Writing Stuff and Doing Things

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[gaslit-dipshits]

[appalachian-werewolf]

PoweredByWho — Who's Building Data Centers in Your Backyard?

Follow the money behind America's data center boom. Track 2,300+ projects, PAC spending, and the politicians who sign off on it.

[sa1ntss]

Alternate below for funsies

I didnt put 'detective' because i saw somewhere that Kim tends to call Harry officer if hes irritated (but i could be wrong.) I have 6 hours of tracked drawing time on this lmao because I kept changing shit and trying different colors. Also almost posted a messed up version of this last night that I had to fix first.

[lesbianshepard]

99% of all murders committed by women in ancient greek plays are completely justified

[lesbianshepard]

[ikariyuiofficial]

[ottermatopoeia]

Clytemnestra: crack? Is it crack you smoke?

[memewhore]

[bananahomo]

I reblogged this last month, tagged it, and said “might as well see if it works.” I used this video as a reference to find all the forms that i needed (which is A LOT, especially if you’re a dependent) and sent them through the mail, not really allowing myself to hope.

dude.

$2,714 of medical debt from my top surgery - gone. im shaking this was such a weight on me for 2 years and it fucking worked. what the fuck.

[minakittengaming]

This is huge. Sharing for my US friendos.

[zillyblog]

Hospitals like to hide these policies under a lot of successive links in obscure places, so if you don't see anything right away, keep looking! Get friends to help! Make it a scavenger hunt. A game where you're assassins sent to slit capitalism's throat

[zeta-finnish]

Damn.

I'm reblogging this.

[molombo]

What does it take to make African mythology real? Everything we had. Over 70% of our Kickstarter Backers came from Tumblr. Thank you. Now it's yours.

ZAIROO is out now.

[hermitcreature]

This looks so cool, def going to add it to the pool for my TTRPG group!

[kuttithevangu]

Being a calm, gentle, non-reactive person is really hard work, which is probably why many people are none of these things. Personally I think it’s worth it but sometimes one does want to just roll around on the floor wailing at the top of one’s lungs

[kuttithevangu]

People in my notes who think I’m repressed or dissociating: you will feel better when you learn emotions are not a binary of Not Feeling It vs Being Overwhelmed By It

[blorbospinninhouseplant]

Ok but How Do I Do That

[kuttithevangu]

Self-regulation for adults: Strategies for getting a handle on emotions and behavior - Harvard Health

Learn strategies for enhancing self-regulation skills, and discover the benefits of mastering this essential life skill to help emotional dy

There are many techniques (also, there are drugs)

[kuttithevangu]

Emotional Regulation: 5 Evidence-Based Regulation Techniques

Emotional regulation is about managing emotions to maintain balance.

A little meatier than the Harvard page but covering the same ground. These pages will give you additional phrases to google for advice

[thelawfulchaotic]

This sounds wild/stupid/possibly a little insane, but I find that actually addressing the emotions and speaking to them like people is my most useful way of regulating. Emotions are expressing a Deep Concern and Want To Be Heard. Once they are Heard, they are often willing to be soothed or willing to work themselves out with a cry/a walk/a snack/a nap (all things that allow for physical emotion processing and signalling to your body that you are safe).

Often, when they're incredibly intense, they're reflecting those concerns that we have ignored or exiled about ourselves, or tried to bury or suppress. It's not your enemy. It's coming from your deepest self and it's an expression of your truest ideals. Even "destructive" emotions like anger become your allies and friends when you understand why they're there.

And sometimes the message is received but you still need to, like, do the dishes. In that case, respectfully approaching your emotions almost like a compassionate parent will literally get you everywhere. Again, I know this sounds wild. But if your anger won't leave you alone and you need it to, tell it why you need it to and try asking. The fact that this works is so dumb and weird but it fucking works, I'm not kidding around.

This does require being able to communicate with your emotions, though. After certain kinds of traumatic stress, your body might distance itself from your emotions and you might not be able to reach that, in which case you probably need more intensive intervention and maybe better advice.

[appendingfic]

Nate: This con requires someone to play The Most Annoying Man Alive Nate: ...my time has come

[crispytime]

“WAIT i gotta serve before i die”

everyone applaud my goat @cringe-fact0ry for giving me the lightbulb

[zarla-s]

HIS MOVES WERE IRREPLACEABLE

[baleful-meat-worm]

hot take. does anyone else think jonathan's boundaries should be respected

thankyou @lukewarmtomatosoup for collabing with me .... releasing our touch averse jonathan headcanons upon the world .... #colouringin

[orcposts]

do not go gentle into that good night

[orcposts]

be a bit of a bitch about it

[transbian-uprising]

can't in good conscience leave this out

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

[zigdirty]

We're not leaving this gem to languish in the comments:

[bargarean]

[bargarean]

reblog my post boy

[knifenymph]

change does not come from a place of comfort

[aquareaper3]

I find pennies and nickels in my couch all the time, so I don’t know what you are talking about

[homofied]

[opalfairy]

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

so what you're gonna do is you're gonna trim the top off a bulb of garlic, using the knife's edge to take off the tip of every individual clove, that's important. you're gonna place the garlic face-up in a square of tinfoil, drizzle with olive oil, wrap completely in foil, place in baking tray, repeat with a copious amount of garlic bulbs. you're gonna put that baking tray in an oven set to 375-400°F, for 30-50 minutes, until soft and browned. you're gonna toast some good bread, slather generously with butter and honey, maybe a tiny lil bit o' salt. and then. you're gonna SQUEEZE. OUT. THAT. ROASTED GARLIC. onto the butter honey toast. and you're gonna eat it. food stolen directly from the plate of the gods. that's what you're gonna do.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

the garlic. it beckons you

[thesweetestsupervillains]

It occurs to me that "1920s gangster doing a cooking show while holding you at gunpoint" is an untapped market.

We've had normal cooking shows. Now we need period piece cooking shows in character.

[satyriconmp3]

admire folks who reblog posts which contradict eachother. exactly! keep em guessing

[severalowls]

fuck people who reblog posts which contradict each other. no! be explicitly clear

[maalidoesart]

happy pebble pride