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I don't argue with people so you will get blocked; then you won't be able to lurk for your daily dose of common sense you don't get from your mother. Find somebody else to coddle you sweetie because it won't be me. I do not desire to live in an ideological echo chamber. Womanist. Objectivist.

firewhisky

simplyjkrowling

Friendly reminder that she is responsible for the books we all know and love so much, so it’d be fantastic if she was given as much regard by the fandom as her stories are.

archosaur-automaton

Anyone should be able to get bottom surgery for any reason, and it should be free.

Cis guy wants a vaginoplasty but nothing else, and still identifies as a cis guy? ABSOLUTELY.

Cis girl wants phalloplasty? WITHOUT QUESTION.

People should be allowed to have whatever relationship with their bodies and identities makes sense for them.

(this post MUST be reblogged by EVERYONE)

sapphsorrows

Please god stop promoting this surgery

Your chances of being in pain all of the time, never having an orgasm again, and never peeing correctly again are extremely high. So are your chances of having to have multiple revision surgeries. You are essentially voluntarily crippling yourself for life.

I can guarantee you, no "cis" person ever gets these surgeries. Most people don't see getting their genitals cut up by doctors as a fun way to spend the afternoon.

So-called "bottom surgery" is not some fun magic pill you can take that will give you a penis or a vagina. It will give you the vague approximation of a penis or vagina. One that doesn't work. One significantly more prone to infection.

It's fucking surgery. It's serious. You're cutting up the only body you will ever have. And it's not because you're sick and you have to or you will die. It's because you want to. Because people on the internet lied to you and told you it would fix all your problems. Those people are liars.

People can die from this shit.

Stop.

sichorean

Once again: my friend was killed by phalloplasty surgery. Afterwards she went through 6 months of hell, constant infection, constant pain, zero sexual function, fecal and urinary leakage, tremor and numbness in the donation site, no feeling in the neo-phallus. She was harassed by the people who encouraged her to get the surgery, she detransitioned.

And then she died.

So when people act like this is all no big deal, and you should get whatever alterations you wish, it really reminds me that people have no idea the level of complexity of these surgeries, and the exponentially high failure rate. You will need at least 3 surgical revisions. Urinary incontinence complications is at 80%. Necrosis is at 18%. They don't even have statistics for numbness and sexual function.

This is a highly experimental surgery that does kill and does remove function. For a vaguely penis-like shape. Or as Erica described it, "A numb sausage stapled to my navel" - with the freckles and hair she remembered from her arm.

she-is-ovarit

I am beginning to sound like a broken record at this point, but. The man who conducted the first vaginoplasty, which failed and killed Dora Ritcher, was Erwin Gohrbandt. A Nazi (and long time collaborator of another eugenics champion Magnus Hirschfeld) who's mission was to sterilize the "feeble-minded". He went from sterilizing mentally ill homosexual men with "bottom surgeries" to being a leader in the Nazi's sterilization and torture experiments at the Dachau concentration camp, beginning with injections and leading to gas chambers. The Dachau concentration camp was one of the major camps that disabled people, mentally ill people, and homosexual populations were forced to during the Holocaust.

"Bottom surgery" is not harmless, and neither is the incredibly corrupt cosmetic/plastic surgery industry. It is a pillar of patriarchy and homosexual conversion attempts, and "gender affirmation" in large part has origins in Nazi medicine and the sterilization of gay people. This choice fauxminism and woke homophobia worldview needs to be realized for what it is and what it's historical roots are.

feminine-catharsis

Yeah... no... reproducer? "Love the girls that dont take it personally" take what personally? You belittling cis women down to "reproducers?"

calico-crittr-deactivated202305

calls women reproducers but desperately wants to be one of us. pick one.

butch-reidentified

> "Terfs reduce cis women to their biological functions"

> "reproducer" "menstruator" "birthing bodies" "bleeding bodies"

🤔

redfemmay

Yet, they spend thousands of dollars and numerous surgeries trying to imitate us bc they can’t actually be us. Wild

dajdum-deactivated20231013

I love women who laugh loudly in public. I love women with a bad mouth. I love women who sit weird. I love women who dress for their own comfort. I love women who do not shave or wax. I love women with a peachy moustache. I love women with a unibrow. I love muscular women. I love big women. I love women who can kill me with bare hands. I love women who survived. I love women who rebuilt a healthier self for themselves. I love women who are fighters. I love women who feel lonely but do not lose their compassion. I love women who take up space. I love women who killed their inner observer. I love women who make period art. I love women who try to make themselves comfortable with their bodies. I love women who struggle with their body image. I love women with scars. I love women with big noses. I love women who love other women. I love women who prioritizes women in their lives. I love women who broke free from their generational trauma. I love women who work with their hands. I love women who care for girls growing up safe. I love women who knows how to defend themselves. I love women. I love women so much.

dajdum-deactivated20231013

What a freak. Missed by my radar because he blocked me.

"What her genital looks like"

Say it with your chest. Say it. Say that dicks are female. Fear you'll look dumb? I love women, I love them platonically, I love them romantically, I love them so deeply.

