Post Katra period where Spock and McCoy are simultaneously divorced (they got married during the mission and divorced over the Kohlinar shit), married (got married again after tmp), and widowed (at least, McCoy is. Spock is legally kinda dead) and McCoy's decided to lean into the widowed thing. Keeps introducing himself at events as Spock's widow and Spock's there like 😮💨 I did the paperwork, my death was expunged, we are married, you are very annoying
I've been reminded of some of the crazier moments in tos. So.
They were engaged before Spock's pon Farr and McCoy broke up with him without talking about it so they took like six months to get back together. They were married by the time empathy rolls around, so I think Spock was widowed then. And when McCoy married the lady in the world is hollow that was straight up bigamy and to this day Spock teases him for it (even tho it was devastating when it happened)
So in my opinion it's;
Dating, engaged, separated, engaged, married, widowed, married, bigamy, dating, married, divorced, dating, engaged, married, widowed, married





















