WhiteNekoKnight

30 year old FeMale, currently transitioning. 18+ account. Please respect the age limit. (I really don't use Tumblr much)

[dutchster]

when it’s november 1st

[crazyaboutlefandoms]

Songs with the same bpm but played over different than original video tracks give me life

[angryschnauzer]

This really has the 2020 vibe huh

[catasters]

[weirdness-is-good]

He's just checking his email.

[themasterofo]

Permission PSA

It’s been a little while and I want to go over the rules about permission again.

“Okay, but… did I make a mistake?”

No. You didn’t do anything wrong. I just want to make sure we go over this now and then so I know you understand and remember it completely.

“Okay. May I edge please?”

No. No touching right now.

“But-”

I said no.

“Okay.”

Now. What do you remember about how permission works?

“Um… I need your permission to touch and to cum.”

That’s true.

“And to use the bathroom or spend any money over twenty dollars, and-”

That’s all true, but that’s not what I’m talking about today.

“It’s not?”

No. I’m talking about the other kind of permission.

“The other…? Oh! Sir, no. I don’t like talking about that.”

I know you don’t. But it’s important.

“Sir, please. You have permission for everything always.”

No. That’s not how it works. Now that kind of talk only lets me know how important it is to go over this again.

“Nnnn… Sirrrrr…”

Take this seriously and we can get right back to regular things.

“Mh. Okay.”

Okay. So. We do a lot of play where I make you feel confused and forgetful right?

“Yes, Sir.”

Do I have your permission to play those kind of games with you?

“Yes, Sir. I want you to. I like feeling that way.”

Okay. And you know I won’t ever do anything really serious without having a talk like this with you first.

“Yes, but… um…”

What is it?

“What about my orgasms?”

What about them?

“When you took them away… I was really fuzzy from lots of edges and you got me all mixed up.”

Yes, I remember. You were a confused, drippy little mess.

“But, so that was okay because of the talk we had before?”

That’s right. We had a bunch of talks really. About how you wanted to give up cumming but you were scared. And we didn’t do it until you were sure, right?

“Mmhm.”

Hey, are you okay?

“Yes, Sir, I… I just kind of wish you didn’t keep reminding me. I like to think you just took them away when I was confused.”

I know. And we can play like that more, soon.”

“Okay.”

Do you remember what to do if you agree to something when you’re all confused and you’re not sure if you meant to?

“I tell you.”

You tell me what?

“I tell you that I need to talk about business.”

Good. If you tell me that, then I’ll know we need to have a talk like this one with no mind games or anything like that.

“Yes, Sir.”

Okay. And you remember your safe words?

“Yes, Sir.”

And you remember how important it is to use them if you need to?

“Yes, Sir. I remember.”

Okay. It’s very important to me because I can do some really mean stuff and I need to know you’ll use those words if it’s ever too much.

“I will. I promise.”

Good. You’ll never be in trouble for using them, and I know you’ll never do it unless you really need to.

“No, never.”

Good girl. Okay, one last thing. If you’re ever with someone after me, someone who doesn’t do this with you, in some way or another, or who talks about not believing in limits or not needing your consent. What do you do?

“I get away from him and find a better one.”

That’s right. There. That wasn’t so hard, was it?

“No, I guess not.”

Would you like to edge now?

“Oh, yes, please, Sir!”

Okay. Nice and close for me. I only want nice hard edges from my girl before I take them away from you.

[female-orgasm-denial]

This is so damn good. Reblog the shit out of this. Hot consent FTW.

[deniedpoppy]

Consent is sexy.

[this-is-psychosis]

Therapists aren’t people who you “pay to pretend to care about you”, therapists are people you pay to teach you how to care for yourself

[voce-morti]

Me: I am violently depressed.

Therapist: Oh! Sounds like you need to do YOGA! That will help!

Me: *signs up for yoga*

Me: *is violently depressed in Downward Dog*

[mx-mythical-deactivated20260319]

Me: I hate myself and only see my flaws

Therapist: ok lets refocus on things you like about yourself. This week i want you to try and journal about good things you’ve for yourself and others.

Me: *does the homework* yeah but i still hate myself but feel bad cause i shouldn’t

Therapist: feeling like you shouldn’t hate yourself is a step in the right direction. Mental health is complex and isn’t something that will ~magically~ improve. We have a lot of hard work head of us but I’ll be here to help you.

