Supporting My Crossdressing Man
When I met and fell in love with my soulmate, there were two things I realized for certain:
1 - I was exactly where I was supposed to be, and with the person I was supposed to be with; and
2 - Everything that I went through in my past was meant to happen. If even one thing changed, I would have never been on the path that led me to the greatest love I have known, my boyfriend @krystall-crossdress.
I read a quote awhile ago that said, “sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us”. I do believe that we both needed to go through the tough times we did, so when we came together we recognized how special and rare our connection and unconditional love & acceptance of each other is. We mention it often to each other. We remind ourselves that we are so very lucky to have what we have. It wasn’t until @krystall-crossdress got the courage to admit his love of crossdressing to me, that I realized why our lives were meant to come together. I love this man in ways I could never put into words. I accept him completely whether he wants to dress part time just for me & us, if he decides to stop at some point, or if he decides some time that he wants to be more open & public with it or make it a permanent change (that wouldn’t actually be a change, but an evolution into his true self). I am attracted to, and turned on by him whether he’s dressed masculine, feminine, or not dressed at all 😉. I don’t even have to think about it. Unconditional love is that; unconditional. Without condition. I love his heart, his mind and his soul. The person he is at his core. That is always there and doesn’t change whether he is dressing masculine, feminine, part time or full time; just between us or open to the public. Witnessing him finally having the opportunity to freely express his true self and trust me to keep that safe and enjoy it along with him, by his side, is one of the most powerful experiences I have ever had. I, in turn, feel very protective over him and would go to the ends of the earth to protect him from anyone out there wishing any harm or ridicule toward him.
The photo I am sharing with you in this blog is another that @krystall-crossdress took himself many years ago. During this time in his life there was nothing positive for him to associate with his crossdressing. It was still a time where he had to sneak away to dress just to have a small amount of happiness at feeling more himself than he normally did. He did not have anyone that he could talk to or share his wants & needs with, confide in or have support from. This also ties in to the quote I mentioned above.
We both love how many people have liked and reposted our blogs. And we are very touched by the messages we have received as well. We have been able to connect with other couples on similar journeys and are so grateful to this community for being so welcoming, supportive & caring. We love hearing from anyone who wishes to reach out to us. Feel free to message myself or @krystall-crossdress if you would like to reach out for any reason. Please also like and repost our blogs. That helps get our story out to a wider number of people. The connections we all make on here are so important and they help spread support and understanding. In time this can grow and hopefully extend beyond this community, where people should have support & safety, and are encouraged to, dress in whichever way makes them feel good and makes them feel whole.
Love to everyone and we wish you continued strength & courage as you each navigate your journey. Please reach out to us or someone if you need to.
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