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One Nice Bug Per Day
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DEAR READER
I'd rather be in outer space đ¸
we're not kids anymore.
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@jayaraay
There are n*zis on campus rn and a student brought out like a 1997 boombox and started blasting Taking The Hobbits to Isengard every time they tried to say something.
âThose who do not share our genes -THE HOBBITS THE HOBBITS THE HOBBITS THE HOBBITS - THE MASTER RACE - TO ISENGARD TO ISENGARD - AND I BELIEVE - THE HOBBITS THE HOBBITS THE-â
Chaotic good
everytime you deny a female character being headcanoned as a lesbian because âsheâs been with a guy beforeâ you owe every lesbian who has struggled with compulsory heterosexuality 15 âŹ
the irony of âno terfs allowedâ âlesbianâ blogs reblogging pictures of gay liberation activists from the 70s/80s, many of whom were/would be radical feministsâŚ
make you stay // the girl & the dreamcatcher
â madchen amick, 1993
âfemale-born people see gender as a fun playground and male-born people see gender as a minefieldâ IMAGINE BEING SO DETACHED FROM REALITY YIKES
Moonlight (2016)
omg thereâs a dog in my yard this is the best day ever hello fuzzy baby friend
NOT A DOG
NOT A DOG
BEAR
ABORT ABORT ABORT
porn relies on womenâs subjugation, degradation and pain, on the brutalization and violation of our bodies and it honestly blows my mind that there are people who defend it and call themselves feminists.
Nature vs. Nurture
Whatâs more likely?
1. Peopleâs personalities naturally align with their gender. Little girls always love pink and boys only like trucks. Boys are great at sports and girls are desperate to play with dolls. Men naturally never cry and women are emotional 800% of the time. Womenâs bodies crave dresses and boys are incapable of growing long hair.
Or
2. Gender is learned. Thatâs why all little kids age 4 and under are reminded constantly that this is for girls so you donât want it, you want this fun boy stuff, or sweety, thatâs for boys so you canât have that one, letâs pick one of the girl ones. It has to be explicitly explained how to sit, eat, play, walk, and generally behave like a girl and to achieve the full effect it takes constant reminding and scolding until she does as expected regularly on her own. Little boys have to be scolded and pressured into withholding their feelings, theyâre constantly told to suck it up and be stronger. Boys are taught to stand up for themselves and fight back. Theyâre expected to rough house and wrestle. Little girls are scolded and told to âbe niceâ if they display aggression, fight, or even get rowdy.
Do you need to remind kids to be curious? Do you need explain to kids that they should like singing songs? Do you need to keep re-explaining to kids that toys are fun? Donât most kids naturally ask tons of questions?
Those are things that are innate. Literally everything about gender has to be taught.
GENDER IS PURE SOCIALIZATION.
Thatâs why so many of us donât feel like everything expected of our gender roles comes naturally. Because it doesnât.
You are not wrong to be who you are. You werenât born in the wrong body. Your brain is fine. The problem is the concept of gender essentialism.
Fight for gender freedom.
Saying "you weren't born in the wrong body" kind of ignores people with dysphoria but other than that I like the post
@labellemystique Hi! Iâm a self-respecting person with a vulva. Thanks for commenting on my joke post. Denigrating gay people for our same-sex desires is definitely something that isnât new.
Fact is, I would never want to date or have sex with someone who WASNâT enthusiastic about my body. I have no idea what your sexual experience is, but I have noticed that sex with someone who isnât turned on and interested in you physically is a psychologically wounding experience. Simply because I enjoy a type of sex would never mean that I am incapable of loving my partnerâsimply that a partner that I wholeheartedly enjoy pleasuring is a good fit for me.
The idea that you canât love someone deeply and appreciate them physically is deeply indicative of someone who feels great shame around sexuality. I donât think that loving partners greatly enjoying passionate mutual sex is ever something to be ashamed of, and Iâm sorry that you do.
Appreciating a womanâs vulva isnât dirty, gross, or wrong. And it certainly isnât the only thing a lesbian sees in a partner. A necessary condition is not the only condition. I also require a partner who is compassionate, funny, likes to cuddle, supports my endeavors, enjoys long conversations, and tells me that I make good goulash. I love a womanâs smile. I love watching a woman work with her hands. I love womenâs eyes. There is no reason that any of that shouldnât come with a sex life that both of us find satisfying.
I certainly hope that you find a happy relationship that satisfies all of your needs and makes you deeply happy, as I have always hoped for anyone searching for love.
And to all of my sisters out thereâwanting sexual compatibility with someone is not reducing your partner in any way. In fact, seeking a partner that you truly love intimacy with is seeking a partner with whom you are best able to physically express your longing and appreciation for them/
I certainly find giving a woman I love an orgasm to be an act of love. Sex with a partner who made me uncomfortable, who turned me off, who had anatomy that I found traumatic or triggering⌠that sounds pretty awful for both me AND the other person involved. Donât you think?
itâs okay to menstruate, itâs not gross or shameful or inappropriate
dare i sayâŚâŚ menstruating is valid
⤠menstruationđis đˇvalid đ§
- respect ALL clots - prostaglandins are just tryin to do their best - cat hair tampons are đđ - itâs cool for menstruators to have a small flock of grizzly bears following them during their moon timeđ
So important
I literally only remember to do breast checks when these are on my dash so passing on so you guys remember too
men can stop writing now. weâve heard everything you have to say and weâve decided collectively that thatâs enough. thanks for the input
