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How i manifested my desired appearance 🧜🏻‍♀️

I wanted to talk about this because it’s something so many people — especially beginners — focus on when they first discover the Law of Assumption. It’s actually one of the simplest things to manifest, but people often overcomplicate it, treating it like something delicate or mystical… when in reality, it’s no different from manifesting something as random as a bike with no brakes!

First, repeat after me: there’s no such thing as an “easy” or “hard” manifestation. There’s no process, no halfway manifestation, no “almost there.” There’s only your manifestation — and yes, it already exists. All it takes is one blink, one shift in awareness, to realize it’s right there.

I know you might be expecting me to give you a step-by-step guide, like “say this nine times in the morning,” or “write it 40 times while thanking the universe”… but that’s not how it works. The real key to manifesting is gently realizing that your desire already is. There’s nothing in this world separating you from it — only things that help you align more closely with the state of already having it.

Just becoming aware of your desired appearance changes everything about how you see yourself. But if you want to experience that little illusion of “magic” when your manifestation shows up (because honestly, when it does, it feels like it’s always been that way — it’s rarely some mystical moment), then do things that bring you closer to that feeling. Visualize it often, say your affirmations when you’re bored or when it crosses your mind. It won’t speed things up or slow them down, but it can help you feel connected to your desire — and that’s what matters.

From my personal experience: I used to believe (falsely) that my face was too round, that my nose looked weird… all of it was just an illusion! One day, I looked in the mirror and decided to see what I truly wanted to see — a slim face, a delicate nose, a perfectly symmetrical, model-like face. That was my turning point. I realized I’d always had that face. Always.

What helped me the most was repeating affirmations right before falling asleep and right after waking up. I swear, when you affirm in that drowsy, half-asleep state, you feel incredibly powerful. I might make a post about that state according to Neville, but honestly, that was what changed everything for me.

And now… I have the face I always dreamed of. I love every single detail because once I accepted and loved it as it was — slim, delicate, feminine — the shift happened naturally. And I’m not some special being vibrating at a higher frequency than everyone else who just happens to manifest easily. You can do this too. Start putting into practice all the knowledge you’ve been taking in, and watch everything around you reshape exactly as it was always meant to.

We only live once — so why limit yourself, when this life is entirely yours? ✨✨

wolfgirluv

the key to living your dream life. science based. 🧬⭐️

cuz im a big psychological facts nerd

⭐️ SUMMARY:

1. my old days;

2. how did i change;

3. why? / how our brain works (science based).

1. my old days.

for this post, we’re going back to my baby shifter/manifestor phase. I was reading so much stuff in here and getting so confused that I simply had no idea of what to do first; so I tried every single thing I read, even the craziest bs you can think of.

but no matter what, nothing worked. I’m pretty sure that’s something most can relate, but the main question is: why?!

here is the thing: you need to be consistent with everything in life, that includes manifesting/shifting. if you want it to work: be. consistent. you’ll understand why soon.

it is the only thing you gotta do: pick your wish, a method if you want and stick to it like your life depends on it. (TRUST ME)

2. how did i change.

okay, but how did i manage to be consistent?

here’s the tutorial, also science (neuroplasticity) based, but you can make your own research and apply whatever works best for you.

forced myself to stick to my assumptions.

repeated what i wanted (affirming, visualizing, living in the end) like crazyy.

didn’t do much dramatic shifts, changed a bit every day, consistently.

focused in the end result. not on the method.

That’s it.

3. why? / how our brain works

I know you’re looking at the screen confused af, like “why would i do that? how does that even work?” AND I’M SO GLAD YOU ASKED, LEMME SHOW YOU!!!

how does the brain discipline itself to do anything, even hard things, like studying or working? by being forced to do it. so that’s exactly what you’re gonna do. oh, did you waver? did you have an intrusive thought? did the 3d said something? SYBAU!!!! you’re gonna force yourself to stick to your desired reality.

copy that? alright. now: the more you do something, the better you’re gonna get at it. that’s logic, so it better gets through that thick skull of yours easily.

the more you waver — the better you get at it.

the more you acknowledge your undesired reality — the better you get at it.

the more you persist — the better you get at it.

but hold on: your brain doesn’t like the discomfort of dramatic changes. this mf likes predictability, so switch your patterns NICELY. that’s why people who work out 20 minutes every day get better results than people who work out 20 hours once a month. yk what I mean? it will also prevent you from being frustrated and waver after not achieving a dramatic change overnight.

your brain is absolutely in love with patterns, it creates new patterns all day long, but once it becomes deeply rotted enough in your brain, it becomes automatic. so now I want you to consciously create a pattern that aligns to your dream life: when you act like the person you want to become, your brain is gonna rewire itself to align with that.

when you act like the person you want to become, your brain is gonna rewire itself to align with that.

what would my dream self do…?

another thing: your brain naturally hates work, but loves rewards. so don’t focus on the changes you gotta make in your mindset now, how you’re gonna have to study yourself; focus on the things you’ll be living after.

that applies to everything in life. so give it a chance!

love, wolfgirl.

edensear

The longest list of success stories I've ever seen: Helene Hadsell

Helene won EVERY contest and got every prize she wanted. It's estimated she won around 5,000 contests.

