GracefulYetFeisty

Just another Queer Deity, ruling over my corner of the internet . I post/reblog good shit about intersectional feminism (and all forms of intersectionality); gender/sexuality; mental health (esp ADHD & anxiety & other stuff too); chronic illness/chronic pain warrior/spoonie warrior who is *always* out of spoons; Marvel and other superhero stuff especially my beloved Black Widow; and occasionally some random religious stuff . Welcome to the chaos that is me. . TL;DR: I’m a queer, non-binary genderqueer, nerdy, kinky, polyamorous, tattooed, chronic pain spoonie warrior who is super easily distracted by literally any random shit, thanks to bonus ADHD brain. . If that sounds like your kind of person, join me in the graceful feisty chaos . My Orientations: Sexuality- Queer Gender- Fuck gender and all that it entails. I just cannot. What does that make me? Who the fuck knows. Not even me. In the meantime, I go by Genderqueer/Non-binary (but it’s still a work in progress) Pronouns- She/they, at least for now, because I haven’t found anything else that I like or fits me better (because, fuck pronouns too) Romantic Orientation- Demiromantic but also Hypersexual Relationship Orientation- Ethical Non-Monogamy / Polyamory Kink Orientation- Yes . Nerdom/Geekdom: Superheroes- Marvel in general, Black Widow in particular, plus all the Women of Marvel. I make just *one* DC exception, for Wonder Woman. I’m not afraid to admit I have a personal shrine to Black Widow. DnD alignment- who knows? Anything from Lawful Good to True Neutral to Chaotic Good to Chaotic Neutral, depending on what online quiz or what DnD alignment chart I’m working off of. I like playing spellcasters with range weapons and crazy-level detailed backstories that drive a DM nuts. Magic the Gathering- I want to be Red/Black, but I’m really much more Blue (in personality). I play aggro decks, when I can. Huatli is my second favorite hero, after Black Widow. . “Will you walk into my parlor?, said a spider to the fly .

[gracefulyetfeisty]

Just another Queer Deity, ruling over my corner of the internet

I post/reblog good shit about intersectional feminism (and all forms of intersectionality); gender/sexuality; mental health (esp ADHD & anxiety & other stuff too); chronic illness/chronic pain warrior/spoonie warrior who is *always* out of spoons; Marvel and other superhero stuff especially my beloved Black Widow; and occasionally some random religious stuff

Welcome to the chaos that is me

TL;DR: I’m a queer, non-binary genderqueer, nerdy, kinky, polyamorous, tattooed, chronic pain spoonie warrior who is super easily distracted by literally any random shit, thanks to bonus ADHD brain

If that sounds like your kind of person, join me in the graceful feisty chaos

My Orientations:

Sexuality- Queer

Gender- Fuck gender and all that it entails. I just cannot. What does that make me? Who the fuck knows. Not even me. In the meantime, I go by Genderqueer/Non-binary (but it’s still a work in progress)

Pronouns- She/they, at least for now, because I haven’t found anything else that I like or fits me better (because, fuck pronouns too)

Romantic Orientation- Demiromantic and Hypersexual

Relationship Orientation- Ethical Non-Monogamy / Polyamory

Kink Orientation- Yes

Nerdom/Geekdom:

Superheroes- Marvel in general, Black Widow in particular, plus all the Women of Marvel. I make just *one* DC exception, for Wonder Woman. I’m not afraid to admit I have a personal shrine to Black Widow

DnD alignment- who knows? Anything from Lawful Good to True Neutral to Chaotic Good to Chaotic Neutral, depending on what online quiz or what DnD alignment chart I’m working off of. I like playing spellcasters with range weapons and crazy-level detailed backstories that drive a DM nuts

Magic the Gathering- I want to be Red/Black, but I’m really much more Blue (in personality). I play aggro decks, when I can. Huatli is my second favorite hero, after Black Widow.

“Will you come into my parlor?”, said the spider to the fly

[thebadchoicemachine]

[dxmedstudent]

This is how you do a meme. I don’t want to tell anyone my name or my bra size or my date of birth on the internet. Why can’t we make memes using useless and non-personal data points?

[helthehatter]

SKELETON PLINKO

[gracefulyetfeisty]

Blaze Plinko? I could get used to that

[myjetpack]

My cartoon for the latest issue of New Scientist.

[neil-gaiman]

Our world.

