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andhetakesandhetakesandhetakes

#cottagecore

shoestoreslore

this and a blunt

wingsfromwhere

captain-price-returns

lordeboy

What I eat in a day as a low agency emotionally manipulative performative metrosexual avoidant ADHD Adult male

mjalti

nothing is real and then all of a sudden everything is very real with no warning

redstonedust

i understand (on paper) why companies are anti-piracy but its funny when random individuals are also strongly anti-piracy. like how does it negatively affect your life if someone you know downloads a cracked torrent of sims 4. you dont work for EA. EA isnt gonna pay you for this. you lose nothing. its fine. chill out.

lucy-vanpelts

pinkpantheress is our paul mccartney

probuccalfat

i’d love the opportunity to fumble you catastrophically

lost-in-delu

Yeah like everyone else has whilst further exacerbating my attachement issues??? Go right ahead, be my fucking guest.

probuccalfat

that’s exactly what i want to do, yes. i want to personally target you to further damage your attachment style.

papayajuan2019

choosing to engage with my despair in new and playful ways

caspercryptid

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.