eMbrACe tHe chAos

Just a trans guy going through life. Soldier. Stage Manager. Dog Lover. Cat Cuddler. French Language and Culture Enthusiast.

[tchaikovskaya]

catch me at the zoo slow blinking at the big cats to let them know i love them

[thecollectibles]

Nightmare (Part 2) by YIN ZHE

[angeltiddies]

reverse gaslighting where i pretend to know exactly what you are talking about

[oneheadtoanother]

[squishfrog]

My boyfriend has the most beautiful animals

[whatsallthisnow]

What the hell kind of cow is that?

[william-snekspeare]

Don’t be rude that’s their boyfriend

[thecollectibles]

Art by YIN ZHE

[haonsowmqpoznwk-blog]

[normal-with-adhd-is-a-joke]

This is the bare minimum of decent human behavior for ANY gender. If you are an adult and someone who is not an adult wants to have a relationship with you, it is your duty to, at bare minimum, turn them away.

[glorious-spoon]

and like... having crushes on adults is a Normal Adolescent Thing, but it doesn’t mean they’re ready for--or for that matter, want--an actual relationship with said adult. it’s a goddamn developmental phase for kids working out their sexuality, and treating it as a chance to get laid is fucking monstrous.

[bendingsignpost]

Recommended tactics to deal with a child hitting on you:

“kiddo”

“buddy”

inform a friend to ensure you’re never left alone with them

refer to own age in conversation

“yeah, I know I look young, but you wouldn’t BELIEVE how awkward it is being mistakenly hit on by a teenager!”

upon that child turning 18:

“Happy birthday, kiddo!”

“Have you registered to vote yet?”

“Man, being a baby adult was so hard, good luck with that”

[awed-frog]

And as a reminder, teenagers often have crushes on older and/or unavailable people like celebrities precisely because psychologically/emotionally they’re not ready to have a relationship. On a subconscious level, fantasizing about someone you know you can’t be with allows you to experiment with your emotions in a safe way. And obviously an adult taking advantage of that will disrupt the entire thing.

[wizardsexmachine]

Adhd/Autisitc bitches be like “I hate when people are loud” and then have no volume control. I’m bitches.

[slime-lilly-deactivated20220926]

ADHD/autism bitches be like “i hate loud sound” and then play their music as loud as possible, it’s me im bitches

[st4lker-deactivated20200823]

[aphextwinselectedambientworks]

[zanestransition]

Metoidioplasty Recovery

Hey guys!

I'm 3 days post op stage 1 of meta. It's been insane honestly but I'd like to get this info out for those that might need it. Metoidioplasty isn't talked about much when it comes to bottom surgery.

So here's the link to my youtube channel where I'm posting the videos

Zane R.

FTM trans guy documenting transition

[everydayyhustle]

More than 50% of your success lies in your ability to show up. You’ll find that the harder you work, the luckier you’ll get.

[omghotmemes]

10/10 would visit again

[communistbussy]

[sandersstudies]

Hey kids, not to be a party pooping adult, but if you start noticing signs of having an addictive personality/tendencies at a young age, be really careful when experimenting with alcohol, marijuana, or nicotine (and other illegal drugs, which I would encourage you to avoid entirely; and medicinal drugs like opioids acquired after a surgery).

Like, if you can't tear yourself away from a video game, even to make it to an important event on time? Addictive tendencies.

If you keep spending your allowance money on those funny collectibles or new shoes even when you promise yourself you're going to save it? Addictive tendencies.

If you find yourself unable to resist and manage food cravings, or frequently overeating even when it makes you feel bad? Addictive tendencies.

Be aware of yourself, kids. Be cautious and don't be anybody's fool. I love you, be safe!

[madeline-kahn]

Stranger Things Playlist: “Suzie, Do You Copy?”

[blackqueerblog]

YAAASSS!!!! Sometimes it starts as just staring…. but then you get the creeps who will follow you. Be aware of your surroundings and if you see something happening/happen, don’t be afraid to “get in the line of sight” or saying something!

[randomslasher]

What I really love about this is that it highlights how little it takes to interrupt something like that. The dude didn’t say a word. He just moved.And yeah he made eye contact and shook his head but like. That was it. No fight, no confrontation, just the acknowledgment of “hey I see what you’re doing and I do not condone it.” 

That’s the message a lot of these predatory types need to be getting: that people are not going to put up with the behavior. That would head off so much gross behavior: just knowing that the other men in the area don’t support you. 

This is using privilege. <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 

[mysteriousgap]

[nickcarrawaysuggestions]

[mckitterick]

Here’s what she’s referring to:

source tweet: X

[nobodybetterhavethisoneoriswear]

Woop, there it is

[saedratheseadragon]

Despite her forgetting us in this graph she’s still popular among non-binary people as well!