Sounds too good to be true right? But it's true. Helene Hadsell won every contest she entered. She wrote a book detailing her success stories from the beginning, and I'm here to summarize her winnings and advice from her book "Contesting: The name it and claim it game". If you love success stories, you'll love this. If you're in a rush, I think the most interesting success stories are the experiences numbered 17-18.

Things that you should take from this are in purple. Text in parentheses are comments from me, usually identifying what she did that you may hear often in the manifestation community.

Note: Helene is human like all of us. She isn't flawless, and like any human she can waver. However, this does not invalidate her success. As her dominant assumption that she can win any contest she enters never failed her. Observe why she didn't receive what she ideally wanted at times, and instead received it a different way. Her manifestation were sometimes “delayed” due to the fact she assumed it to be that way. The fact that she admitted to not getting everything she wanted in the way she wanted makes her story more reliable, and helps us from making the same mistakes.

The start, Chapter 1: The Name It & Claim It Game

Hadsell read Norman Vincent Peale's book, The Power of Positive Thinking. Since then, she wanted to prove to herself that anything the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve with positive thinking.

She listed these steps:

1. Set a goal

2. Never entertain doubts

3. You can con yourself into anything: By repeating it over and over. Until one day, it is incorporated into your thinking.

Her first experiment started when her husband wanted an outboard motor in this contest. She filled out an entry imagining herself from her husbands view point. Three weeks later, she received a call that she won the outboard motor.

She says that before she received winning conformation, everytime the thought crossed her mind about the contest or motor, she convinced herself again and again she would win (she thought in her favor everytime her desire crossed her mind). She asked herself "I wonder when they will let us know that we have won?" She had no negative doubts, and didn't entertain the thought that she wasn't lucky or that only clever people would win (she had a self concept that aligned with her desired outcome). She refused to entertain any negative doubts that could affect her manifestation (she refused to waver!).

Hadsell entered another contest where she used the same positive thinking, and questioned how long it would take the company to inform her. She KNEW she would be a winner. Only two attempts at winning contests, and she ended up winning both of them. Seeing this, the family joined in.

Now, I'll vaguely list more success stories in order. I'll add more to ones that stood out and that you should pay attention to.

1. Her daughter Pam wanted a bicycle and won a bicycle.

2. Her son Chris wanted a bicycle, also won a bicycle.

- >She comments, "I inject this for anyone who sees this as luck. The fact that we did win the first time we entered help us gain confidence. There is an old cliche that goes like this: "If at first, you don't succeed, try, try again." Had I not won my first try, I feel my positive attitude would have urged me to continue to enter anyway. I have since realize that with a positive thinking outlook, there is no failure, only a delay in results" (This does not have to apply to you. This is Helene's rule, and you'll see how it affects her manifestations. Every person has their own rules for manifestation, and each rule that they accept as true works as so. This doesn't have to be true for you. Let's say you want the rule of manifesting instantly. Simply persist in this no matter what you see. Soon, it will work how you wish. You don't have to believe it for it to be a rule, just persist and soon reality will conform how you wish). "The imaging faculty played a leading part in the goals I wished to achieve. I recommend, in order to play any game successfully, train your faculty of imagination."

3. Helene mentions her and her family won balls, radios, dolls, games, electrical appliances, and cash prizes. "You named it, and we claimed it."

4. Won a trip to Arizona by plane. Helene is scared of flying, so she asks the company if they could go by train instead. But it was a prepackaged flight, so they were disqualified. They received a second place prize of a movie camera instead.

- > After this, she used powerful positive thinking to convince herself planes were safe and that she would enjoy flying. That she would enter contests involving flying because it would be fun. Conning herself.

5. She won a family dude ranch trip and flew there for the summer. "I recall that all during the trip, I was in an 'in-fright' trance, convincing myself how great it was."

6. The next year they won a family trip to disneyland

7. Helene's other son, Dike wrote a 250 essay for a trip to Americas capital. Of course, he won.

- > She was so proud of it, she shared it with some guests she had over before the win, asking if they wanted to have a sneak preview of a winning entry that would win her son a trip to Washington. One of the guests said "Say, this is terrific, but how can you be so sure that it will win the trip?" Helene called these people "Doubting Thomases". She told them, "Give Dike your address, and he can drop you off a card while he is in Washington D.C." Helene regrets this and says she'll never do it again, because it caused suspicion she might know the judges. She says, "NO Braggin' before Baggin'", and to remember that.

