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[whitepeopletwitter]

[sandersstudies]

The American Midwest is being hit with dangerous blizzards and subzero temps that can cause frostbite in under ten minutes and my dad is outside grilling burgers.

[sandersstudies]

You guys are having a great time in the notes but my dad is having a better time in the snow.

[materassassino]

[draculasswife-deactivated202212]

Red Moths

[cascos-e-caricias]

Italy. Lake Garda | Riva del Garda (1999) by Martin Parr

[saywhat-politics]

[flightyquinn]

I love that this implies that the person with that sticker both

a) lives in a conservative part of America

b) knows that none of their local Trump supporters are going to look up the verse

[identifying-cars-in-posts]

2013-2015 Honda Accord

[excorpiano]

[anxietyproblem]

[lesbianboyfriend]

i’m already living in a time loop it’s called being employed

[sandmandaddy69]

[lucifer-is-a-bag-of-dicks]

new favourite hobby, stitching dumb shit onto pretty fabric

[lucifer-is-a-bag-of-dicks]

when the fuck did this get 30,000 notes

[sleepyseaslug]

Rotate the ant… weeeeee

[animentality]

[m-interior-m]

Source

[rylandsgrace]

Barbie (2023) dir. Greta Gerwig

[zagrebinaa]

[lunasohma]

sitting….normally…..

[rockpapertheodore]

Sometimes self-care is, actually, NOT getting onto the computer and little treats and watching youtube videos. Sometimes those things are self-care, but sometimes they're also avoidant behaviors.

Sometimes self care is waking up and just. Fucking getting in the car. And driving to the bank. And the store. And buying the cat litter. And changing the cat boxes you've been avoiding because your brains been stuck in a hole. And picking up the trash you've been piling up. And getting a load into the wash. And mowing the lawn before the village council sends you a formal complaint and potential-fines warning.

Like its hard and annoying to do because it sucks. It sucks so much. But if I don't start working on this pile of bullshit I've let build up because it stinks and i was stuck in deer-in-headlights mode, I risk letting it turn into fuckery. I do not have the patience for fuckery that I once - foolishly! - thought I had.

[butch-obliterated]

This mentality helped me so much. Framing my "chores" and mundane tasks as self care and something I can do for myself, really helped me. On a good day I feel like I can genuinely enjoy basic to-dos because I get something nice for myself afterwards, even if that nice thing is just a better living environment. And sometimes it's still too hard, and that's okay too.