to love me is to suffer me

em/bones | 27 | bi | white | they/them

[horseshoecrabs]

⭐ pinned post ⭐

i'm em (or bones!), i'm 27, bi, and i use they/them pronouns. i'm a librarian so please ask for book recs! you can add me on storygraph, too!

i really like baseball--especially the new york mets--and will cringepost about sports. i have a baseball sideblog over at @metlegend.

i also like art, indie music (spotify here), poetry (my own work is at @warmlikesummer), video games, horseshoe crabs (obviously), tabletop rpgs, my fiancé and our rabbit theo, and generally being silly yet earnest on the internet. welcome!

[hellomelancholic]

Direct byproduct of being neurodivergent and growing up isolated from your peergroup is having no idea when it's appropriate to define someone as your friend

[hellomelancholic]

Is this person I met yesterday my friend? What about this person I've been talking to every day for three months? What about this person I've known since middle school? Is friend a title I have to earn? What are the limits of friendship? Is it a static state, make-or-break, or is it some endless dance-dance-revolution style cavalcade of prompts and challenges and social cues I have to hit perfectly to keep it up? Does it bend? Does it break? I don't fucking know man I just work here.

[dubiousculturalartifact]

i still remember when the dude doing my autism assessment asked me how many friends I had, and I was like "okay but how are we defining friendship?" and he just like, stared at me for a second and then wrote down some notes

[ispyspookymansion]

did you do anything gay and or trans to celebrate pride month this year

yes

no

Voting ended on19h

decide the nuance of your answer for yourself this is your call

[ispyspookymansion]

can more losers reblog this please where are my fellow No’s

[koenji]

Jean Diodati (1576-1649), Pious annotations of the Holy Bible, 1648 London.

[soulspark]

[psikonauti]

Jeffrey Vaughn (American, b. 1953)

Water Lillies in Fall, 2024

Oil on canvas

[natoraptor]

“Tour Guides”

-2026

[kilosink]

They are asking (respectfully) to see your coin collection (no intentions of taking to add to their horde)

[ieafy]

Cats in grass, gouache (prints in shop 💌)

[clownboybebop]

*street shot of zohran mamdani clad in nasty lil suit and hard hat* five months ago i was elected mayor of new york city. in that time, we have managed to COMPLETELY defeat the Staten Island Minotaur at no additional cost to the new york taxpayer

[sellos]

[megastamp]

Nippon, 1960, the 75th Anniversary of the Japanese Emigration to Hawaii

[sleepyseaslug]

romants

[mermaidenmystic]

Die Blaue Grotte by Goffredo Sinibaldi Paolucci (1866-1938)

[littlestpersimmon]

free ornamentation. no copyright, use it however you wish. :)

[k-wame]

you miss 100% of the shots you dont take😭

[jdebbiel]

sketching at the museum

prints available from June 9-16

[thunderstruck9]

Nicolau Raurich (Catalan/Spanish, 1871-1945), Barcelona, 1914. Oil on panel