TL;DR stop perpetuating the idea that therapy is unhelpful because the results are not instantaneous.

[kcsplace]

FUCKING THIS.

As a psychologist the amount of bullshit on this site, the amount of fucking dangerous bullshit on this site about how therapy is neurotypical bullshit and isn’t worth it and how exercise is pointless and good diet is pointless and that therapy homework is pointless DRIVES ME UP THE FUCKING WALL

Exercise is fucking important. good diet is fucking important therapy is fucking important. WHY???

because pills alone don’t help. they improve the hormonal imbalance (as does exercise and good diet which ALSO are a form of very real self care as your physical being is sorta connected to your mental one but go fucking figure right?), but guess what? the suicidal thoughts, the thoughts of harm, the thoughts of hating yourself, they’re still there.  suicides actually increase when medicated.  why? because suddenly you have the energy to fulfill thoughts of harming yourself.  which is why you NEED therapy alongside pills.

it has taken you years, or decades to create your maladaptive thought processes and behaviours.  that shit doesn’t disappear overnight. core beliefs don’t change overnight. these are the very fucking core of your personhood, your being and personality. THAT TAKES TIME TO CHANGE

STOP ACTING LIKE THERAPY IS SHIT IF IT DOESNT WORK IN TWO SESSIONS

[potrix-the-queerschlaeger]

^This!!!!!

[aestheticallypleasingurmom]

The stigma that therapy isn’t worth it if you don’t feel better after the first couple sessions is such bullshit. It took me 8 months to tell my therapist anything personal but I kept going because I wanted to get better. I thought it was bs too when she kept telling me to think about other things and to distract myself when I have intrusive thoughts (not exact words whatsoever). Now it’s 2 and a half years later and I can successfully switch from thinking about all the ways I could kill myself to the song Slippery by Migos and immediately start laughing. You need to let it help you.

[o-wyrmlight]

Also, it’s super important for you to find the right therapist for you! Not every therapist-patient match is perfect. Just like not every exercise routine might be the one you need, or like how the diet you’re using isn’t healthy for your personal health situation! If after a good while you feel like your therapist might be saying or suggesting things that are harmful to your mental health (because those ‘therapists’ do unfortunately exist!!!), it means it’s time to find a different therapist to help you out!!

And it’s hard! And it’s a long process to healing! But therapy is something that both you and your therapist are working toward to make you better!

Please be patient. Please meet your therapist halfway.

[fionamech-deactivated20210119]

This is important, and hopefully reaches someone that needs it.

[xenomorphique]

Please for the love of God stop forgetting that black women are screwed over in media as well and they're always completely mistreated with more intensity than literally everyone else. If they're even considered to begin with.

[xenomorphique]

I'd appreciate if this was reblogged rather than liked. This is a post that points out the obvious facts that people are so quick to ignore.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

Yo, people with acne

These are hydrocolloid bandages. They work wonders at pulling fluid through skin and absorbing all that gunk. 

You can cut them down to size, wear them on your face at night, and in the morning you’ll see a noticeable difference plus the bandage visibly absorbs the goo and it’s gross but weirdly satisfying.

They’re cheaper than most acne products, they work, and 1 pack lasts for ages. They’re sold in the band-aid section of most pharmacies; try them if you can.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

it’s the same stuff they use to make those new acne spot patches, but

medical grade material, absorbs more fluid

much cheaper 

comes in a large size you can trim down. some people use hole punchers to cut out circles to wear during the day. i trim large rectangles to use on problem spots at night

[awheckery]

These are also absolutely game-changing for anybody with a skin-picking problem. This is a judgment-free zone, I’ve Been There, and there are plenty of times I still find myself unable to leave something alone, whether it be a bug bite or a pimple or whathaveyou, because it’s There and I can’t ignore it long enough for it to properly heal.

Hydrocolloids basically act as a scab over the thing you can’t stop bothering, and as Gaud mentions above, they absorb gunk, which makes them bubble up like a little artificial blister. It’s so satisfying, you have something to pokepokepoke at, without actually hecking up the thing healing under the bubble.

These are, hands down, the fastest way to get problem spots under control; you can leave them on for multiple days at a time (up to a week, actually), based on the size, location and severity of your picky spot, so you can slap a hydrocolloid on something minor before it becomes a problem, and four days later or so you peel it off and there is no more problem, just smooth new skin. (They minimize scarring too, in case that’s something anybody else has psychological issues with.)

