Constantly accusing trans women of grooming is particularly heinous because you can use any genuine attempt to help and support others as 'evidence'
I was the leader of an lgbt youth group. I made for absolutely sure to keep a barrier between them and myself in what we would talk about and what was allowed to be shown.
It worked out well. Until the owner of the organization saw a bunch of teenage kids being comfortable around me, and decided they needed to remind me that I was "just a volunteer" and should have been coming to them for everything despite them clearly GIVING me that responsibility.
Like what did they expect? That I would fuck up? That I would do something inappropriate?
When they tried to take the group out of my hands, I quit. And then they just tore the group apart.
Like.... these are the people who are SUPPOSED to be looking out for lgbtqia+ kids, and they got mad at me for doing too good of a job.
It was like they were mad that I WASN'T being a damn groomer; and that these kids were becoming healthier, and learning to rely on each other, and figure out their own problems, so they had to tear it apart.
I wish I could do something but being a part of an existing community was really the best way to go and there are no other organizations like that. And if I were to start one myself, I'm sure the allegations would be flying before I ever had my first meeting.
Our society is dogshit
