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Why are you running an update account for Harry Styles and a man Harry isn't even friends with?Please make a separate account for racist, homophobic Louis Tomlinson.
The Sun article that just came out is so disgusting. They completely disregard all the hard work harry and the amazing orchestra put into the meltdown festival (And his music in general) and gave Zoe all the credit. This is like Camille all over again. I dont think they were pr but the way the gf harries used to gas her up was crazy. I can't find the link rn but in the article they basically say that she was the whole reason he took his musc in a different direction like man they weren't even together when they finished the album like😭😭😭❓️
Are you serious? Yes please, if you find the link send and ill write my opinion 💖
I truly can't believe they did that ! Is that like from her team or his team?
The fact that they clearly didn't do their research because they would've known he specifically said he finished it before head to Glastonbury.... clearly to keep the narrative that the album was about her....
All they had to do was listening to his Zane Lowe interview and they would've had all their answers..... clearly
"I truly can't believe they did that ! Is that like from her team or his team?"
Shame you ignorant clowns don't have a clue how tabloid newspapers work. 80% of the articles they write about celebrities are purely speculative and have absolutely nothing to do with information from people who know the celebrity.
since fandom has latched onto another topic of perceived attack and exclusion, it feels like something's gotten wayyy off track here.
the way people talk about Louis has gone from disappointment to casual cruelty. and i think it’s time we ask: what exactly are people doing? and why does it feel okay for them.
psychologist albert bandura had a phrase for this: moral disengagement. its 8 ways how people convince themselves their harmful behavior is fine, even justified.
in fandoms, the abuse often begins when a fan perceives a celebrity's action (or inaction) as a personal affront. fandom, when it loses the plot, hits all the checkpoints:
moral justification – “he's betraying us” “he's erasing my identity” “he's hurting the fandom”
euphemistic labeling – abuse gets called “accountability” “critique” “venting"
advantageous comparison – “it’s not like we’re sending death threats” “other celebs get worse”
displacement of responsibility – “this is just how stan culture works”
diffusion of responsibility – “i’m just one person” “everyone’s doing it” “i only reshared it.” "all opinions are valid"
distortion of consequences – “he’ll be fine” “he's famous” "he's rich" "he's asking for it" "i'm just joking" and the fan favorite “it’s not that deep”
dehumanization – "he's not who i though he was" "a puppet" "a liar" "he's selfish"
attribution of blame – “he brought this on himself with that tweet, quote, that like, that professional association” “he should’ve known better”
these mechanisms allow fans to bypass empathy. your "disappointment" morphs into perceived moral righteousness, which then licenses punitive behavior: harassment, guilt-tripping, and more.
the worst part? it doesn’t feel like abuse when you’re inside it. it feels like justice. solidarity. community. catharsis. but look again: what you’re building isn’t connection. it’s a machine that turns disappointment into cruelty, and convinces you that you’re the good guys for doing it.
i’m not here to fight. im just asking: when you look in the mirror, when you check your likes, posts, dms... do you recognize who you are in all this?
don't wait until you hit all the checkpoints to acknowledge your behavior. even one is one too many.
maybe it’s time for that reality check.
this constant attacking isn’t “calling out.” it’s not “critique.” it’s emotional abuse.
let’s be clear: calling this emotional abuse isn’t an exaggeration. it’s a psychological reality. researchers have studied how group behavior, especially online can cross the line from critique into targeted, repeated harm. when someone is subjected to ongoing
- humiliation (demeaning his *EVERY* action and choice, calling him lazy, unprofessional, uncouth, chavvy, critcising his smoking and drinking and accent and swearing when everyone else in the world gets a pass)
- character assassination (casually throwing around accusations of abuse and manipulation and being toxic and homophobia??)
- public shaming (EVERYTHING is a callback to a thing he once said, so he deserves the ridicule and dragging. half the fandom had problems with him being friends with Liam, some still scorn at him reconnecting with Zayn because ofc Zayn is an abuser too. this does not even get into the shaming his sisters recieve by association. Or the accusations flung at his team.)
- dehumanization (making him a caricature of traits you decided to enforce. calling him liar everytime his biceps show a little definition FIVE years after he said he doesnt workout and a major accident that must have needed physio. because he is not a real person who is allowed to make a change, or evolve. he is stuck in a headcanon YOU fixated in your mind. yeah go on tell me, its not that deep, then go back up and read what that is.)
that’s not “drama.” that’s emotional abuse.
fandom crosses this line when the anger stops being about actions and starts being about the person’s right to exist unpunished. when you find a fault in every action. when you try to break someone under the guise of holding them accountable? that’s the shift.
if the way you show love turns into hate the moment someone disappoints you, maybe it was never love to begin with. and when those perceived disappointments are proven to be not real and you still can't let go of your resentment and instead shift it onto another action, maybe you're on a witchhunt. and it might be worth introspection. what has he ever done to deserve this much targeted hate?