8. Chris won a free trip to the World's Fair for one child and one adult

9. Dike won a trip to europe

- > Before receiving the win, Dike took his passport pics and prepared. The editor, Carolyn says "This tip is important because being prepared tells the Universe you are serious about receiving the abundance it has to offer, and you are ready to reach your goals and dreams now."

10. Chris wanted to go to Europe too, and eventually won a similar contest to go to Europe. "As I stated earlier, all five Hadsells were in the act of winning contests by using a positive attitude."

11. Her daughter Pam won cash prizes by submitting entries to numerous national and local contests. She also won a complete home library and radios. Another time, she won five pairs of roller skates.

Chapter 2: All Things Come to Him Who Waits.

"Thoughts are things."

12. Helene mentions she has many household appliances now from sponsors. Around Christmas she wanted an electric skillet. Her husband wanted to buy it for her but she told him not to, because she was positive she'd be winning one shortly. He bought her one anyway. After christmas, she hears from three different sponsors, congratulating her on winning their prize of an electric skillet. She donated these as gifts since her husband already gave her one.

13. Helene really wanted a new stove. She entered the Westinghouse contest which had over fifteen hundred different prizes, and some were stoves. After the contest closed, she heard from others that they won some of the prizes the contest offered yet she heard NOTHING. But she was so positive she could almost touch it. She knew regardless of Westinghouse she would definitely have the stove in her kitchen. She applied to another contest where she received a 1k cash prize, and she used that money to buy a stove. Ten days later, Westinghouse tells her someone overlooked notifying her that she actually WON a stove! After explaining her recent stove purchase, they gave her a laundry unit instead.

14. The family really wanted a color TV. Chris won a 16 inch TV but it was black.

15. Three weeks later, Helene won a TV that was also black and white. They joked they weren't concentrating on color enough and agreed to give color more thought.

16. The third time Helene won a TV, she was so positive she would win. She did win, but it was still black and white. But she refused to be discouraged by what one might call a "failure" and wouldn't give up. Her family begane to joke she was color blind or wasn't color conscious. After two years of projecting for a color TV, she gave in and bought a set. She says, "I know there are no failures, only a delay in results, but that was just flat out taking too long!" (REMEMBER THIS FOR LATER. Although it took long, I noticed she inevitably gets what she wants later in the book when she's no longer actively looking for it. This is because although she believed there were no failures, she also believed a delay in results. In reality, the only “delay” in results is wavering. But you can even affirm wavering doesn’t affect your manifestation. )

17. One day, she and her friend bought tickets to this live show. Before sleep, she suddenly had a very strong desire to be on the show. While she slept, she had a vivid dream where Art LinkLetter (the host) chose Helene from a vast audience and invited her to be on his program. As she sat in the audience the next day, she waited for her dream to become reality. Mr Linkletter was on stage and walked up to where she sat, and among hundred of people, he asked her, "Don't I know you?" She replied "No, this is my first trip to Hollywood." He then asked if she wanted a very special Christmas present. She was escorted into the spotlight and received a beautiful watch. After the program, Mr Linkletter asked her again, "Are you sure we haven't met before today?" Helene didn't tell Linkletter she dreamt about this, and thinks it has to do with telepathy or projection in dreams.

18. I found this day the most interesting.

-> There is this show called "Its Your Bet" where someone from the audience would be chosen by the camera and the celebrity playing the game would answer three questions from their partner, and if correct, the audience player would receive the prize that was flashed on the board (I explained this vaguely as I've done most things, the game will make sense as things unfold, specifics are unnecessary).

-> As Helene waited in line to be let in, she met this mother and daughter who have been playing this game for a long time. They haven't won a single thing. As they told Helene their stories of failure, Helene noticed why it was so. "Sure, they wanted to win, but instead of being positive, they had doubt. Not negation or pessimism, but just enough doubt that they nullified any positive energy they might have had when they entered a contest. I call your attention to this because this is what most people are guilty of doing. They say they are positive, but somehow they don't retain this powerful energy constantly, until their wishes or desires manifest."

-> Helene wanted these people to win. The mom wanted a color Tv and the daughter wanted a refrigerator. She explained to them her concept of how great she thought positive thinking was, and asked them if they would like to play a game using positive thinking and visualization. They agreed, but she could sense they were thinking she was crazy. She told them to project positive energy when the item they wanted flashed on the screen. When that happened they were to know they would be chosen by the house camera and be the winner. And when the celebrity was answering questions, to look at the partners answers and mentally project that answer to the celebrity.

-> When the color TV came, the mother was chosen. Helene was sure the mother and daughter sent answers to the person playing, and Helene did too. All three questions were answer correctly. During lunch break, the daughter asked a question, "Don't you think the whole thing was a coincidence?" So, would she also like to win her refrigerator by coincidence? They decided to do it again. Note that the crowd is now three times bigger than it was the first time. The camera zoomed in on the surprised daughter. During the mental telepathy, the players smoothly picked up the answers. Of course, the daughter won the refrigerator.

