Talking about Anakin´s inability to value himself as a person instead of being an asset for his master and loved ones, be it as a slave, pilot, jedi, soldier, sith,chosen one, the only roles he choose for himself were Son, Husband and Father. If they ask the very first thing he is ready to sacrifice for those he loves is himself :( because he forgot he matters as a person too and not just because of what he can do for others.
This is why Luke´s approach with Vader was so genious:
" I love you, I want to have a relationship with you, you don´t need to do or be anybody else but yourself, Anakin Skywalker, my father, I just want you to get better and be happy "
Like Palpy and the darkside did their best but the moment he tried to hurt his boy seriously Vader was like nope, that´s my boy and I am his Dad, get out of here, you can hurt me instead.
