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THE STARS ARE NOT IN LINE FOR THIS TRIBUTE

[thewhiphandbaby]

Zhang Linghe is so gorgeous. ❤️ it’s a shame we will never get to see him as Hua Cheng in Eternal Faith ( unless a miracle happens)

[saaraofthesand]

waiting for this stupid drama

[bigdsgirl]

every episode of chasing jade just has me in mourning that we will never see Zhang Linghe's portrayal of Hua Cheng/San Lang 😭

[guzhufuren]

stop trying to be influencers we need good hackers who will leak Immortality and Eternal Faith tapes now more than ever

[vangoghcore]

by rajasuokasper

[anxietyproblem]

[genderkoolaid]

as someone with ARFID i really couldn't care less about the distinction between "picky eaters" and "genuine eating issues." if you are an asshole to someone you see as "just picky" i will never, ever trust you. i've lived through the trauma of being shamed and humiliated for my eating needs.

frankly i think a LOT of "picky eaters" have some kind of sensory problems– autistic or allistic– and shame is never useful. i don't fucking care how annoying you think we are. if you've never lived through the humiliation of being the only one not eating at a dinner table, or having to choke down something disgusting you already know you hate because other people insist you don't know your own body, or getting a hunger migraine in a house full of food because none of its edible to you? you don't understand how awful it is to have food issues.

whenever i see people draw this distinction between being "just a picky eater" and "having a real problem" all i think is, who does this serve? most people don't even know ARFID exists. there are so many undiagnosed autistics, or just people with a variety of issues that aren't officially diagnosed. why do we need a medical label in order to be treated with respect and compassion? why did i need to be diagnosed as autistic for my family to realize the abuse they put me through for years because of my eating habits?

it's such an easy habit for neglected groups to fall into– the idea that a medical diagnosis can save us. that by appealing to the medical/psychiatric industry, we can be protected from abuse and given basic respect and resources. but the truth is that it should never have come to this in the first place. dignity doesn't come from an abled doctor telling you that there's a medical reason for your symptoms. it comes from being a person. once you accept that you need a Good Reason to have your needs respected, you doom yourself to neglecting and abusing those who have your same struggles because they aren't lucky enough to access medical recognition.

tl;dr solidarity with all "picky eaters" stop guilting people for having varying food needs, if we make you irrationally angry that's YOUR problem not ours, and abolish "children's menus" & replace them with simple-food menus for people of all ages

[ireallywishiknew]

"She's just fussy", an Arfid story

[secondlina]

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[tbgkaru-woh]

Ye Baiyi shitposts 4/?

1, 2, 3, 4, 5,

[sandersstudies]

When you read a book regarding historical figures or events and suddenly you have massive beef with some guy who passed away like three hundred years ago

[sandersstudies]

My favorite things people have said in the notes about their dead ops:

"He knows what he did."

"I'd kill him with my bare hands."

"His grave needs to be desecrated."

"I would shoot him in the head myself."

"If he has no haters it's because God has turned me into a shrimp"

"If everyone who had beef with him only gave him a slap he'd still be dead."

"[dead guy] I'm in your walls"

"[dead guy] meet me in the pit"

"[dead guy] I'm killing your ghost"

"[dead guy] when I fucking catch you一"

"[dead guy] from hell's heart I stab at thee"

"[dead guy] if I ever see you in the street it's over"

"I'm planning to go to hell when I die so I can find him and beat his ass with a louisville slugger"

"I'm going to figure out time travel just so I can go back in time to beat the shit out of him"

"If I gained the power of resurrection I would use it solely to bring him back so I could kill him with my bare hands"

"IM GONNA DIG HIM UP AND BEAT HIS ASS FOR TALKING ABOUT MARINE IGUANAS LIKE THAT"

[hometoursandotherstuff]

[teaboot]

I wanna respect everyone’s preferences and I DO but there is a difference between Respecting and Understanding and that is where I am at with people who actively dislike Drinking Water. I know you exist. My brother is one of you. The Fuck do you mean “it tastes bad” it has the least amount of taste a thing can have. Fucking Air Scented LaCroix. “It tastes bad” fucking WINDEX tastes bad COW SHIT tastes bad. what the hell are you talking about

[look-something-shiny-redux]

[stantler]

[monstermonger]

~3 months traveling in my wife’s home-country -> 100 journal pages

[monstermonger]

Some of the pages for those who wanted to see :)

[secondlina]

Biting will continue until morale improves.