-> After that, the duo left and Helene decided to stay as she waited for her husband. She was bored in the audience and sensed that no one in the audience had a strong desire to win an appliance. She remembered her own mother wanted to win a color TV. So, just as she planned, the camera zoomed in on Helen and she won the prize. (So even if she didn't give in and stayed patient, she would still be given the opportunity that would guarantee her winning a color TV.)

Helene calls it WISHcraft. "But let's analyze this situation: the prizes were there for anyone who wished for them; the players of the game had free will, they could accept or reject anything that was mentally suggested to them." (Here, she is talking about how some might see the telepathy part as witchcraft but says people have their own free will. They can choose whether or not to accept the thoughts they receive. I want you to apply that knowledge to your own circumstances. When you’re wavering, you can choose whether or not to identify with the thoughts you are receiving. You are not your thoughts unless you choose to be. Also, do people really have free will? It's up to you. Your reality. Your perception. You can let people be unpredictable, or you can pull the strings. Everything is up to you. But either way, you’re deciding how the people in your reality show up. They don’t have the free will to decide, you decide for them. They only have free will if you assume they do.)

Back to the book:

"Question: What if several people were vying for the same prize-- which one would win?

Answer: The one that emitted the most positive energy. (In my opinion, its based off your assumptions. If your observing people manifest, whoever you assume will win, will win. But let's say your one of the ones manifesting. Every single person who persists and doesn't waver will get what they want, just only in their reality. Personally I believe by persisting in a certain reality, we shift to the reality where that is true.)

Question: Can anyone do this?

Answer: It is being done every day, in every way. It is about time you are made aware of it." (You are ALWAYS manifesting. Whether you decide to acknowledge it or not. When wavering, your manifesting just that.)

Helene shares her favorite quote you've probably heard before: "Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions; watch your actions, they become habits; watch your habits, they become character, watch your character for it becomes destiny." Carolyn (the editor) notes: A small thought now, especially when repeated, leads to your final destiny.

This is not the end of Helene's success stories, maybe I’ll make a p2.

deardiarywrites

get up girl ! day 8-10 and my final learnings ୧ ‧₊˚ 🍮 ⋅ ☆ ++ tough love

welcome to another blog everyone <3 so finally it's the last day of uprooting the weeds phase and the starting of tilling the soil phase. here's my summary and the things i have learned.

summary :

i'm super happy to admit that the main goal of my challenge's first phase has definitely been achieved. i don't constantly need noise to do something or have the desire to multitask etc anymore. i feel much calmer, more attentive, and more "in the moment" in general. my screentime has drastically reduced, thanks to the screentime limit. i have started to read and write again, eating in a healthy way (i used to binge eat sometimes but i have more self control now), and i've started to enjoy studying again, thanks to the new methods i had discovered. I have also started being nicer to myself, and allowing myself to rest without feeling guilty. oh yes, guilt. i have stopped guilt tripping me and others (lol). i'm handling things much better as i am allowing myself to just EXIST without consuming too much. i still sometimes struggle with my indecisiveness, but it's alright. some things take time and that's just how it is. my achievements : ⋆ lost 1-2 kgs ⋆ average screen time is 2-3 hrs ⋆ became the class representative ⋆ became the incharge of organising a performance ⋆ finished reading a book ⋆ got back into crocheting and delivered my first order ⋆ healthier eating habits ⋆ AHMAZING social life

time for the lessons i've learned !

❦ some people are going to distrupt your peace, and you'll just have to deal with it, and not let it stop you from continuing your "challenge" or routine. this is something i struggle with, if my routine or schedule gets disrupted, i would get extremely worked up or pissed. but i've realised that being able to 100% follow your routine would require everything to go your way. and that's not really possible because every human has their own will and they will, without doubt, do things that will affect your life in some way or another. and you have to accept that reality.

❦ acceptance is KEY continuing from the previous point, you have to sit down and accept the way things are. write it down. everything that is really happening and not "ur idealised version of it". just be real. sit with it. accept it. you'll feel so much better when you realise that some things can't be controlled and great news : you don't even need to control such things.

❦ a negative mind will never give you a positive life. yeah. a negative mind will never give you a positive life. how can you expect a happy life if you're constantly nitpicking all the bad things that have happened to you? how can you handle an inconvenience well if you have the mindset of "bad things always happen to me, why me". ??? how can you expect to be successful if you're constantly comparing yourself and giving up? being emotional and such is okay. but loathing yourself and drowning in a pool of negativity just because "you're just naturally emotional and sensitive" is AN EXCUSE. you're not "weak", you're a coward. scared to stand up and get better. scared to face your fears. scared to admit who you've become, so you just crawl back into your safe haven.

