[jinbeioyabun]

Hey, I'm El! 30s, he/him/his.

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My Writing A Moment's Peace - rated T, Jinbei/Reader, 3k words. All you want is a quiet moment away from the louder members of the Straw Hat crew. When the opportunity presents itself to spend that quiet moment with your not-so-secret crush, you jump to seize it.

Act of Service - rated E, Bartolomeo/Reader, 1.3k words. You, a member of the Straw Hat Crew, have been separated from your ship. Luckily, the Barto Club has made it their mission to get you back to the Thousand Sunny, and they've been treating you like royalty the entire trip. Their captain asks if there's anything he can do for you, and an idea hits.

[andshewore]

Vintage Dior, but these would be at home with Steampunk fashion.

[lindleland]

there is so much to unpack in this clip

[lindleland]

[vishnovy]

yeah, sure

[skopostheorie]

It is true that people in fandom equate top bottom with dom sub and probably mean the latter when they "headcanon" the former but I also think people need to be more open to the idea that D/s doesn't necessarily get indicated from personality either. Like for example a shy person who gets pushed around easily very well might enjoy having a dominant role with a partner they trust. That can even be affirming. Like BECAUSE of this issue you have in your real life to feel like someone will submit to YOU and defer to YOU is special for example. I think the idea that you just play the role that suits your personality in real life is part of why these same people seem to genuinely think being a Dom is like, kind of bad and scary

[cannibalchicken]

[thevaultoftheatomicspaceage]

[pinfire]

Opalized wood Author: Peter C. Huber, Wien / Austria

[jinbeioyabun]

If you get this, answer w/ three random facts about yourself and send it to the last 7 blogs in your notifs. Anon or not, doesn't matter, let's get to know the person behind the blog!

Oh gosh, I'm so bad at random facts about me. I'm afraid I'm not super interesting, especially since I used my "good" facts already.

I was a pixel artist, but had to stop due to wrist pain. I did pixel art starting from the age of 8 or 9 all they way up until... gosh when did I stop? I'm 33 now, so I think when I was 31? Maybe 30? Time is nebulous.

I have also been roleplaying for that same amount of time and have not stopped for any significant amount of time.

I talk about this semi-frequently, but I'm allergic to nightshades. This means I'm allergic to tomatoes, potatoes, peppers, eggplants, goji berries, and tobacco. I'm also allergic to juniper (and therefore gin), chicory (and therefore some cheap coffees), and shellfish. And I'm lactose intolerant (but that last one has never stopped me in my quest for dairy).

Uhhh, related to the roleplaying thing, I am a prolific creator of OCs. I have had hundreds over the years, though I do go through and cull less fleshed out characters from time to time, and have also lost many to the passage of time and movement across platforms and computers. Currently, I believe I have around 50-60 "active" characters, though I'm not on my laptop, so I can't verify the exact number.

[seracadash]

[akindplace]

do you guys remember when we googled something and we would get results that were actually related to the things we searched

[delphinidin4]

[innerchildabortionclinic]

❔

[innerchildabortionclinic]

tornado spawn point

[nevergiveupparis]

[fullafag]

[pangur-and-grim]

HE ISN’T REAL!

[pangur-and-grim]

[scribefindegil]

I was in a long-term relationship that fell apart partially because I was ace and my partner was very much not, and every time we looked for relationship help we got told that I was the problem. Not just that a significant mismatch in sexual desire could be a problem in a relationship, but that it was My Fault, Specifically, for not being willing to suck it up and have a bunch of sex I didn't want. To my ex's credit, he cared about consent much more than any of the professionals we talked to and refused to pressure me even when my (lesbian, billed as progressive and pro-LGBT) therapist was actively telling him to.

But it meant that we had absolutely no help or support when we were trying to work on the relationship in ways that *did* value my autonomy. There's basically no advice for people who want to try to make a relationship where there's a big desire gap work that isn't "well you should just have sex anyway" or "just break up lol". And that sucks!

Sometimes breaking up is necessary, and that's what ended up happening with us because there were other reasons we worked better as friends, but there *should* be better frameworks for discussing what people want and need that don't automatically assume that one partner's feelings are automatically more important or valuable than the other's.

[geese-in-flight]

I was dating someone who wanted to be accommodating and work with me to figure things out but lacked the EQ to do so in any effective way. It was my first relationship and I was still figuring out what being ace meant for me. It’s been eight or nine years, but I still remember very clearly the moment I realized we’d been approaching the entire discussion as if my orientation was the problem to be solved, and that it would be equally as valid to say that hers was.

She was significantly less impressed with this revelation than I was, but I tried to hold on to it ever since (although obviously the real problem wasn’t either one of us, but the mismatch and the lack of tools to deal with it). I think it’s super important to remember that we aren’t the ones in the wrong while our theoretical partners are the ones in the right. I was surprised by how much I’d internalized the assumption and I don’t think I’m the only one.

[ineffectualdemon]

The other frustrating aspect of this is allo relationships will often have periods of time where libido does not match (I'm not derailing and this will swing back to asexual people)

Just after giving birth, during a family crisis, during a mental health episode, during health problems, during stressful periods at work

There are a lot of times when one person is horned up and raring to go and the other has no interest

And the solution often presented is that the person who is going through something should just put out because they are the problem instead of like...finding ways to engage in non sexual intimacy to reaffirm closeness

An asexual person is going to get 10x the amount of pressure and blame put on them and no advice on how non-sexual intimacy can help their relationships and if they get that at all it will only be to sell it as a bridge to sex they don't want.

I really hate the selling of intimacy as only equaling or facilitating sex. Intimacy comes in many forms and should be explored more by every couple as a non sexual act. And it the given importance it deserves. In fact I would argue if we as a society put more value on non sexual intimacy more relationships would be happier and healthier

And asexual people would stop getting shit for being themselves.

[the-haiku-bot]

And asexual

people would stop getting shit

for being themselves.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[spindle-and-nima]

i got to meet a tenrec today and holy fucking hell

Oh my god??????

[hometoursandotherstuff]

[beese-churger]

Imagine if sometimes some fucking Ț̷̡͂̀̎͠h̸̜̅͐̄ì̸̩̮̃̃̆n̸̗̰̟͉͐̑͋͆͜g̸̮̻͔̼̬͌ could just crash through the shimmering veil of reality with a trail of fragments from the suffocating void enveloping it, grab whoever's unlucky enough to be closest, and swoop back out like it was nothing. And this was just one of your everyday hazards to worry about. Incredible cosmic horror concept