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I love this picture, my friend drew it for my birthday!! 🎀° ᡣ𐭩 . ° .

So I've got this friend whose nervous because she's trans and dating this guy who she hasn't told yet because they've only been on a two dates. For this story let's call the friend Jane and the guy she was dating Jason. Happy ending don't worry.

So I tell Jane to bring her boy over to a bbq I'm having and she can tell him she's trans at my place surrounded by queer and trans people who love her and will support her if he ends up being awful.

She waits till the end of the bbq to tell him the news, by which point the rest of us have learned that Jason is a kind, friendly, empathetic, hard working, dummy. So we sit down, all of us a little worried about this gym bro's reaction when she tells him she's trans, and that she understands if he doesn't want to keep dating her it's no big deal.

He's baffled, so we explain what trans is, and after the disclosure that she hasn't had bottom surgery yet...

"Oh you have a dick?"

"... yeah."

He look's around at the room full of people with baited breath, his clearly a little afraid girl friend says

"Oooohhhh! I get it! You think- don't worry Babe! Watch this!"

And ya'll this man jumps up, runs into the kitchen and returns with one of the bratwurst we had for grilling and proceeds to tilt his head back, put it down his throat, hold it in his mouth for a moment, and spit it up without even a whisper of a gag and then looks around at the group absolutely beaming with pride.

My mans saw his worried girlfriend and her support network and thought to him self "Oh they don't think I can't please my girl, but I'll show them!"

nealashitposts

I do feel the need to add that later he excitedly tell the group that as a straight guy, he never thought that skill would be useful outside hotdog eating contests.

hyperrbolic-orange

"Man its too bad that im straight since I've got like no gag reflex and all."

"Honey, I must tell you, i am in fact trans and I have not had bottom surgery."

"My god... everything's coming up Jason."

#nagi rokuya #chiaki morisawa

iloveyouvirus

yaoi really is all we have left

iyavi

rei and dante are the prettiest clan members...

#Dante should have been a bottom #i stand by this

xaviersfluffybunny

Jus as an fyi for people that are not used to tumblr tag system, if you make a post about only one of the guys but instead tag all of the guys in the post then people who have the tag of that LI blocked to not see it are not going to see your post, which means that you’re most likely not getting as much interaction with the post as you’d like, because people are not going to see that post if the tag is filtered

#me bc i blocked rinharu #i know im not seeing half of Free! content but im okay w that #my peace shall be protected

halfetirosie

🚨 PSA: 🚨

SOMEONE DREW THAT MOMENT FROM FEAST OF ROSES---

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bladerin time

superchat

i bring a sort of "it doesnt matter if youre into porn or not, getting elitist and mad at people for being horny aligns you with the agenda of the alt right" vibe to the conversation that some ppl dont like

fisheito

untold treasures under that skirt

#nu carnival

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kgdragoon

People had a name for asexuality in 1995?! And really, if an advice columnist 25 years ago knew about asexuality and was respectful of it, there’s no excuse for people today to be so aphobic. As an aside, if anyone’s looking for the reference for the above article to make sure it’s legit, it’s from the 1995, February 28th edition of The Robesonian newspaper:

link: https://news.google.com/newspapers?id=7q8_AAAAIBAJ&sjid=31YMAAAAIBAJ&pg=6814,6344642&hl=en

saint-dionysus

People had a term for Asexual long before the 90′s. the term asexual was in wide use by the 1960s and it had terms to refer to it prior to that.

In the 1860s the same man who coined the terms “Homosexual” and “heterosexual” also coined the term “monosexual” (all in the same book) to refer to people who only masturbated and didn't have a desire to have sex with another person.

In the 1890s the term anesthesia sexual was used to describe people who didn’t experience sexual attraction, this is the term that would eventually morph into the term Asexual.

The Kinsey scale, in the 1940s included a category called “X” which refereed to people without sexual desire.

In 1972 the Asexual Manifesto was written.

In 1974 David Bowie discussed Asexuality in The Rowling Stone Magazine

In 1977 Myra Johnson wrote one of the first academic papers about asexuality as part of the book The Sexually Oppressed. She described "asexuality" as a complete lack of sexual desire, while those who do experience sexual desire but have no wish to satisfy it with others were labeled as "autoerotic".

In 1983 the first study that gave empirical data about asexuals was published by Paula Nurius, concerning the relationship between sexual orientation and mental health. The study used a variant of Kinsey's model, and scored participants according to sexual behavior and desire for it.

In 1994 Anthony Bogaert, conducted a study published in The Journal of Sex Research that concluded that 1 in 100 persons identified as asexual.

We have had terms for ourselves for a very long time, just as long as gay and straight people have and just like them we existed before those terms were made.