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"kids are getting indoctrinated into transgenderism" did you know that left handedness increased from 3% to 12% when they stopped beating left handed children.

tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva

tbh i don't think she/her fits you. you read more as a xe/xyr to me

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tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva

this is what conservatives think public school teachers tell students

J. Jonah Jameson could’ve struck gold if he ran a British newspaper and lacked any moral or journalistic integrity.

#Kind of funny that more recent iterations (MCU and Insomniac Games) depict him as an Alex Jones type #He’s always drawn the line at targeting marginalized groups and platforming bigoted ideals #There are comics where he’s standing up to racists and xenophobes for being anti-black or anti-immigrant #The 1977 made-for-TV movie starring Nicholas Hammond also paints Jonah as conservative #After Peter and his coworker get a call from the Atlantic Socialist Alliance asking for a donation #They laugh and said coworker says Jameson is ‘so conservative he wouldn’t even eat a piece of stake if it was a little bit pink’#(referring to the perjorative ‘pinko commies’ of the time)#But what I did like about that scene is that it paints Peter Parker as sympathetic towards socialism (and Jonah could always learn and grow)#Of course I’d hardly say canon Jameson is socialist-adjacent but his social politics have at least always had a progressive leaning #And he was apparently ahead of a lot of so-called liberal media outlets of today (especially over on TERF Island)

anxietyproblem

zero-two-ten

this site has one setting

jenroses

I’m laughing, but there’s a super useful corollary, which my husband calls “the Red Balloon.” He was a defense lawyer and had a fair number of drug addicts come through, and there is a thing where if you’re like, on your first offense, they’ll do a thing where you can go to treatment and if you complete it they’ll take the conviction off your record. And he would tell his clients, “Look, everyone’s going to tell you not to do drugs. They’re going to say it over and over again. And it’s like, if people tell you not to think of a white elephant, you’re going to think of a white elephant. But the trick to not thinking about a white elephant is to think of a red balloon. So you need to find your red balloon. For some people it’s yoga. For others it’s woodworking. For some people it’s scrapbooking or gardening or any of a long list of things to do. They focus on that, it’s a lot easier to succeed in ignoring the white elephant.” So yeah, “watch yourself” is one thing… but the better idea is to watch something else. (Even if it’s fanfic about werewolves fucking.)

It’s a form of productive dissociation, and is super, super helpful. It’s easy for me to get bogged down in how much pain I’m in… but some of the most painful periods of my life have also been the most productive, writing-wise, because writing is one of my red balloons.

kittydorkling

There is a phrase I use A LOT in my parenting and my son gets very sick of it, but it’s true:

The thing you practise is the thing you get good at.

You may not intentionally be practicing “being grumpy” but if you don’t put effort into practicing “not being grumpy” then I’m afraid that’s what you’re doing. It’s hard! It’s really hard! Sometimes, for some things, it’s pretty much impossible and that sucks!

But being carefully aware that you are going to get good at the things you do most of is a good way to be more careful of what those things are. If that makes sense.

bogleech

You gotta appreciate sometimes how tumblr works in such a way that everyone who wants to reblog this interesting or useful psychological advice is also forced to reblog the thing about werewolf fucking

ayeforscotland

thegaymertrainer

This guy is really going to regret sitting down with Jon

guerrillatech

kiaranscuro

They didn’t let him cook, but they did cook him.

centrally-unplanned

Adding “Tiktok Mary Poppins cosplayer respond to allegations that he was wearing a Third Reich medal in his latest fit by coming out as the reincarnation of Adolf Hitler complete with past life memories before his entire social media prescence was nuked with the sole exception of their egg-laying kink spotify playlists” to the internet sentences treasure vault. Amid all the societal decay we still got it boys.

6qubed

foxflightstudios

Hey guys, just a warning because I feel like this bot is targeting LGBT tagged items. If you get a message like this one, you won’t be able to view the post if you click because it will send you to an endless log in screen or tell you you need to follow the person to see their stuff. It’s a dummy account.

The message is designed to be upsetting so you will want to click it and see the contents.

I was upset enough to click but luckily I was in the app so i knew it didn’t make sense to ask me to log in again. I then looked CLOSELY at the log in page and realized the url is fake. This is a phishing attempt and I don’t want any other lgbt people to be taken in by it. Be careful out there.

(People are saying that if you do indeed click and give your password, your account may be used to spread the virus, so be cautious of that as well)

ispyspookymansion

tumblr should implement a feature that allows you to deactivate someone elses account, but only if its murder suicide and your blog gets deactivated too. this wouldnt improve the site but would create a never before scene kind of internet pvp enabled ecosystem