Break Your Mother/Father’s Back Hex Jar
(This is a hex meant to do some serious dark work on a target. If you are unsure or prone to second thought, this hex is not for you. If you might change your mind about doing harm to this person, this is not your hex. If you subscribe to the rule of three, steer the hell clear; one of these is enough to change the course of your life, three might end it. This hex will produce results and they will be severe. Use deliberately or not at all.)
This hex is exactly as the title suggests, a malicious magical working that will inflict severe suffering in the life of the target, most often presenting in some sort of accident.
The best manifestation of this hex will come with the same kind of energy it was created with, which in my story was a lot of internalized pain and mental suffering at the hands of a family member. I took every bit of anger and frustration I had and put it into this jar, and baby… to say it paid off would be the biggest understatement I’ve ever made. The target, within 5 days, had one of the worst falls in their life and is out of work to this day. If you have resentment and pain and you need to get someone who is harming your wellbeing out of your way, or to even just send the loudest and clearest message they’ve ever gotten, then proceed.
(If you’re coming here wanting to know why each ingredient is in here, I can’t really offer that. A lot of it was what was appropriate for me at the time to how I felt, which is why my ingredient list below is specific to what I used and will use again, but feel free to tweak and add/delete if the item has a connotation that does/doesn’t align with your intention!)
Jar With Lid, I utilized a mason jar for this because I had a lot of bad feelings I needed to seal tightly into this jar.
Equal parts vinegar/lemon juice/alcohol of any kind, but a favorite of the targets would be most powerful.
Scrapings from a burnt cast iron pan
Some article of the person (I used a used plastic spoon from their lunch box that I snapped into a bunch of little sharp pieces)
Pair of targets used undergarments
White and black spell candle, 1 ea.
Start by dropping ingredients #2-#16 (set aside bay leaf) into your jar, one by one, pulverizing each between your fingers as you drop them in; visualizing the anger and resentment you have for your target manifesting from the raw energies inside you into their life, ensnaring them.
Write your greatest wish for the outcome on your bay leaf with black ink, I wrote pain on mine.
Taking the undergarments, I cut the shape of a small dolly twice out of it. Then I took a small shard of the plastic spoon mentioned above and bound it with black thread to create a little doll of him, stuffed headfirst into the foul jar.
On your petition paper write your target’s name 9 times on each side and fold 3 times, turning counter clockwise on each fold, always folding away from yourself. Place in jar.
Seal the jar with the lid, and then use your black wax and create a little mound of wax you can melt to anchor your candles.
Wrap jar in black ribbon and twine
Wrap two candles together with red tissue paper and white thread. Piercing both with 2 sewing pins. (Pictured below)
Using the sharp needle, pierce your skin and use your blood to draw a seal the lid around the wax (optional, I just felt this strongly that I felt a co-sign of my own essence was necessary)
At this point, observe the jar. The movement inside is due to the sulphur and vinegar mixing, they are in constant motion like the turmoil the target will face.
Mount candles on the jar.
Prepare ceremonial plate, I made a circle of mugwort, wormwood and Dead Sea salt to contain the bad energies to the spell circle.
Prepare your casting area in a location the target frequents, (I used a garage, it’s not about the location’s witchy aesthetic ™) prepare this however you feel you need to, every witch is different. I just used my pentacle and selenite/amethyst to help regulate the energies around the casters working. (Working alone is totally fine too!)
I black saged the area and all the thresholds so that the only dark energies in the space are those of my own manifestation.
I prepared an incantation, based on a couple of references I to similar situations, read as follows once you light the candles.
“Darkness, I charge you with this sign.
Mother in the night are mine.
Spirits I task you with this curse,
Help the man from home to hearse”
I chanted this three times, and spent the rest of the burning time focusing on my intentions.
After the flame burned down and out, I took the jar and hid it in the ceiling supports two floors directly below his bed in the basement.
(Notice the ash heart 🔮🖤)
Cast away all the ingredients on the spell plate to the wind.
Shake the jar and talk angrily to it twice daily until results become clear.
Thanks for reading, feel free to DM questions. 🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯
