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What NOT to say to autistic people
You can’t be autistic, there’s nothing wrong with you.
It’s hard for everyone.
Get over it, it’s not that bad!
It’s not that loud/bright!
You just want attention.
It’s not autism, just an excuse.
Just try, it’s so easy!
Why can’t you just relax?
You just need to grow up.
Why can’t you act like your age?
But your don’t look autistic.
You’re fine, you don’t need labels.
Everyone is a little bit autistic.
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Please memorize some "i desperately need out of this conversation because I cannot behave like a human any more" scripts. Please. I can even supply some. Let me get on my computer but, my god, there are formulaic ways to say 'i have no ppl juice rn and you speaking to me any more will cause me to conjure vivid, beautiful images of me THROTTLING YOU" without being a giant douchebag and it worries me that you don't know this
‘If you keep speaking to me I will lash out for reasons that are not your fault. I need a few minutes to clear my head but am not done with the conversation’ script: “hey, I am really sorry to leave all of a sudden, but I’m going to [step outside/go make myself something to drink/head to the bathroom] for a few minutes. When we come back, I’m happy to keep talking though. This is a really [interesting/important/complicated/etc] conversation, and I don’t want to just drop it.”
'Mid conversation I ran out of people energy, and I won’t be able to keep speaking constructively. I need to leave now or I will explode' script: “Hey, I’m sorry, but it’s getting late, and I should really be going. It’s been really lovely speaking to you; we have to get together again sometime soon. But I really need to head out. I’ll talk to you later?”
‘Your opinions are bad and you should feel bad about them, but I have some reason to not tell you that. instead i want out as fast as possible from this conversation and/or to reroute it IMMEDIATELY’: “I can see why you’d think that, yeah. I get what you’re saying, but, you know, I don’t really know this topic well enough to talk about it, you know? What about [tangential, barely related thing that is safe to talk about that they also care about]?” Wait a few minutes, nod and mmhmm at some stuff, and then check your phone and go “Oh, no, it’s getting pretty late. I have to run, but I’ll talk to you later, alright?” (This one is very useful when your unfortunately unavoidable but incredibly prejudiced grandparents come around and your parents will be mad if you start screaming arguments with them over the Thanksgiving table, especially if you can reroute them into a topic of conversation that other people care about rather than running away wholesale.)
‘you are so fucking annoying. never speak to me again’ or other variants of ‘fuck off’ that you dont want to just say that way to someone you know because that is fucking mean. basically a friendship breakup script: “Listen, I think you’re a great person, and I don’t want you to take this the wrong way because it’s really not personal, but I think you and I are very different people, with very different interests. That’s not a bad thing, but I don’t think that you would enjoy spending much time with me, and vice versa. I wish you the best, but I’d rather we just stay acquaintances, alright?” (Don’t do this unless you absolutely mean it, but it’s good to know what to say when you mean it.)
i can do more but i can’t think of any off the top of my head, but even in miserable interactions with people you still have to know how to treat people with courtesy and be a little polite. there are many reasons you could want to know how to tell someone to fuck off impolitely, but those are easier; if you want to try and be cognizant of other people’s feelings while still making your point it’s, you know. hard. hopefully these are helpful
This is incredibly useful, op, thank you!
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the real question is, am i actually aromantic or am i just autistic? 🤔
I FOUND IT GUYS I SPENT HALF AN HOUR LOOKING FOR THIS VIDEO AND ITS HERE
Always reblog peent.
*before clicking play*: IS THIS WHAT i THINK IT IS???
*clicks play*: IT ISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
omg!! omg
Forever reblog.
Heaven let your eent shine down.
i’ve been noticing tumblr getting dubbed the Autistic Website™️ which i love but i’m curious how sizable the Autistic Population here actually is so…
are y’all autistic?
yes
no
maybe? i’m not sure
no but i am neurodivergent
i’d rather not say
The problem with hogwarts legacy is not just "a difference of opinion" due to the author, it's because jk rowling is actively giving her harry potter money to anti trans hate groups, to anti lgbtq+ groups, to anti abortion groups and to groups that are pushing for conversion "therapy"
You cannot buy licensed harry potter products without giving jk rowling money. Any money that jk rowling receives will most likely be used to fund some form of bigotry and this will hurt a lot of people.
Buying hogwarts legacy means accepting this fact and deciding that it's OK. And people are allowed to be upset by this.
i drew the tbh creature and the btw creature during my lecture ^^
i just love them so much
Would love to know your thoughts. Why do you think autistic people are more likely to be gender diverse in comparison to neurotypical people?
My guess would be that when everything feels like a performance or social construct (masking all the time) the jump to realising that gender is a social construct as well is not that far
The worst part of my touch hypersensitivity (personally) is how quickly contact can go from good to terrible. Intimacy of any kind, even just hand holding, can instantly become unbearable.
There's a switch in my brain that once triggered sends my whole body into fight or flight mode. And that triggers a meltdown. And my husband has to deal with the fact that just hugging his wife can sometimes cause her to start to cry and beg for him to leave her alone.
For me, it's my most hated aspect of my autism.
you don't have to be "burnt out" to justify tasks being difficult for you. Being autistic or having ADHD makes TASKS DIFFICULT INHERENTLY. WE ARE DISABLED.