[polyamzeal]

[polyamzeal]

[dogmotif-deactivated20240505]

if you're not obsessed with anything weird and niche please try harder. stop going outside for a while. consider getting weirder about the things you already like

[wyrd-author]

Another copy of American Gods by @neil-gaiman . Originally in paperback, rebound as a hardcover book in hand dyed red sienna leather with gilded pages edges and gold vinyl decoration depicting Shadow Moon standing beneath the tree Yggdrasil.

[doubleca5t]

so at my new job there’s been a lot of confusion over my gender (which as an enby is great) but somehow in the confusion my coworkers came to assume I’m a trans man and even though I’m AMAB I’ve used the confusion as leverage to get them to put tampons/pads in the men’s room and add a gender neutral bathroom for any transmascs/enbies down the line and I kept thinking “this is like the ‘my gender is whatever makes the joke funnier’ thing but the opposite??” and anyway tldr here is my “My gender is” alignment chart

Oh this is amazing so many of these are a mood

[castledock]

Honestly as a blind person I’m so tired of seeing fictional blind characters who don’t use white canes or other guides. “They have special powers so they know what’s around them” or “they’re confident enough to not need a guide” are common tropes, and I’m tired.

Are people scared that using a white cane will make their blind character seem weak? They can’t use a cane because they’re so special that they already know what’s around them, and other blind people who use guides are inferior because they’re not special?

I’m tired. Give your blind characters white canes and other guides. Let them hold onto their friends, let them have guide dogs. Don’t make white cane users feel ostracized for not being “strong enough” to go without.

Another thing that pisses me off is when a sighted character comes up with the fantasy equivalent of braille and teaches it to the blind character. Braille was invented by Louis Braille, a blind man, in 1824. The blind character should be the one coming up with it.

Tldr I’m blind and tired of sighted people lol

🔪 Sighted People MUST Reblog This 🔪

[anxietyproblem]

[higgitybibbity-blog]

I’m fucking dying. I got roasted in the best way possible.

[monorayjak]

Me, a trans-woman who’s birth-name is also Matt, looking at this: “What the fuuuuuuuuccckkk????????????”

[spoonie-isms]

So life hands you a closed fabric bag

And tells you it’s your spoons for the day. You aren’t allowed to look inside the bag, you can only pull out the number you need until they are gone.

You can try to judge by weight, but sometimes there are metal spoons and sometimes there are plastic. They come in all different sizes, from baby spoons to ladles. So even the size of the bag isn’t helpful.

And they wonder why we aren’t perfect at planning our days.

[spoonie-isms]

Like, if I knew it only had cheapy dollar store plastic spoons that break, I wouldn’t do anything tough. But we live in an extractive capitalist hellscape and I’m expected to work 40 smiling hours a week.

[synthient]

crazy that in the 1970s they were like, "fine, women can play sports. but because they're innately less athletic than men, only in a special ghettoized League For The Frail And Delicate where they get paid less 😊". And not only is that still the system in 2023, but viciously lashing out at the smallest challenges to that system gets framed as Feminist Praxis

[synthient]

even setting aside the fact that gendered bodytype averages aren't universals, and plenty of individual (cis) women and (cis) men could easily go to toe to toe. have we considered that the fact that all the most prominent and well-paid sports are ones that require things like Being Tall and Having Muscle Mass, as opposed to, ex, gymnastics...is itself an artifact of sexism

[beemovieerotica]

also to people who are like "well do you think WOMEN should be playing AMERICAN FOOTBALL against MEN" actually I don't think anyone should be playing american football on account of, you know, the irreversible brain damage.

[anxietyproblem]

[p-ssy-deactivated20201210-deact]

hello dark mode users :)

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[smuttysides]

I love this

[elasticpoodle]

I deadass didn’t know that dark mode existed and I switched over and this is gorgeous.

[depsidase]

[quica-quica-quica-deactivated20]

THIS. THIS RIGHT HERE!

This is how you do a blog up to where you can still read and NOT get blocked. This gives me all the info I need to know you’re not a pornbot/spambot.

Newbies to Tumblr, this is all we ask. Let us know you aren’t a bot!

Many thanks to you @livinginlilaccove - you get a gold star ⭐️ for your excellent blog setup!

[kaispeakshermind]

Don’t need to know your age or even your pronouns but if you give us some kind of legit bio, that’ll tell me all I need to know that you’re human

Like this.

This is just fine.