Basically, these are magical and they’re worth every. single. cent.

[awisekrakens]

well hot damn

have you noticed if they help with old scarring? my picky areas are kind of my entire upper arms, back of neck, and various shoulder regions.

[awheckery]

Yannow what? I have no idea? My instincts say probably not, hydrocolloids help speed up a natural bodily healing process called debridement (DON’T LOOK UP PHOTOS THEY’RE HORRIFYING), so once your body’s finished bombing an area with white blood cells and scar tissue’s formed, I want to say a hydrocolloid won’t do anything.

That being said, there’s another option in the ‘stick a gooey bandage on it and ignore it for a while’ field of treatment, and they’re called “silicone scar sheets.” They’ve been used as a treatment for scarring, both new and old, since the 90’s, and while I can’t personally vouch for their efficacy, apparently they do actually work?

I see ‘em at the pharmacy all the time, and I’ve been too put off by the price to have actually noticed that apparently they’re reusable???

I just learned this in the last thirty minutes, so I’m here like “?????” but more critically, scientists are also like “?????” because despite having been in effective use for thirty-some years, they don’t know how or why silicone gel treatments work. This is honestly hilarious to me and has piqued my contrarian nature, so TELL YA WHAT:

I will run a field test for you! If one box of silicone gel sheets actually is the two-month supply it advertises itself to be, they’re cheaper than an equal volume of hydrocolloids, especially if there’s an equivalent store brand. I’ve got a couple largeish, unlovely surgical scars I wouldn’t mind being rid of, so. Yeah.

I’ll pick up some scar sheets this week and try ‘em out, then update you on how that goes. Call me weird, but I won’t recommend something to somebody else unless I have firsthand experience with something, and I have intense opinions about bandaid-type products.

LET’S SEE HOW IT GOES

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

in my experience, silicone sheets are quite helpful for scars!

i’ve seen studies mention that they probably work by keeping the area continually moist (love that awful word. MOIST.) but no one’s really sure

i’ve noticed the most improvement when using them on new scars for 2 or 3 weeks, but you can still get long-term improvement for months afterwards

the one annoyance i’ve had is some brands don’t stick very well, so you may have to tape over them or try another brand. they also make silicone gel, which is applied like a liquid bandage. there’s less research on the effectiveness of gel, so if you use it, i recommend applying a normal silicone sheet over it (buy the sheet + gel pack if you can).

but yeah, silicone will be especially helpful for newer scars, so apply it sooner rather than later. that said, it should improve the appearance of old scar if worn long enough.

note: silicone sheets are more expensive but can be worn for much longer than hydrocolloid bandages. they don’t absorb gunk and can be wiped off, so there’s nothing preventing you from wearing them for weeks at a time. like hydrocolloid bandages, there are plenty of generic options.

[littlemixens]

why do people say “don’t be a pussy” when talking about weakness more like “don’t be a man’s ego” because you know there isn’t nothing more fragile than that

[nothingnowherenoonearchive]

uh 

because “pussy” is the shortened form of the word “pusillanimous”, which means “timid, cowardly”

and not the slang word for the female genital region?

[follow-puppy-luv96-deactivated2]

literally no one else knows this. nobody. 

[definitelyshitty]

WHAT

[tyronesuplac]

Sensational.

[definitelyshitty]

Remarkable.

[geraltcirilla]

it’s a real word

[snarky-gourmet-deactivated20250]

you: pussy

me, an intellectual: pusillanimous

[oh-round-one]

OH

[i-whiteneko]

Hu.

[kngshxt-deactivated20180831]

any size titty is lit

[buteur]

any booty size is lit

[robynforever-deactivated2022031]

any belly size is lit

[kittensandkinkstore]

❤ Kitten Play Set ❤

Kittens & Kink 

[delusionalafcamren]

all the touch starved bisexuals show yourselves

[ifitpleasuresme-deactivated2018]

I greeted him at the door on 4" heels, a high ponytail, and a satin apron.

He pushed me into my apartment with hungry kisses and desperate gropes.

I peeled back the layers of a long day at work: briefcase with a thud by the door and the friction of his belt through each belt loop. The buckle jingling as it fell to the floor.

