Fire of your loins

Too many guys think I'm a concept, or I complete them, or I'm gonna make them alive. But I'm just a fucked-up girl who's lookin' for my own peace of mind; don't assign me yours.

[e-p-i-fan-i-a]

this time ill finally be skinny, my legs will look long and my fingers delicate, my face will look like shit but who cares, i will be thin.

[skinnyspamssss]

If your girl drinks monster zero that’s not your girl that ed patient #553

[end-my-existence-please]

My mother? Yelling for literally no reason?

It’s more likely than you think.

[redemptived]

y’all just???? have good relationships with your mothers???? sounds fake but okay

[clarityren]

If I confront my parents with how I have felt with them being abusive I get told to sleep somewhere else

If I confront my parents about being unhappy at home I am told I am the problem that then leads into this spiral of me thinking

Am I the problem here?

Is it me? Am I crazy!?

The answer is no none of the above, you are not the problem, it is not your fault, you are not to blame, it is not all in your head, you are not crazy

[lovecherryori]

if your kid is afraid of you, sorry, you’re doing awfully

[clarityren]

My mother she still screams and shouts at me when I do the same it’s unacceptable

[iamfinallybreakingfree]

Abusive parents

I am not able to imagine how sad and miserable your life is that you have to control every aspect of the lives of your children. You are disabling them from experiencing independence, soul and identity searching. Doing so, not only you bring further misery in your own life, but you also bring your unhealthy lifestyle in your children’s life. Acknowledge you children as independent, autonomous individuals and not as your reflection. They are not you.

[abusedkidgooglesearches]

My mother: I do this because I love you!

Me, internally:

[solderthevoid]

I’m so tired. I am so tired. I’m so tired of being her daughter

[unstablemotions]

my mom loves to talk about all the good parenting choices she’s made compared to other parents. she gaslighted me and my siblings through all the abuse. I really thought she was the best parent ever. it’s weird the things we realize when we grow up

[minus-the-negative]

What are you holding onto that isn’t for you?

minusthenegative.com

[beelzebpd]

My mother has trained me to need her, but never to rely on her.

[bitterdollie]

CONTROLLING YOUR CHILDREN THROUGH UTTER FEAR IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE

[unstablemotions]

tfw your mom tells about how her mom fucked her up and you’re like lol same

[unstablemotions]

so how can i hate her?

…. am I the monster?

[maternalscars]

As a child, when you reached out to connect emotionally (as all children naturally do), the lack of response sent you an unspoken message, loud and clear: Don’t reach out. So now deep down, when you need help or connection, you are stopped from making connections by a block inside of you. Somehow, it just feels needy or wrong to ask for help or even want to connect.