❦ "i'll do it when i feel better" or maybe you'll feel better if you start. ever thought of that?

yup! that's the end of this blog. i hope it helps you in some way or another. till then, see ya! xoxo, @deardiarywrites

misscrazyfangirl321

Hey someone suggested I use ChatGPT to figure out adulting today, and as I was going through the mental list of places I'd rather look, I realized "beloved strangers on Tumblr dot net" was on that list.

So if you have an aspect of adulting that you're really good at-taxes, budgeting, cooking, insurance, credit, time management, house upkeep, anything-please feel free to reblog with any tips.

notcruvusmemes

Not me, but @bitchesgetriches has a lot of great resources for many of these topics on their website.

bitchesgetriches

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salemlunaa

ONLY YOU CAN BE THE PROOF OF SUCCESS

since you are the projector of reality.

If you can’t see it in yourself you won’t be able to see it at all. No reality is “real”, so you can not use your outer world, which i is just a mirror as a reference point for “proof”

Let’s break down the words “personality” and “reality”

˚∘personality˚∘

• Person → from Latin persona, meaning “mask” or “character” (often in a play). [aka, who you are being]

• -ality → the state, quality, or condition of.

∘˚reality˚∘

• Re- → again, repetition, reflection, mirror.

• -ality → the state or quality of.

can you see how your PERSONality comes first, your reality is just a projection, a RErun of what you already know to be true.

This is why who you are being is SO important, you are the projector and your thoughts and your personal facts are what show up on the screen. So, YOU have to be the living proof, YOU ARE proof of your manifestations, If you exist and you are aware of the existence of that reality, You are the proof.

ꨄꨄꨄ

Since everything is an illusionistic projection of you, or in other words, not real, so why would you use something that’s not real an indicator to whether you have what you want. The fact that you even “desired” it is proof enough. The fact that you knew there was more out there for you IS ALL THE PROOF YOU NEED

Now evaluate who you’re being. Ask yourself “Am i being living proof?” and this isn’t about doing, i am the biggest preacher of the fact that you don’t have to lift a finger or do anything in the physical as creation is finished, im taking about your thinking. “AM I proof of my shift?”

Looking for “proof” in places “outside of you” that you have fallen for the illusion of separation and that you don’t truly know who you are. You are not separate from anything, all you have to do is perceive your “desired” reality as your normal everyday. And that starts with YOU, are YOU proof of that?

How are you carrying yourself mentally? what are your personal facts about yourself? Who are you being?

If you don’t see it within yourself now, you will never see it at all, because you are all that is.

The good news is, time isn’t real, all you have is now so you can choose now and never look back.

If someone took a look inside of your brain, would they be able to find proof that you have your manifestations? Ask yourself that, “If someone could pick my brain, would they know that I have what i want? would they be able to tell?” If the answer is no, i think you’ve found your problem.

When the Ego tries to get in your head and ask where it is tell yourself, “I AM living proof, and my reality reflects that”, not “will reflect”, not “will reflect if i persist”, not “could reflect, but we’ll see after i complete this challenge” IT IS REFLECTING NOW

YOU ARE THE ONLY OPTION FOR PROOF SO BE IT.

BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO “SEE”

©salemlunaa

salemlunaa

✵CREATION IS FINISHED, I MEAN IT✵

shut the fuck up, it’s yours and always has been

*ONLY POST YOU NEED FOR MANIFESTING/VOID*

cleanse yourself from all the misinformation you retained, all the times you’ve put this shit on a pedestal and all the fear you may have and know that:

creation is done, you already have what you want

you have that face, that body

you have those good grades

you’re not a loner, you have those friends

you’re not in that horrible household, you have your desired family

you’ve induced pure consciousness and you’re living your best life

It’s done, idc what you’re seeing in your life right now but it doesn’t matter. It’s not real. Your outerman isn’t you, your innerman is you. And your innerman (you) doesn’t experience time or the 3D so as soon as you want something you have it, it’s done.

Stop racing against the clock to manifest your dream life, time doesn’t exist, every single night, weekend, school break you promise yourself that you’re going to induce pure consciousness and manifest your dream life and then you panic because your 3D isn’t showing you that. You keep doing this to yourself, stop it.

Idc what circumstances are showing you, so what? your outerman fell asleep and “didn’t induce”, but your innerman did, resonate with that and block out the 3D world. It doesn’t concern you. You are “I AM”, you are everything and nothing and you seriously don’t think you can manifest anything, it pisses me off that you guys don’t know how natural this is to you.

Once you decide it’s here.

“But i persisted in good grades for 2 months and i failed” (that’s an affirmation by the way)

you didn’t persist you wavered. learn. the . difference

if you persisted you would have it.