[if you've made it this far, i'll add a personal closing note. if you'd like to engage in a discussion about this, sure go ahead. but maybe think once before you send me death threats like last time, when i said maybe people should set boundaries for themselves without abusing Louis. if not, well then i guess you must think I deserve those death threats for trying to defend Louis, just like he does for existing. that's also fine.]
This also applies to the women you Larries choose to abuse, but you don't want to talk about that. You are far crueller to Zara McDermott than you are to Louis.
ever noticed how Fearless starts with a cacophony of noise before it’s silent… before he tells you that you’re a sell out that he can see right through. that he remembers when you were fearless and young and bright, before you swapped lives and started inhaling your own lies, before you knelt at the alter of your own hubris, before cashing in your weekend treasures.
Tell me the truth, do you still remember feeling young and strong enough to get it wrong in front of all these people?
because behind the glamour of any ‘now’ there was ‘before’
because if you remember it, then you have to say, take a risk and say one true thing. fearless once, naïve once, happy once. do you remember it?
Yes, Fearless is Louis' bitchiest song. He mocks Zayn's fear of singing live: 'Remember when you were strong enough to get it wrong in front of all these people'? He then has a swipe at Dan Deakin and his 'second wife'. A nasty little song by a nasty little man.
Melissa is a fucking loser spreading lies once again that can easily been debunked! That’s what she’s saying in that newsletter:
„According to the deuxmoi newsletter they were walking Taylor’s dog at soho farmhouse so that might be in Sunday spotted. That’s where the new pic came from (newsletter)“
The pic of Harry and Brad with the dog is from Hampstead Heath. And the new/old pic from them today is from the 31st on Thursday in London! When would they have been at soho farmhouse?? The clothes are from the same day we got the other 10 pics of them lol
I stopped reading after seeing the D*moi thing.
It's 2023 everyone, have we not learnt anything about that gossiping clown bitch clan? Let them try to speak, that's the only thing in their lives
You know what, you crazy anon kids (oooh, so tempting to put a z on that)
I think, I truly think that however Mr Louis Tomlinson identifies his sexuality (if, in fact, he does identify it), he does so bloody confidently and with much assurance.
That man knows.
He does not need you defending him. He certainly does not need you attacking other fans on his behalf. So the virulent nastiness is all on you and that’s a choice.
Hi! I sent the anon about X Factor contracts and that Harry possibly planned on CO as bisexual with Medicine. Thanks for replying. I just wanted to clarify that I don't think Harry is bisexual. At the time there were syndicated articles about it and I thought it was going to be a 'stepping stone'. So he could be out as queer but still have PR relationships with women. But the articles were buried a short time after so I'm not sure what happened. They were syndicated which usually means it is his team's doing. I do think the reason why he hasn't CO as bisexual is because it's not true to himself. He would still have to fake attraction to women, still do PR relationships with women and still write songs about women. So he wouldn't be in much of a better place.
God I hope Harry doesn't have to get fake engaged, even if it's to release a gay album. That would be a train wreck. Where would it go from there? Getting married to a woman? Having kids with a woman? In that case I'd prefer that he waits until he can CO. Because that would ruin him. He already gets backlash for playing all sides and it's going to keep increasing. People are going to tire from him. Even fans are tiring from the back and forth. More celebrities will call him out. Imagine him being engaged to a woman and still expressing himself as a gay man. It would ruin him lol. I really don't understand why Sony are so afraid of him CO? They can use his sexuality to market him. They'll still make money off him. It'll set him apart from other artists. There's no one on his same level who is an out gay man. It'll work well for his legacy, with him going down in history. Which will make them more money. I think they're missing out on a chance to maximize his potential. That they're losing out by keeping him closeted. If they're worried about losing fans then they need to stop marketing him for his relationships and market him for his artistry. His fanbase would soon change. Fans he loses will be replaced by others. By those who are turned off by his public image.
Hi again!
I don't think he'd do a stepping stone approach by coming out as bi first. It wouldn't change much, he'd still not be truthful about his sexuality, still be linked to women and still have his womaniser image. I get that it would have made sense if Harry was single and wanted to date men, but he's not. Harry being linked to men, when he's with Louis would be hard on Louis. So what would coming out as bi accomplish? Getting to be a bit more gay on stage maybe, and openly writing songs about men, but all in all would it be worth it? I think not.