He bent me over the table and thrust himself against my back and ass before unzipping and revealing his excitement to me. I ran the stiletto heel up his inseam while using the mental map of his body to guide my hands to revisit my treasure.

His mouth and hands raced to discover every spot that would make me gasp or moan. I cocked my head and squirmed in the shadow of his stature. The high ponytail danced against my skin.

He grasped my long brown tresses at the tip and recalled all the photos and videos in his wank bank of arched backs and bent necks.

He yanked so hard that he herniated C5-6. During the surgery for my artificial disc replacement, my surgeon found a bone shard 3mm from my spinal cord.

The man who whispered in my ear of how i was “marriage material” moved to Toronto 2 weeks after he damn near made me into a quadriplegic. He closed on a house the day of my surgery.

To this day, I jump when someone puts their hands near my head. My ears ring constantly. And every time I see one of you all post a photo of someone having their hair pulled, I think about all the pain one dumb, badly-executed move caused me.

1. Get consent. 2. Give warning. 3. Grab slowly and smoothly at the roots 4. Movement comes from the wrist (minimizes chance of injury to directional force) 5. If need be, let the person with the hair being pulled hold on to your wrist to either limit your movement or as a failsafe. 6. Over time develop trust with your partner to dial up neck extension, force, or speed.

All that and the fucker never even gave me a single orgasm.

[just-an-irish-rose-deactivated2]

Too important not to reblog

[kthmistythoughts]

😳

[asubmissiveview]

I am so sorry for what you experienced @ifitpleasuresme. Thank you for sharing this wake-up call.

[instructor144]

Signal boost. If you go charging into a scene thinking you can act like they act in those gonzo BDSM porn loops, you’re a fool. Always keep the Safe in Safe, Sane, and Consensual. If you are not absolutely sure of what you’re doing in a scene, don’t fucking do it.

[hiswifeslut]

Even a wake call for 24/7 dynamics, because it’s too easy to become complacent with your play, and forget to check in with your partner about if anything has changed.

[itsallprimal]

This wasiin my que.. but @hiswifeslut hit the real nail on the head here!

[beentherehaventdonethat]

I had a much lighter experience - where after some rough face fucking in an awkward position, I awoke the next morning unable to rotate my neck all the way. The chiropractor said 3 of my cervical vertebrae had been rotated or slipped. I don’t even know what I came up with as an excuse for that one lol. He was able to adjust them back into place.

It’s important to know how to take care of acute injuries- I actually had to wait two days because it was the weekend to see my chiropractor. In the mean time I iced my neck and took ibuprofen. Had the injury been more severe there is a real chance that even just swelling and inflammation could cause irreparable damage to the spinal cord or surrounding structures. Ice and ibuprofen are go-to when you need to treat acute injuries that have caused or could cause dangerous inflammation.

The neck is such a common feature in sex and bdsm play. It’s so important to be aware of how it’s angled and how it’s handled during sex and scenes. Always put safety first and remember to pull- not yank on anyone’s hair or head!!

I was very sad to read the OP. I am so glad the OP posted it though because it is such an important message that needs to echo throughout the bdsm and even vanilla communities.

[foreverexploringsexuality]

I come back to this post pretty often. I actively and deliberately seek it out.

You want to know why?

Because this is the harsh reality of the potential damage that kink done improperly can cause.

It’s very easy to get caught up in all the extreme activities and the rough and tumble type of play that we all love, but every so often we need to all be given a reality check that firmly plants our feet back on the ground. Something that forces us to revalue the mantra of “Safe, Sane and Consensual.”

This post for me is my wake-up all. It humbles me and grounds me every single time I read it, and I applaud with all the strength in my hands the woman that was courageous enough to post it.

Safety always comes first and I’ll be damned if I ever forget it.

[foreverexploringsexuality]

Reblogging in honour of 5 years post-surgery ❤️

[instructor144]

BOOST.

[beautifulaquafina]

Boosting

[shortyskittles]

Repost boost

[babygirl-1972]

BOOST!

[striderofthen0rth]

I will never ever not reblog this. My acquaintance with life altering neck injuries is real and strong. The number of scary hair pulling gifs I see on here is appalling.

That’s probably verbatim to the last time I reblogged this. So be it.

[littlesouthernbrat]

And this is why I allow so few people to pull my hair.

[magical-agatha]

trans girls not tucking needs to be seen as a completely normal and nonsexual thing. chasers go die.

[dignity-not-intact-deactivated2]

trans women’s genitals are not so repulsive that they need to be totally hidden through our clothes at the expense of our health and safety and for the sake of your comfort.

if cis men don’t have to tuck then neither do trans women.

[xxravenbirbxx]

Tucking is way more dangerous than people seem to realize. Tucking can cause irritation, blisters, urinary tract infections, and may increase the chances of getting testicular cancer.

Forcing trans people to tuck is violence.

[magical-agatha]

all of this!! it can also cause inguinal hernias, which is basically when the abdominal muscles in the inguinal cavity (where the testes go when u tuck) weaken and part of ur intestines slip through that wall and either get the blood supply cut off or worse. its fixable with surgery but if left alone can be life threatening.

and like you say, its violence. its society forcing many trans women to choose between either self inflicted violence or violence from a hate crime. trans bodies need to be normalised and accepted. we deserve to live safely and happily.

[misogynistcatgirl]

This includes if said trans girl is wearing a swimsuit/leggings/short shorts

[magical-agatha]

trans girls not tucking needs to be seen as a completely normal and nonsexual thing. chasers go die.

[dignity-not-intact-deactivated2]

trans women’s genitals are not so repulsive that they need to be totally hidden through our clothes at the expense of our health and safety and for the sake of your comfort.

if cis men don’t have to tuck then neither do trans women.

[xxravenbirbxx]

Tucking is way more dangerous than people seem to realize. Tucking can cause irritation, blisters, urinary tract infections, and may increase the chances of getting testicular cancer.

Forcing trans people to tuck is violence.

[magical-agatha]

all of this!! it can also cause inguinal hernias, which is basically when the abdominal muscles in the inguinal cavity (where the testes go when u tuck) weaken and part of ur intestines slip through that wall and either get the blood supply cut off or worse. its fixable with surgery but if left alone can be life threatening.

and like you say, its violence. its society forcing many trans women to choose between either self inflicted violence or violence from a hate crime. trans bodies need to be normalised and accepted. we deserve to live safely and happily.

[misogynistcatgirl]

This includes if said trans girl is wearing a swimsuit/leggings/short shorts

[raptureboyfriend]

switch culture is bouncing back n forth between a dom mood n a sub mood like a very horny ping pong ball

[pillowfort-social]

In light of tumblr now no longer allowing "adult content" (like nsfw art/pictures) will pillowfort still allow nsfw content as long as it is properly marked? Because that decision has pretty much destroyed my already little faith in tumblr.

Yes, we plan to allow NSFW content with very few restrictions. I don’t have any particular insight into why Tumblr is making this decision but if I had to guess, it’s because allowing NSFW content conflicts with their need for the site to be marketable and safe for advertisers– Pillowfort on the other hand plans to derive most of its revenue from user subscriptions, meaning that we will be beholden to our actual userbase and not outside advertisers and can therefore have more leeway in what we can host.

[consensualpredator]

This appears to be the front runner to replace Tumblr.

It’s got the cutest name so I think it will win.

Currently in beta so $5 kickstarter pledge to sign up, will be free after full launch.

[hail-robert]

Visit Original Link

Frank Ocean - Bad Romance (Lady Gaga Cover)

[beyoncespenis]

[papa-peach-deactivated20241019]

[tariqah]

Interspecies lesbianism

[onedeadkitty]

It’s cute guys

[rosalui]

nothing but respect for MY lesbian big cat couple

[butchflirt]

Butch/Butch couple

[lumpatronics]

This is actually hella interesting, bc in simple terms, tigers are extroverts and lions are introverts. There’s more to it, but that’s the gist.

Whenever zoo’s tried to put lions and tigers in the same enclosures, the tiger would eventually try to groom the lioness and play constantly. The lioness would lose patience and snaps at them

So basically what I’m saying is that you have a regal and refined gf who stands at the edge of a balcony during parties, sipping champagne

Then you have the other girl who drank all of the little flutes on the servers platter, and is now drunkenly pointing at her gf and telling everyone that that’s her gf and doesn’t she look beautiful I love her so much

[hillnerd-art]

So I had to draw them in human form???

[slinkanorabundyblr]

You drew them in the corresponding ethnicities for their Geographic locations!!! Bless you, you have no idea how sick and tired I am of white human lion king characters.