“I need to manifest my dream life before summer I have a few months, but nothing is happening” (again, that’s an affirmation)

no you have it now, time is not real.

you have everything, idc about the 3D you’re seeing with your eyes, reject it, it’s not your reality anymore. As the operant power you are everything, you don’t have to meet in the middle with the 3D.

“you have to work out while manifesting your dream bod” no wrong.

“you have to study while manifesting good grades” nope sorry!! ,

“you have to do a meditation and saturate your mind before you induce pure consciousness”wrong, try again!!

If you don’t receive those outcomes “on time” that’s on YOU for wavering. You didn’t persist, if you did it would be yours, it is yours. ITS DONE, CREATION IS FINISHED. You have it, don’t let anything brake you. Even if the 3D slaps you in the face I. DON’T. CARE.

your outerman can suck it with the complaints, you are so powerful and you need to realise that, it pains me when you guys talk about yourself as if you can’t do it, damn you society for teaching us that an effortless life is too good to be true!!

nothing needs to be done, stop looking for proof, why are you letting the 3D a dormant malleable mirror tell YOU if you have YOUR desires.

For an example i’ll use studying because it’s quite generic. Once you decide that you “are naturally smart and have good grades already”, YOU. DON’T. NEED. TO. DO. ANYTHING. ITS DONE.

However let’s say Lilah believes that it’s too good to be true so she has a wavering assumption that “no no no, i need to study or i won’t do well”(affirmation btw) She ends up failing because she wavered (which is on her) and told herself that it wasn’t possible to have success without effort, and so she spiralled. She then blamed loa and reaffirmed her belief that she needed to work in the 3D to get the things she wanted

Lena on the other hand, doesn’t let anything shake her, at all. Not her 3D, not the deadline, she WAS naturally smart she had good grades no matter what, creation was finished, she is I AM and she can manifest some measly grades if she wanted. And she came out with straight As. There was no exam date to be scared over because she KNEW that she had her good grades already, creation of desires were finished, so she wasn’t surprised that she did so well.

The 3D? this life you’re living? very malleable, it will change when you accept that to change it, you need nothing. but. self. Apply this to pure consciousness aswell, you don’t need to “manifest you’re dream life before next week” because you already have it, you’ve already induced pure consciousness.

You’re not gaslighting yourself or being delusional, it’s fact.

It’s not faking it till you make it because why would you fake a fact?

🔮🪬CREATION IS FINISHED, THERE IS NOTHING YOU NEED TO DO

ultred

if you are worried about your grades, i got you.

i graduated recently with honors and got top grades even though i barely attended and was doing horribly my first year. (which could’ve heavily impacted my overall gpa)

how did i do it ?

⤷ well, it’s very simple.

1. stop putting your grades, school, university, etc. on a pedestal.

you need to acknowledge the fact that it’s not only possible to put people in your life on a pedestal, but also other things in life. treat your grades exactly like an sp. there is nothing higher than you. there is nothing out of your reach. put yourself on that damn pedestal and stop thinking that good grades are unachievable.

2. you’ve always been smart, you’re just aware of it now.

know your worth. know you’re smart. know you’re special. know that you get special treatment from your professors/teachers. and don’t just know it, claim that you’ve been born with it. you are not just smart, but beyond intelligent. know your worth and don’t underestimate yourself. you can be aware of any reality. any possibility. choose to be aware of the one that benefits you because even if you believe that you’re not smart in your current one, there is a reality in which you’re literally the top student.

3. stop being so bothered. it’s not the end of the world.

please do yourself a favor and stop being worried and bothered to the point you ruin your own mental health over something that honestly, doesn’t really matter that much. there are thousands of people who achieved their dreams without any education. millions of people who graduated with normal or below average grades yet achieved so much. your life and success do not depend on your grades. education is a system. a man-made one. and any man-made system is not above the law. so stop stressing. it’s not the end of the world. they’re just grades. they do not define your worth or success in life.

4. if people in your life are stressing you tf out:

remember that everyone is you pushed out. they’re just reflecting your own fears. they are YOU. so, why would you care about their opinion or expectations ? you only need to validate yourself. if they’re pressuring you to get good grades, know that they’re just mirroring you so their words are less effective. yk that it is within you so you’ll simply change that. be relaxed within, and that’ll reflect outwards.

5. before persisting to get good grades, persist to better your health.

you can manifest even if you’re in the depths of hell. however, there is nothing more precious or important than yourself. your well-being. always treat yourself with care. look at yourself from a third person perspective and feel empathetic towards yourself. nothing deserves your mental health to be wrecked. so, persist that you’re fine. that you’re okay. do some techniques. meditate. script. do breath work. eft tapping. whatever. you don’t even have to do techniques. listen to or watch something you love. eat or go to a place that brings you peace or joy. you can also go within and use your most powerful tool (imagination) and imagine scenarios that bring you peace and stability. maybe drink tea before doing so then play some soft music or a meditation.

