals.

But a lot of them are responsibilities.

A lot of them are about becoming useful.

And usefulness matters. Absolutely.

But human beings usually need something else too.

Something that belongs only to them.

Not because it helps their kids. Not because it looks productive. Not because it fixes their life.

Just because they genuinely want it."

[segamascott]

[4-saint]

HAHAHAHA

[javarisx-fightingthosedemons]

[gminervous]

[gminervous]

got him losing concentration.

begging for salvation

his dick doing a standing ovation.

then I ghosted, left him in frustration.

😏😅🤷🏻‍♀️

[gminervous]

"love without capacity becomes self-abandonment."

[gminervous]

[gminervous]

"And then there’s the shame.

The thing about shame is that it’s self-punishment masquerading as accountability.

You even said it—“I’d feel better sitting in the shame box.”

Shame can feel like doing something about the problem, but really it just traps the energy that could be used for change.

It’s a twisted form of self-soothing—“at least I’m suffering for what I did.”

it gives you the illusion of balance, even though it keeps the cycle alive."

[kosmogrl]

there’s something very beautiful about being able to try again tomorrow

[mintbecrazy]

I have been trying tomorrow for the past 3 years

[kosmogrl]

and you still have tomorrow to try again

[threeamserif]

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[gminervous]

I just got dicked down so good I might be emotionally cured for 7 business days..

[gminervous]

I was just trying to help a mf out.

Not fall in love.

[javarisx-fightingthosedemons]

[gminervous]

Becoming yourself means letting go of who the world told you to be.

[gminervous]

I'm single because I want to protect the version of me that’s finally starting to breathe.

the me that's learning how to love myself first without anchoring that process to someone else's moods, needs, or presence.

[gminervous]

"...it’s because somewhere in your past, you learned to brace for rejection. So now your body resists good things as a defense mechanism."

[stufflikethathere]