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@lauxren
I fucking love jock villagers in animal crossing they're just like, "what is UP bro your triceps are looking particularly radiant today. Take this DIY card. Love you bro"
me: does anything
the mean 15 year old girl who lives inside my brain:
i love the quiet de-gendering of animal crossing. you can change your gender at any time and it does pretty much nothing. itâs not even called gender, itâs just called style. the villager dialogue boxes arent color-coded blue and pink anymore. shopkeepers dont comment if you buy the âwrongâ gender of clothing like they did before. your characterâs pronouns are rarely used, maybe not used at all? itâs great
chai tea (tea tea)
naan bread (bread bread)
sharia law (law law)
sahara desert (desert desert)
lake tahoe (lake lake)
el camino way (the way way)
pendle hill (hill hill hill)
soviet union (union union)
mississippi river (big river river)
the los angeles angels (the the angels angels)
hula dance (dance dance) dc comics (detective comics comics)
shakira (shakira)
Just a reminder you can donate to my Ko-Fi. I do a lot of unpaid bi and trans activist work and like to be able to eat. đ
My partner missed like a week of work as they have diverticulitis.
Any help is appreciated. â€
Modern poetry at its finest
In 20 years no oneâs gonna know what this means.
The super suit reference held up for like 14 years so Iâm not too sure about that.
love is so embarrassing . also the only thing that matters
why are so many people on this post saying things like âoh so what abt aromantic people then đâ like um⊠stumbling as u give up your seat for an elderly lady on the bus. stroking your friendâs hair as they cry in your arms. someone you care abt making you a long lovely playlist of songs you might like. attentively listening to your sibling as they talk excitedly about something they care abt. the sound of hundreds of people in unison singing a song they love at a concert. someone peeling a clementine and saving half of it for themselves and giving the other half to you. letting your cat crawl all over you even though her claws are scratchy. sitting in comfortable silence with someone. the pride shining in your grandfatherâs eyes when you facetime him and tell him abt what youâve been up to. taking a sip of your friendâs boba. people grinning at you when u blow out the candles on your birthday cake⊠these things arenât love to you? you guys donât consider that love? really? truly?
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@lambylin
thanks. i really needed this
im gonna cowboy up god willin
you may not be able to control the plot of your life, or the characters in it, or even the genre, but you can control one thing: the soundtrack. grab some headphones and make it a banger.
happy 2020 this post was about caramelldansen
Baby Driver, 2017
once again scottish twt comes through
my pet: *does anything*
me:
biggest hetero lie iâve been told: fighting is a part of a healthy romantic relationship
Disagreements are a part of every healthy relationship. Having bad days when youâre not your best self is a part of every healthy relationship. Fighting, disrespect, and insults? Those are not healthy at all.Â
NO OKAY THIS IS SO FUCKING TRUE. THIS BOILS MY GODDAMN BLOOD.
STORY TIME.
When I was 16 I had recently moved, and was attending a new school. About half-way through the school year, I started dating a guy I was friends with. He and I got on REALLY well. Like yeah we had disagreements and shit, but we always, ALWAYS talked about it and discussed our feelings and why things were making us upset. Every. Single. Time. We had a good system. And when we had disagreements we resolved them immediately. Otherwise we got along SO WELL. It was great I was really freaking happy and he was too!
About six months into my relationship, people, mostly my family members, commented about how WELL we got alongâŠa l m o s t like it was a bad thing. I didnât really think about it though, too involved in my own brain.
Skip ahead, to about a year-ish in. Friends of mine would sometimes get into fights with their significant others and theyâd tell me ALL about it and Iâm a good friend so Iâd listen and try to give advice. Except I never had anything when theyâd ask me, âOh well what do you do when you and J get into fights??â
And I never had an answer other than âWell we donât fight.â
And they never believed me. Or worse theyâd insist that was UNHEALTHY. âFighting is healthy, it lets out tension building up! You just need to sometimes!â
I never, EVER EVER felt comfortable with that, and Iâd shrug it off and insist we didnât NEED to fight. Our relationship was ALREADY healthy, especially because of the way we handled disagreements. People never listened and insisted there was something wrong, whether out-right stating it or hinting at it.
Even my best friend insisted that fighting was healthy, and I listened to her on nearly everything. Except for that. I didnât budge for anyone.
DO NOT LET PEOPLE FOOL YOU. FIGHTING IS NOT HEALTHY. DISAGREEMENTS ARE. BAD DAYS ARE OKAY. LEGITIMATE SCREAMING AND GOD FORBID PHYSICAL VIOLENCE IS. NOT. OKAY!!!
Donât be fooled guys, please. :/
Talking to one another through disagreements is the ONLY healthy way to handle disagreements in a relationship. Verbal, physical and psychological violence is NEVER healthy.
^ All of this!