6. you deserve princess treatment and to be favored everywhere you go.

yes, you do. just assume and persist in the fact that you stand out and your teachers/professors are always rooting for you. my self-concept was so high when it came to this that so many professors remarked my papers giving me the highest grades. (going from 11/20 to 17/20 for example, which was as same as the highest grade the other students got !) i even manifested my professors praising me in front of everyone and clearly favoring me in all aspects. they would treat me so well compared to others and always remarked my papers or gave me high grades even on my presentations. and i’d like to note that in school, i didn’t have the same experience. so it was a total shift for me. so, yes. it is 100% possible. everyone else’s experience with my professors was negative or neutral. so this proves it.

7. when you enter your exams, do your assignments, etc. live in the END.

i always did that. before entering any exam. starting any assignment. any presentation. any project. i’d just live in the end that i already got excellent grades and that i’m an A student and everyone around me reflected this as well calling me an “A student” just by continuously telling myself and affirming that i’m one ! i would imagine that i already received my reports and got straight As. so no matter what i did on any of these, i didn’t care. even when i did horribly or didn’t completely finish any of them, i’d tell myself, well, i already got an A. i’m not saying that i didn’t study at all but i didn’t really put that much effort into anything. remember, you can’t be stressed when it’s already yours. you already know the truth. you already know what will happen. you already know you succeeded and you’re an A student so why should you worry ? be it.

8. manifest other people helping you.

i’ve manifested so many notes and help from people around me. even in group projects, i loved being the leader but sometimes, i felt like i didn’t care that much so i just assumed that they’ll take care of it (mind you, most of the people i was assigned to be with where either the type to do nothing at all or were the type to be really strict), and they did. they put absolutely no pressure on me and did everything whenever i just assumed that they will and won’t bother me about it. you can also manifest people sending you their notes if you don’t have any or don’t want to write ones. always remind yourself that resources are everywhere and people around you would do anything to help you and make your life easier.

9. you graduated. you’re happy. it’s done.

tbh, this is what kept me going the most. i acknowledged the fact that i’m going to graduate 100% like obviously i won’t stay here forever. i just kept thinking about my graduation day and guess what, it came so fast. the years i’ve spent in uni, i don’t even remember them. whenever you’re stressed, just imagine yourself graduating and know that it’s inevitable. school and university are temporary. just ask anyone who has graduated, they’ll tell you the same.

these are currently a few points i had in mind. i hope they helped, even for a bit. feel free to ask me anything !

you’re an A student,

never forget that. <3 (˵ •̀ ᴗ - ˵ ) ✧

infinitevibes

urdreamgirlangel

youtubers for the girlies 🩰

a picky girl’s deep-dived guide, with categories (yes, i have some of them twice)

girly diaries ⪩⪨

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pure entertainment and fun ⪩⪨

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overstimulated ⪩⪨

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artful n ambitious ⪩⪨

𐔌 : nicole leilani 𐔌 : sepherah 𐔌 : seonne 𐔌 : micarah tewers 𐔌 : anh creates things 𐔌 : miss tada 𐔌 : ballerina keira 𐔌 : madeline woo 𐔌 : beepworld 𐔌 :

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pretty and informed ! ⪩⪨

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fitness ⪩⪨

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mental health & spirituality ⪩⪨

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part two? 🩷

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Voting ended onMay 6, 2025

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hrrtshape-deactivated20250705

　𝓶𝔂 𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐅𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐅𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐎

⠀ ⠀ ⠀ this isn’t a self-help guide. i’m not your guru and this isn’t a powerpoint on gratitude. this is just me. sitting on the floor. i’m not here to raise your vibration. i’m here to ask why you think you need raising in the first place. i'm here because i’ve been hoarding revelations like they're concert wristbands. i'm here because reality is porous and i’ve got the straws. no, literally, i’ve sucked on time’s milkshake and found it lukewarm. we can do better.

you will not find steps here. there is no staircase. i burned it. we fly now.

　"how to"s . .

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀how to manifest.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀how to get what you want without affirmations.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀where is the stuff i manifested?

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀i have it, i have it, i have it, so where is it?

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀become the laziest manifestor.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀manifest anything in hours, minutes, and even seconds.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀banish resistance.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀how to stop looking at the 3d for results.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀how to manifest the future.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀manifesting faq.

　thesis's & concepts . .

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀energy and matter cannot be destroyed or created.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀barbie doll theory of self-concept.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀do less than nothing , get more than everything.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀i said what i said (and then it happened)

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀think it, know it, live it.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀hoping or remembering?

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀manifestation and the eroticism of longing.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀what's meant for me will find me.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀screw trying.

　doubts & negatives . .

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀adrift on a sea of self-inflicted delays.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀it didn't work before, why would it now?

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀the hardest pill to swallow.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀" there is no new information on tumblr "

　interactives . .

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀the manifesting seance club.

⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ﹐⠀pick a card and find out about your manifesting journey.

expensiveity

today we’re praying for the woman who is trying to find the strength to keep going. lord, give her the strength to keep pushing even when things get hard. work on her patience so that she can be still and know that even though things may not look perfect, you’ve already spoke over her life. remind her that if she remains steadfast on this journey she will be someone healed, evolved & flourishing. amen.

infinitevibes

wndesordenado

theambitiouswoman

Survival mindset can sound like:

I’m not enough.

There’s never enough time or money.

I have to work harder to be successful.

If I don’t control everything, I’ll fail.

Failure means I’m doomed.

I’m not allowed to rest or take breaks.

Success is a struggle.

I have to do it all on my own.

Good things only happen to others, not me.

I’m always running out of time.

If I stop pushing, everything will fall apart.

I’m constantly worried about the worst case scenario.

There’s too much competition; I’ll never get ahead.

I can’t afford to make mistakes.

I’m stuck and nothing is going to change.

saydesole

Manifesting Stability

zagrebinaa

thatbitchery

Personal finance is tied mostly to your systems as a person. You could make 6 figures a year and still be broke and in debt or you could make 20k a year and be on your way to financial freedom.I have finally achieved financial freedom, and no I do not make super much, depending on who you compare me to. Mostly it's my financial and personal habits that keep me going.

I do not consider fancy a marker of a good life, as a matter of fact I do not understand it. What do you mean a MEAL costs 1000 its never that serious please. I don't consider Givenchy to be any more elevated than what my tailor can make me for 100$. Fancy is not important to me so when I was building my one year emergency fund I did not consider fancy part of the budget. I do not try to purchase status.

And I can not stress this enough- taking risks with my money. Buying a vending machine is one of the best decisions I made this year. Buying a business, as risky as that was, turned out to be great. I have lost money, too. Like a lot. I bought stocks in a startup that crashed and lost a pretty little buck. I dipped into the VR business not too long ago and that tanked. It is not about making the right decisions- with money that is almost never possible. Its about taking risks.

My end goal is not a career its the money. Meaning? I have worked jobs odd and unclassy and not so fun. I have packaged fish at some point- hated it. I have worked as a cashier once. As the personal assistant to some pig that was always trying to get their hand up my skirt. I have done real estate. Currently doing event (wedding) Planning for my girl. I did forex, once. I have been paid to go as someone's date to some event. I am not picky with my jobs because the job is not the end goal, the money is. The goal is to retire by 30 and I will do whatever it takes to get up there. It's the getting paid part that matters the most to me.

Learning to leverage my skills and the situation plus to recognize the opportunities when they show up. My girl's last organizer canceled last minute and I offered to take it if she tops the fee up because I love her but not THAT much. In the process I have met so many people in this place and making connections in a new country will never be a bad idea. I have zero to none skills in event planning but all i hear is compliments (Pinterest the things I'd do for you) and I can add event planning to the options my future self has for careers especially given the profile of this one. A lady at church was divorced and man left her with a mortgage and a financial crisis (your daily reminder marrying rich isn't all that) and i drew up a contract to cover her mortgage and kid's education in exchange of a piece of her estate plus slowly easing my way into becoming her financial go to person and asset manager. A bargain, seriously, and I've passed it through enough lawyers to know my fancy little mortgage note will make me very very happy in a few years. Leveraging my mentorship skills to work my way into society because the way to anyone's heart is their children. Its free on paper but is it really? These are the next CEOs and I'm building my space this early. Leveraging my relationships for more relationships. Opportunities are not given they are created.

THIS. ESPECIALLY THIS - having a value system. Knowing what is important to me and what isn't. Being a part of high society is NOT important to me so why would i buy a gala ticket the same price as my rent? Buying brands to keep up a rich girl aesthetic? Winters in Gstaad although I despise snow? Being part of high society isn't something I value at all so I don't play social games I'll just go home. Yes I'll maintain my relationships but everyone that is everyone knows it is not a race I fancy (Which, weirdly enough, has made it very easy for me to navigate it). Like I said, fancy things are not important to me so apart from an Aston Martin I don't care about the price I care about the quality. I will be at a thrift store I really don't mind. My peace is very important to me so I'll pick the fancy overpriced library fees over other libraries and I will pay a ridiculous amount in rent for an apartment in the peaceful part of town and I will splurge on a fancy cafe because I know the price range itself buys me peace. Ramit Sethi (In his book I Will Teach You To Be Rich) gives this as the core point of getting wealthy, knowing your value system. What is important to you? What isn't? If you're not for something you're for everything.

Minimizing responsibilities. I don't have kids and I don't intend to. I don't stupidly commit to things without thinking real real hard about them. I didn't buy things that require me to keep up with paperwork, I don't take on things I need to track. My greatest responsibility in life is my three cats.

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