Hopertins

[hopertin]

I love that comment sections and reddit have become pretty trusted sources for information because this is where people knowledge drop and debate.

[hopertin]

You should personally understand why you believe what you do.

Don't blindly accept ANYTHING

Ask questions about EVERYTHING

Learn.

Grow.

Use your God given brain to put the pieces together.

[hopertin]

Everyone has issues and traumas, it's just normalized to pretend you don't.

[hopertin]

Your life isn't about your parents, but your parent's life should be about you.

Sorry.

🤷‍♀️

[hopertin]

You fucked up, but you're not a fuck up, Okay?

It's hard, but do the best you can.

You got this. ❤

[hopertin]

Just because the piece can fit, doesn't mean it should go there.

[hopertin]

Of course you "Don't know what" my problem is, you don't bother to ask. 😒

[hopertin]

Your personal truth is important and valid, but that doesn't give you the OK to disregard the objective truth.

You heal with your truth.

You learn with the objective truth.

[hopertin]

I may be sensitive, but that doesn't make you any less of a dick.

[ptsdandflowers]

Me: I’m having such a good time

Brain: sure would suck if you get hit with a low mood, and go nonverbal, and come off as rude and uninterested in your friends

Me:

[hopertin]

There's so few people that I talk to, and I even have a hard time talking to them...

It just seems like people don't care/ want to hear what I have to say, and so I end up feeling stupid when I just keep talking and realize after the fact that they were just trying not to be rude...

It makes me not want to talk, but I know that isn't going to help anything...

I shouldn't let others opinions dictate my thoughts or actions, but I shouldn't disregard their perspective/ how I make them feel (seemingly uncomfortable) either.

It just feels like living in a confusing and lonely contradiction...

[hopertin]

If you give me a pretty journal, I'm never gonna write in it.

[determined-mind-deactivated2025]

[girlwhorpsalot]

I needed this.

[mentalmentalhealth]

Thank you to all the people who posted this so I ended up seeing it. I really needed this right now. Thank you!

[hopertin]

I know I have rbf, so I try to help with that by having a light smile (It's important not to have rbf I'm customer service), but now I feel like I just look creepy to everyone. ._.

[thedankmemes]

[hopertin]

There is an old tradition, a game we all can play..

[hopertin]

If I'm having a conversation with someone, and another person that they know walks up and starts talking to them, I'll just stop responding to the convo...

I don't want to say something and that other person be like "was I even talking to you?"

So I'll just stop talking and hope they leave before I do so I can finish my conversation, otherwise I'll just say "later 😊" and walk away.

There's a small exception being if the 3rd party includes me.

This is a me problem that I need to work on. Logically I know most people won't respond to me that way, even if they don't know me or I say something they don't personally agree with.

It's just hard to get over that feeling. 😅