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hes not a morning person

[ID: A one-page comic of Stede and Ed. The first ‘panel’ is a top view of them asleep in the bed, Stede wearing a plain shirt and pants, with his arm and leg thrown over Ed and his other arm folded under his head. He’s facing Ed. Ed is facing Stede, one arm trapped under him and the other folded between them, and he is wearing the red robe. The next panel is a close-up on Stede’s face as he wakes up and looks at Ed; the third panel is Ed asleep, with Stede’s arm reaching in from out of frame to lay on his shoulder. The words “SNOOOOOORE MIMImimimi” are written over the panel, to imply that is the sound Ed is making. There is then a sequence of four panels, in which Stede pushes himself up and says, “Ed? Ed, wake up!” Ed lifts up a little bit, his eyes not even open yet, and says, “A” followed by a silence. Then he lifts himself up even more and does a kissy face, making a questioning noise as if asking for a kiss. The last panel is Stede with his eyes closed, smiling and blushing, holding a hand to his own face as he thinks, “Oh my god” in a heart shaped thought bubble. There are little hearts all around him. End ID.]

#ofmd fanart #our flag means death #gentlebeard

pposyaa

meow meows

#ofmd fanart #our flag means death #gentlebeard

noknowshame

people in fiction are always making plans like "how about tuesday?" and then leaving without elaborating. what time? where? do you even have each other's numbers? deeply stressful

zoology

Every single day people on tumblr say "what if the shit moral OCD tells you was true and living by it was the only way to be a real progressive"

zoology

Coming home from acceptance therapy to see some shit that says "not reblogging is a moral failure" "even if you forgive yourself you should still keep thinking about it" I dont like getting kicked in the head anymore guys

zoology

a lot of people are resonating with this so i want to share one of my biggest coping techniques that helps me a lot with moral, false memory, relationship, and harm OCD. disclaimer that i am not a psychiatrist, i am not fully recovered, and i still struggle every day so your mileage may vary as to if this is helpful.

when i struggle with obsessions about not being a good enough person, i have two steps i follow. first, i try to envision the kind of person i want to be. maybe i want to be more earnest. maybe i want to be more helpful. maybe i want to be kinder. maybe i want to be more assertive. i try to imagine a self that is calm, gentle, and confident. then i think of the simplest and most constructive steps to get there. i cannot put myself down. i cannot beat myself up. the steps have to be polite and reasonable advice i could give to someone without OCD.

tomorrow i won't ask my family if they love me, i will simply enjoy their company. i won't make that mean joke anymore. the next time i see my friends i'll ask for their opinion on something small and i will share my honest opinion as well. i will pick up a book and read for 20 minutes instead of avoiding what is a fun activity because i feel "dumb."

i repeat one of my favorite simpsons quotes a lot: "you can't keep blaming yourself, blame yourself once and move on." you have to move forward and just take the steps to be the person you want to be and do the things you want to do using advice that you would give to any person other than yourself. part of being obsessive-compulsive is being rigidly self-critical and scrutinizing yourself far more than you would any other person. it's hard to beat these feelings, but the reality is that self punishment doesn't make anything better. things only get better when you move forward. you have to treat yourself like a human being.

it can be really hard to follow through with this advice sometimes. other times it's shockingly easy to start doing the things i want to do. there'll always be ups and downs and lefts and rights when living with OCD, and medication, therapy, and stress management are really helpful. still, even if it's hard, i have to move forward. i have to construct a healthy self instead of destroying an unhealthy self.

#ocd #mental health

ofmdlovelyletters

This is a lovely letter for all of the queer people in the OFMD fandom!

Life is hard sometimes, but we’re HERE, and we always will be - and that’s worth celebrating and fighting for! ❤️❤️❤️

HAPPY PRIDE, BESTIES 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏴‍☠️

To all the queer people in the OFMD fandom, this lovely letter is for you. 💌

#ofmd lovely letters

ashpomme

🎶i should have known it was strange

you only come out at night🎵

vampirate king Ed for your dash today 🫣 (original sketches under the cut

#omg help he's so cuteeee ahh #babygirl 💜#edward teach #ofmd fanart #our flag means death

horrorfemme1138

Day 14: Monster

#ofmd fanart #our flag means death

horrorfemme1138

Day 17: Overboard

#oh ouchie #ofmd fanart #our flag means death

ofmc-twc

TWC2 - Panel Submissions Open

As promised, we are opening submissions for panels for The Wee Con 2!

What to know:

if you want to submit more than one panel, we need a form for each one

you need to be attending TWC in-person or online

We will be opening submissions for workshops in two weeks time. This form is only for panels and will close at the end of June.

All panel materials to be displayed on the screen will need to be submitted no later than two weeks before the event for digital prep.

Submit your panels here

#the wee con #ofmd twc #twc2

sectarianswamp

Дураки несусветные

#ofmd fanart #our flag means death #edward teach #gentlebeard

r0rys-insane

I started watching our flag means death for the first time yesterday I’m now on s2 and have already drawn ed twice lol

I need his gender so bad (ESPECIALLY in the bun)

Also I did not need another emo bitch with insane gender and childhood trauma but oh well

r0rys-insane

Okay so I have officially finished ofmd and oh my fucking god it’s so good but I am now crying so hard I can’t breathe soooo… here’s some more ed drawings I did

Idk if I like the second one but I loved him in that outfit he was so adorable (especially with all the jingles from the collar)

#edward teach #hand over the gender 😤#our flag means death

ofmdlovelyletters

🏴‍☠️ Happy Pride, crew! 🏳️‍🌈

Well, it's been a little while, hasn't it?

We're sorry for stepping away. Trust us, just like Ed and Stede's, our love for this fandom can't disappear in an instant. But unfortunately the mods were experiencing a sudden influx of stressful and traumatic events that made it impossible to keep up with running this blog.

But, it's Pride, and we all need love and community now more than ever, so we're thrilled to announce that OFMD Lovely Letters is open once again!

Send in your letters to your friends, to people whose posts you love, to crew members you hope to get to know better, to artists and writers and gif makers and fans who are constantly losing their shit in the tags. Send one to a new fan who just discovered the show, send one to someone who's been here since the very beginning. Send one to the fandom as a whole. Keep it anon, or let everyone see exactly who's sharing the love. We want it all.

This blog was originally created out of grief. The world was on fire, and we were missing our show. The fandom was in a place of deep pain, and we wanted to do whatever we could to try to boost the collective spirit of the crew.

Unfortunately, the world's still on fire, and we're still missing our show. There's still a lot of pain. But that love remains. This is a fandom that has consistently shown up for each other when it matters most, and we're so grateful to be a part of it.

Thank you so much for being here and for keeping the OFMD fandom flag flying high. We love you. We love you.

You came back. Never left.

#ofmd lovely letters #our flag means death