And most importantly, I know what a woman is. It is not a man without a dick and with added tits, that's for sure. A woman is its own beautiful thing, the female sex of humans.

thornybushybrambles-deactivated

Smth that I think even radfems ignore about women identifying with male characters and preferring male narratives is in stories with all men/mostly men, there's very rarely any sexual violence shown on screen. Take a classic movie like The Shawshank Redemption for instance, where the male protagonist is a victim of assault (rare as is). When Andy's experience of sexual violence is mentioned or implied, it's portrayed as horrific. It fades to black. It's shadows. There's no gratuitous scenes of groping, no voyeuristic shots of his face looking pouty and hands running along his hips. When was the last time you saw a story where the female protagonist was given that kind of dignity?

thatsonemorbidcorvid

goddamndiary

good point

femmesandhoney

"dreaming of lesbian cock" said the not-lesbian bisexual woman with no hint of irony or embarrassment

bakugouwu

do you guys think that trans men realize theyre men and immediately their brain just becomes misogynistic and like a cis man or

bakugouwu

trans men are literally raised as women, and are also literally trans. how do you actually believe a person who goes through both the female and trans experiences would just turn into a misogynistic cis man oppressor lol. you should actually talk to a real life trans man and ask him about his experiences instead of basing all your thoughts about trans men on the black and white "kill all men" stance made up in your head

moidreform

Good post. Now apply that logic to trans women.

babayassified

wow so op admits that being raised male or female has a permanent impact on adult personality ??

mithliya

TRAs have done a lot of historical revisionism but some of the craziest was rewriting marsha p johnson and sylvia rivera as “trans lesbians”. marsha p johnson was saying “im a gay man” days before being murdered and sylvia rivera said word for word “People now want to call me a lesbian because I'm with Julia, and I say, "No. I'm just me. I'm not a lesbian." I'm tired of being labeled. I don't even like the label transgender.” and the reason they do all this is just so they can turn around and tell gay people that “trans lesbians of colour fought for [our] rights”. no, gay and bisexual people, including ones who later pursued transition, fought for the rights of gay & bisexual people. neither of the apparent “trans lesbians” who fought for our rights called themselves transgender OR lesbian, neither of them were even remotely lesbians in any sense of the word.

feminismoaqui

A man in Somalia violently assaulted his sister after finding out she made a Tiktok dancing without a hijab.

patriarchy religion religious patriarchy sexism misogyny

""I am very critical of all religions," she says. "We, as women, are oppressed by all these religions." It is religious extremism, she believes, that is the biggest threat to women's liberation today. "There is a backlash against feminism all over the world today because of the revival of religions," she says. "We have had a global and religious fundamentalist movement." She fears that the rise of religion is holding back progress regarding issues such as female circumcision, especially in Egypt." - Nawal El Saadawi

quinntheestallion

The idea that validating genders should be the #1 priority in all areas of life has become so pervasive that even babies are going to be forced to suck down potentially toxic, non nutritious milk just so some male impersonating a woman can get a temporary gender-euphoric high.

Never forget the crux of all trans activism these days is that getting a gender high should take precedence over any conflicting need. Validating gender is more important than: the safety of women and female prisoners, fairness towards female athletes, basic truth and now, the health and well-being of helpless infants.

Based on the premise outlined by this paper- if an infant dies of malnutrition or develop a illness due to the chemical cocktail it’s ingesting- the breastfeeding may still be called a success simply because a male’s gender was validated.

ms-revived-frogs

So the primary goal for researching male lactation isn't to prioritize the safety and nutrition of infants (what lactation is literally for) but to validate gender identity? Are we really at the point now of prioritizing people's feelings over the reality that lactation exists not for gendered spectacle, but for feeding infants? This is so gross.

marmorada

"milk"

magnetictapedatastorage

so its a group of men that get “validation” from having an infant sucking on their useless nipples instead of, oh, i don’t know, feeding the baby some actual food (formula, etc) since it’s clearly hungry. but nah, the baby getting actually fed takes a backseat to his fetish for aping womanhood. how the fuck is anybody in the world okay with this?

could you imagine if a completely non-lactating woman tried to argue for getting sucked on by junior for the sake of fulfilling stereotypes?

actual lactation to FEED a baby is BARELY accepted in the first place, and these men are dead set on humiliating women at every turn! why are people enabling this?!

tays-daisy

Additionally, research for what medications pregnant and breastfeeding women can take that are considered safe for the baby is DISMAL. Nearly non-existent. Hope you don't get the flu while pregnant because all you can take is acetaminophen.

Instead of putting research dollars into very useful areas of medicine during pregnancy and breastfeeding, THIS is what we're funding???

Disgusting and cruel.

thatsonemorbidcorvid

If a woman said “breastfeeding plays a unique role in the female gender experience” she’d get doxxed and swatted for transphobia

pvysygpvysivjc-deactivated20250

perverse pedophilic fetishists :-)

goddamndiary

are you motherfucking kidding me?

thetoiletwater

Literal parasites

female-malice

The more they complain about LGB without the T, the more they spread the idea.

If they just ignored the LGB people separating from the alphabet, no one would know about it. But they get so worked up about it that they spread the idea everywhere. And more and more LGB people stuck in the queer alphabet learn that they can leave if they need to.

joykillerrr

maria-scariotes

People care more about animals than woman, and we are from the fucking same species as men....

eve-was-framed

I am so sick of “leftists” punishing women who don’t ignore every screaming instinct of self-preservation for the sake of a male’s feelings. If I see a penis in a female locker room, for my own safety I am going to assume the person it’s attached to is there to hurt me. But in doing so I have committed a thought crime and am now a terf who deserves to have my life destroyed and my throat slit. It doesn’t matter that I have a history of being sexually violated, it doesn’t matter that I’m small and could never defend myself without a weapon, it doesn’t matter. I am now irredeemable for feeling that fear, because that fear makes a male feel invalidated.

nocountryforlesbians

the bottom line is that if the hill trans activists are gonna die on is “exclusive same-sex attraction is transphobic”, then we need to go our separate ways as communities. we’re no longer on the same team.