And i agree with your second part. I think the fandom and our society are ready for an out gay male artist at his level. I hope Sony is soon there too. More and more gay artist make it big, and don't lose fans when they come out. Look at Lil Nas X (he's on Columbia with H btw). Even gay country music is going viral. K-pop stars are coming out. Heartstopper and RWRB are successes and not just made for the gays anymore. People are loving it, even the gp. Being out makes you stand out from the crowd, and you have a whole community at the ready to support you, and the gp is following. I hope they have a bit faith in his fans and the gp. But i fear the labels are traditionalists, formulaic, and take a conservative approach. They might be slow to follow and fail to see this opportunity for what it is.
I think that one reason fans, particularly on tumblr, are so protective over Harry and Louis' closets is because they don't want to get their hopes up and be disappointed if they don't CO so they prefer to be negative. I've definitely been there but it makes me feel miserable. I prefer to be cautiously optimistic. I think another reason is fear that their relationship doesn't live up to fan's expectations. Fans have mapped out a perfect faultless relationship. That they're strictly monogamous, they're it for life, they've only slept with each other, they've only had eyes for each other, they're jealous and possessive, they're always pining, they've never broken up, if they have broken up it was to focus on their career etc. It's going to really hurt if that reality doesn't match up so I think some would prefer them to stay closeted. Which yeah, I don't blame people for feeling that way. It's part of being human. Disappointment hurts. I try to view them as individuals first and their relationship second. They've both made it really clear they're part of the gay community. Whether they're still together or not, who knows. But we can hope. I digress lol. There are so many positives to CO and it frustrates me when fans only talk about the negatives. The influential blogs will list excuse after excuse why they shouldn't CO. Or scold fans hoping for a CO, saying they don't owe us anything. But what if they do want to CO? Fans seem to leave that out of the equation completely. They always bring up the 'privacy' excuse. Talking about how fiercely private they are. They don't know that. They may be private now because they're in the closet. It might not be such a big problem if they were to CO.
I agree about fans guarding their own hearts as to not be disappointed. It's a defense mechanism and i get it. I just don't get killing the hope of others who're cautiously optimistic, or people who are hopeful but biding their time. Some people have become so jaded that they are not celebrating the small wins we get, and are scolding others for being disappointed when H and L, for example, have to stunt. It's a miserable way of being a fan, but it's a way of coping for some. Misery breeds misery, so bloggers leave. It does not make a good fandom environment.
Omg Ed told us this would be the story in End Game… knew her when we were younger reconnected when we were a bit older…
The more you read these lyrics the louder they get…
reputation precedes me, in rumors, i’m knee deep → the rumors are terrible and cruel but honey most of them are true
even when we’d argue we’d not do it for long → cause we break down a little, but when I get you alone it’s so simple
for all your beautiful traits and the way you do it with ease → i've never seen someone lit from within, your mother brought you up loyal and kind, your integrity makes me seem small
for all my flaws, paranoia and insecurities → renegade, anti-hero, afterglow, the archer, daylight, mirrorball, this is me trying, peace, coney island etc
harries are really bad at “reading between the lines” so I’m not surprised that person couldn’t understand he was implying he was jealous/getting scared about Billie being the hot new thing… it’s also really obvious that he knows this is not a forever thing and he’s trying to make as much money as possible before another cute brown haired white male singer pops up
it's so wild how they always need everything spelled out for them unless it's about his sexuality or his victimization at the hands of whoever else, then they turn into agatha christie and can perfectly understand every little bit of subtext or tiny parcel of information.
there's no other reason behind him bringing up that billie eilish story besides him saying he realized he's not the shiny new young thing anymore and that made him sadboy.txt before he decided he was actually fine doing his own thing (aka he doesn't think she can compete with him) and claiming in a very american way to be "thankful" to her about this discovery about himself.
i'm thinking about him apparently having soundtested jack harlow's song that took over him at #1 for coachella, before deciding against that idea. that was also him being jealous.
harry is lucky we're suffering from a dearth of talent in young white men, because in past eras his time would've come and gone.
I'd loooove if the gp picked up the story that f is brett and briana son because he is his mini me and since she is the "mother" well.... the only way out would be to expose everything or say Louis isn't the dad so the gp would let go.
Imagine the chaos if this went viral sssdbvf it would be better than soap operas and the gp love a good drama.
lthq would go crazy I'd love to see that. I want to see this circus on fire.
I’m sorry but going on vacation with him is so boring ! Like explore the city/island you are at like you can drink from wherever you are 💀 like all he’s doing is just exploring different bars/clubs and you can see his face is bloated , God I wish I have his money I would spend it better than him 😂💀
His face is bloated hahahahhaha yall, stop.
But I agree that a vacation like this is boring. If I had his money I wouldn’t be in mexico exploring bars that’s for sure.